Refused their daughter to marry her love

[Waaqmasho]

Biimaal baa kaa sharaf badan , tariikh dheer leh ilaa kumanaan sanadood soo jireen , kuna kalsoon raadraaca isirkooda
una halgamay nafsooda , diintooda iyo dhuleedkooda xilliga gumeysiga ka jirtay Somalia
waa qabiil ku dayasho mudan leh
ee ma aysan ahayn sida qoloyinkiina ee aad Talyaniga kolba mar qiblada u wada dhigayseen , waaba arin soo jirta in awoowyaashaada sida dameerada loo rartay ama laga wada dhex baxay dhaboqoodi yahow feeraha qaawan
Gun yahow cuqdada dhishay
sida habar dhila ah kalsooni darida riday ee marba dhegacas isir u sheeganaya


Teeda kale , qabiilada maanta la takooro ama la hayb sooco waa dad tayo leh, caqli dhameystiran alle siiyay, xirfado badan leh marka qabiiladaan la barbar dhigo way ka nasabsan yihiin

Kuwaan caqli lix saaca iyo
xoolaha cawska dhaaqaya way siman yihiin maanta
Lamagoodle ayaa Somalia dunida dhib u dhac ku riday, burburisay ,
kana dhigtay kudhaafada caalamka

Marka kulama yaabayo , ey uraya waa lagu yaqaana in u qayl qayliyo
keep the noise down and afkaaga bulaacaada dhaboolo

Duli yahow feeraha qaawan
Fucking lamagoodle

Are you bimaal Madow?

 

[Leila]

bimaal i think

Biimaal are not considered a minority, they are Dir which is one of the “nasab” clans, they don’t even live in Galgaduud . I think the guy is Madhibaan.

Either way this is why the Somali culture is so messed up . Discrimination based on what your ancestors did hundreds of years ago.

 

[mr steal your naag]

Biimaal baa kaa sharaf badan , tariikh dheer leh ilaa kumanaan sanadood soo jireen , kuna kalsoon raadraaca isirkooda
una halgamay nafsooda , diintooda iyo dhuleedkooda xilliga gumeysiga ka jirtay Somalia
waa qabiil ku dayasho mudan leh
ee ma aysan ahayn sida qoloyinkiina ee aad Talyaniga kolba mar qiblada u wada dhigayseen , waaba arin soo jirta in awoowyaashaada sida dameerada loo rartay ama laga wada dhex baxay dhaboqoodi yahow feeraha qaawan
Gun yahow cuqdada dhishay
sida habar dhila ah kalsooni darida riday ee marba dhegacas isir u sheeganaya


Teeda kale , qabiilada maanta la takooro ama la hayb sooco waa dad tayo leh, caqli dhameystiran alle siiyay, xirfado badan leh marka qabiiladaan la barbar dhigo way ka nasabsan yihiin

Kuwaan caqli lix saaca iyo
xoolaha cawska dhaaqaya way siman yihiin maanta
Lamagoodle ayaa Somalia dunida dhib u dhac ku riday, burburisay ,
kana dhigtay kudhaafada caalamka

Marka kulama yaabayo , ey uraya waa lagu yaqaana in u qayl qayliyo
keep the noise down and afkaaga bulaacaada dhaboolo

Duli yahow feeraha qaawan
Fucking lamagoodle

 

[mr steal your naag]

Biimaal are not considered a minority, they are Dir which is one of the “nasab” clans, they don’t even live in Galgaduud . I think the guy is Madhibaan.

Either way this is why the Somali culture is so messed up . Discrimination based on what your ancestors did hundreds of years ago.

Lol i could care less if my daughters marry madhibaan. Niggas are so retarted back home if you hear the reason you will laugh

 

[exposedmeat]

Biimaal are not considered a minority, they are Dir which is one of the “nasab” clans, they don’t even live in Galgaduud . I think the guy is Madhibaan.

Either way this is why the Somali culture is so messed up . Discrimination based on what your ancestors did hundreds of years ago.

thanks, i didn't know i just guessed

 

[Jaydaan]

Im supposed to feel sorry for him? He deserves a bullet in the head. He married a mans daughter in secret and think ok accept me now. fvck out of here

 

[exposedmeat]

Im supposed to feel sorry for him? He deserves a bullet in the head. He married a mans daughter in secret and think ok accept me now. fvck out of here

 

[Desert Flower]

Very sad fellow Somalis still being discriminated against because their ancestor ate bakhti meat

I don’t even think that story is true. It’s a tale told to ostracize and humiliate a group of people (and it worked unfortunately).

This is so dumb, and why Somalis will forever be awful. Would it be better if she married an ajanabi instead? And @GemState I think what you’re saying is an excuse. Doubt her kids would be discriminated against. “Nobel” clans clash all the time too, so it doesn’t matter.

