Sometimes when there’s a emergency, hooyo will ask me to contribute, but that’s only that’s like twice a year or something. I do also send my grandma $100 every 3 monthsish, which she uses to pay for the Shiekh who reads Quran to her.
I don’t mind sending money in the future but only for proper fam who deserve it, one of my friends was asked to give money to her cousin so he could afford a second marriage, absolutely couldn’t be me