Relative bugging me for cash

[Deactivated]

Get on Alibaba and send him a container of women lingerie.

He’ll sell out his container in 3 months.

Get him a website as well so he can do local deliveries discretely.

 

[GeKo]

Prehaps you and your family put money to get him something that can provide him a steady income eg. Tuk tuk or motorcycle, or even the portable tea carrier thing the Minnesota guy made. The little venture doesn't have to cost more than 4000$.
If he's not ready to work then its his problem.

 

[VixR]

Send the money to his elderly mother, the grandmother of the 1 year old, provided she's respectable herself. Don't sent it to him directly. She will make sure her grandchild is fed, and that way you're not rewarding lazy behavior and the low work ethic that has become so rampant.

How do you spit out children and then refuse to provide for them, instead demanding charity?

 

[Starscream]

What does that mean

They live in a trash can like oscar

 

[Asma]

I was thinking like that aswell But when I heard that he relies on his father to buy diapers and baby food and hes out late with friends I see no point to help him out I even got a friend who could line him up with a job But he refused

Don't help him, he refuses to get a job. If the kid is in poverty, send money to the mother secretly and tell her not to tell your cousin.

 

[Zailah]

Send the money to his elderly mother, the grandmother of the 1 year old, provided she's respectable herself. Don't sent it to him directly. She will make sure her grandchild is fed, and that way you're not rewarding lazy behavior and the low work ethic that has become so rampant.

How do you spit out children and then refuse to provide for them, instead demanding charity?

That’s actually a good idea

 

[AbdiJew]

Don't send him money.

Send him a month's supply of baby food or get a local to buy the baby food for him.