BobSmoke
Flying over your heads
I was on ClubHouse and it was quite an interesting debate.
A lot of Xalimos were saying that the womens sins are between her and Allah and they she should not expose them, even to her husband. They were also saying that women get shamed for not being virgins so they want to protect themselves.
Lot's of Faraaxs were saying that if they were virgins their whole lives, they would want to marry someone who's a virgin. They also said that if a woman lies about her virginity before the marriage, it says a lot about her character and her morals, and that it would be a waste of money/time.
Thoughts? I can see where both sides are coming from but I'm goint to lean in with the faraaxs on this one. I would want to know EVERYTHING about my wifes past (If I'm going to spend the rest of my life with her), and I assume she would want to know everything about me.
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I genuinely think that the good boys, the non saqajaans should stay away from non virgin girls.
They would feel betrayed that they stayed away from fitna for a girl who cracked under pressure
Non virgin girls requires a different type of energy and openmindedness that virgin chaste niggas don't have.
And yes, I would ask her all types of questions about what she likes, if she's ever done this and whoopty woo. But she has to be able to trust you with her secrets for her to drop the mask. Aka don't make her feel like a h0e