How is this any different from Xaalimo's that marry Somali's ? why are people surprised about this? They let them themselves go when they marry the proponents of obesity (black males) but keep themselves healthy & slim when they marry outside of that pathetic group of males.
The non blacks unlike us keep these Xaalimo's in check very early on by laying down the laws well before she gains her first pound, we do the opposite, let her grow so big to the point of "no return" then bolt on her or marry a second wife complaining about her weight once the horse has left the barn.
Keeping a women slim and healthy is not rocket science, it's very easy and the earlier you start the better. You ban all garbage items and bin them if you ever see them around the house followed by a dietary health lecture that involves protecting her and the baby.
if she's a diaspora chick you will have to first teach her from scratch how to cook healthy foods properly without oil, she will eat what you eat, if your disciplined she will simply follow your lead in this, the non blacks don't even teach them how to cook, they just buy them a health book to figure this out for herself, seen this many times.