Sex before marriage

Is it normal to have sex before marriage with consenting partners?

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Exactly. A woman who doesn't have sex with a man is less emotionally invested in him. Hence, she's coming from a position of strength. This power is stronger if no one has ever gotten to her.

Even secularists have their own mores around sexual activity where less is more. Especially for women. Women are at a biological disadvantage and have a higher parental investment than men.

Ever wonder why even these men do not like to hear about these women's body count. I wonder why? Because psychologically a man that is serious about a woman doesn't like the idea of someone else having been with her which includes non-Muslims. There are of course those few with cuckolding fetish or the consensually non monogamous types that don't care.
Very eloquently put, I've noticed that even the most liberal and open minded men will instinctively wince when hearing a woman's body count.
It's weird wallahi. I never thought I'd place this much importance on chastity and sharaf growing up, alhamdulilla though.
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Phiirso

Getting draids inshallah
Sex before marriage is haraam. If you care about your religion, follow your religion. If not however sex is as overrated as it gets and the biggest harm it causes is your inability to pair-bond with another person. This may or not be a good thing and that is up to you to decide, but one look at what is happening in the west should enlighten you on why destroying the shackles of commitment and marriage is bad for society.
 
Sex before marriage is haraam. If you care about your religion, follow your religion. If not however sex is as overrated as it gets and the biggest harm it causes is your inability to pair-bond with another person. This may or not be a good thing and that is up to you to decide, but one look at what is happening in the west should enlighten you on why destroying the shackles of commitment and marriage is bad for society.
Spot on saxib. It decays the moral fabric of society, but to cadaans having their teenage daughter get fucked upstairs while they drink lager and watch football downstairs is somehow "progressive and normal"
:russ: :chrisfreshhah:
 
All jokes aside, it is very easy to save yourself.

Zina is a tremendous sin and black mark to have tbh. It’s best to stay away from it. The west loves to normalize it but the truth is it is degeneracy.

It’s not so hard to avoid Zina. I have done it myself for 20 years, 2 months, 8 days, 16 hours, and 35 minutes.

what I won’t tolerate is marrying a non virgin. I’m a nice guy but if I was cheated I’d race to her aabos house, drop her off, and shake the old man down for my mehr as well :pachah1:

f*ck you thought this was:mjlaugh:
you need to hit wizard status (30+) in order to brag about being a virgin sxb a somali guy at our masjid who was 40+ was still one :mjcry:
 

Phiirso

Getting draids inshallah
Spot on saxib. It decays the moral fabric of society, but to cadaans having their teenage daughter get fucked upstairs while they drink lager and watch football downstairs is somehow "progressive and normal"
:russ: :chrisfreshhah:

I don't even blame them. I just feel sorry for them bro. They've been conditioned to think this is the right path that majority of them will fight you if you say otherwise. If you take a step back, it's crazy to think about the stuff we indoctrinate ourselves with that have a direct conflict with our best interests.
 

Sophisticate

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Very eloquently put, I've noticed that even the most liberal and open minded men will instinctively wince when hearing a woman's body count.
It's weird wallahi. I never thought I'd place this much importance on chastity and sharaf growing up, alhamdulilla though.
:rejoice:

They assume woeful ignorance in these matters. Even for them they prefer to settle down with a safe choice that hasn't been around. That is if a stable family life is what they have in mind. Even the philanderers like the idea of stability with a side of indiscretions.
 

Sophisticate

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Watch Abdisamad ask for adoption too.:mjlol:

He needs a father @Figo. I don't think I can do this single barent-ee of an adult male child alone.

I will spoil him and his [insert papa] with the best reer saylac cuisine. We even have a special way of making muqmaad/odkac.
 

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