 

[Jaydaan]

It reminded me about that song Rude by a hippie. Ask her father can i have your daughter rest of my life say yes say yes. father say no and he says why you gotta be so rude im gonna marry her anyway. So the whole asking the father is basically a pretentious game cause they have no intention of respecting the families wish. So they said fvck off im married to her anyway. So the family moved her away.

 

[Jaydaan]

I don’t even think that’s story is true. It’s a tale told to ostracize and humiliate a group of people (and it worked unfortunately).

This is so dumb, and why Somalis will forever be awful. Would it be better if she married an ajanabi instead? And @GemState I think what you’re saying is an excuse. Doubt her kids would be discriminated against. “Nobel” clans clash all the time too, so it doesn’t matter.

There is nothing that says any somali approaching your daughter you have to give and then paint some scary picture would you rather her be with ajnabi. At some cases its better to marry ajnabi actually

 

[Desert Flower]

There is nothing that says any somali approaching your daughter you have to give and then paint some scary picture would you rather her be with ajnabi. At some cases its better to marry ajnabi actually

Of course, where did you get that from my post?

They loved each other, both are Muslim and Somali. That’s more than enough reason for a man to give his daughter to marry a man. I get the sense the father is the kind of guy that’ll force her to marry her rich cousin. Ridiculous.

I mentioned ajanabi because many girls end up with them after they’ve been refused the Somali man they loved.

 

[reer]

Doubt her kids would be discriminated against. “Nobel” clans clash all the time too, so it doesn’t matter.

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[Jaydaan]

Of course, where did you get that from my post?

They loved each other, both are Muslim and Somali. That’s more than enough reason for a man to give his daughter to marry a man. I get the sense the father is the kind of guy that’ll force her to marry her rich cousin. Ridiculous.

I mentioned ajanabi because many girls end up with them after they’ve been refused the Somali man they loved.

I agree unless there are really valid reasons you shouldnt refuse. But for me the fact that he didnt approach it right and had secret marriage with her makes his argument invalid. If he approached it right, then i would be on his side. This is more of I will take his daughter and now he has to accept it as he has no choice type of disrespect. so yeah I am not falling for his and his dads game

 

[Amirah]

Soomaali oo qoxooti lagu sadqeysto have refused their daughter to marry the man she loves

Oh well anyone stupid enough to listen to their uneducated narrow minded narcissistic parents is at fault. They can’t stop you from what’s halal, so to listen to them at the expense of your own happiness is your own fault.

 

[Jaydaan]

Oh well anyone stupid enough to listen to their uneducated narrow minded narcissistic parents is at fault. They can’t stop you from what’s halal, so to listen to them at the expense of your own happiness is your own fault.

secret marriage is not halal, so their marriage is not even halal

 

[Amirah]

secret marriage is not halal, so their marriage is not even halal

The secret marriage was wrong but once it happened and then they came forward the girl’s parents should’ve honored it and made it official esp since most likely the secret marriage was consummated.

 

[Jaydaan]

The secret marriage was wrong but once it happened and then they came forward the girl’s parents should’ve honored it and made it official esp since most likely the secret marriage was consummated.

so how do you stop secret marriages if we accpet every secret marriage and say oh well it has happened now. They had zina and just because of zina doesnt mean you have to give her away. With this thinking you might as well forget the girls family and just make secret marriage and she is your no matter what. They were wrong and the family refused to accept their wrongs and now they want to act like victims

 

[Amirah]

so how do you stop secret marriages if we accpet every secret marriage and say oh well it has happened now. They had zina and just because of zina doesnt mean you have to give her away. With this thinking you might as well forget the girls family and just make secret marriage and she is your no matter what. They were wrong and the family refused to accept their wrongs and now they want to act like victims

Let’s not bullshit because we all know Somalis always have done secret marriages. That’s how I even found out it existed through an elderly auntie who did it herself. We know in Islam it’s haram but it’s still widely practiced and recognized in the community. Had he been another qabil they would’ve definitely made the marriage halal.

 

[Hassan Garguute Buldanana]

He married her behind her father's back, any good will against this primitive discrimination is out of the window in this case. Most likely the father would have still rejected him, but still it would've have been the right way to go about it.

In general though, people need to stop this crap and judge the person on merit. That Tumaal brother would most likely take care of his wife and kids through handwork with his own hands while the so called landheere noble man would be calling relatives from abroad for money.

 

[Gantaal97]

This bs discrimination should end wallahi we're weird people disliking people who live amongst us in nabad speak the same language and dialect and culture and having the same religion shouldn't be treated like that. I hope Barkhad election in Hargeysa would provide a lesson to the ummaada soomalida to end this old archaic mindset and that this community isn't different than us as they're among us.