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Jake from State Farm
We pro xalimo all 2019
im diving into that pussy like Michael phelps.
But I seriously don't give a flying f*ck. I always considered marrying a non somali. Spoke to my parents about it before they wouldn't care. as long as the girl was Muslim they would be happy.
But I seriously don't give a flying f*ck. I always considered marrying a non somali. Spoke to my parents about it before they wouldn't care. as long as the girl was Muslim they would be happy.
That’s because you’re a guy. The story is a little different when a girl brings a non Somali home. They don’t even give the guy a chance.
Jake from State Farm
We pro xalimo all 2019
Contact a sheikh than. Cause if you parents are stopping you from being with a guy cause of his race. Than that is haram.
Saw this one lecture where this imam spoke about how these parents were pleading their daughter to get married to a man cause she was a lesbian. They had rejected her first potential spouse cause he was a black dude but now she liked vagina. So the parents were trying to convince her to get with the guy she originally wanted but it was too late. the sheikh spoke about how what they did was haram and etc.
Jake from State Farm
We pro xalimo all 2019
Tell her to get a sheikh involved.
Omnya
You shouldn’t have deleted your thread. It’s ok for Muslim men to marry any kind of a woman, why can’t a Muslim woman marry a Muslim man from a different ethnicity? It’s hypocrisy.
You shouldn’t have deleted your thread. It’s ok for Muslim men to marry any kind of a woman, why can’t a Muslim woman marry a Muslim man from a different ethnicity? It’s hypocrisy.
You shouldn’t have deleted your thread. It’s ok for Muslim men to marry any kind of a woman, why can’t a Muslim woman marry a Muslim man from a different ethnicity? It’s hypocrisy.[/QUOTE]
I know but as Somalis we have double standards. This same girl has a brother that wants to marry a morrocan girl and her parents are okay with it.
I know but as Somalis we have double standards. This same girl has a brother that wants to marry a morrocan girl and her parents are okay with it.
Muji
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How nice of you to be concerned about your ‘friend’ like this
Abayo there is a tide of hate which is soon to be coming your way, log off whilst you have the chance
Lool I don’t care Walalo. I Personally don’t have a thing against marrying a non Somali some people are okay with and it works just fine Lakiin I honestly care dhaqanka and the Somali language so non somali is not an option for me.
How nice of you to be concerned about your ‘friend’ like this
Abayo there is a tide of hate which is soon to be coming your way, log off whilst you have the chance
Continue to perpetuate the stereotype.
Moron, the parents have more authority over their child than the local imam. If they don't wish to marry their child to some stranger Ajnabi, it is their right as waalid. Dumb "muh ummah" fucks like you are the reason Somali females are considered cheap and clean. Handing out Somali females to ajnabi at mosques like popcorn at a fucking carnival.
Moron, the parents have more authority over their child than the local imam. If they don't wish to marry their child to some stranger Ajnabi, it is their right as waalid. Dumb "muh ummah" fucks like you are the reason Somali females are considered cheap and clean. Handing out Somali females to ajnabi at mosques like popcorn at a fucking carnival.
@Omnya
You ladies have to stand up to those blokes with primitive thoughts. That’s the reason why Somali parents discriminate other Somalis to marry their children because they consider them to be from a “low caste”. A primordial tribal culture.
Why are you quoting me?
I know but as Somalis we have double standards. This same girl has a brother that wants to marry a morrocan girl and her parents are okay with it.[/QUOTE]
If your parents say no let me know I will marry you off to the muslim guy of your choice.
Abuba
I quoted you because that sentiment is what the Op addressed in her initial post that she deleted.
There is nothing wrong with preferring your own. Cultural differences are there and some people don’t have the time to learn a new language to fit in with their in laws. There is no Hadith or surrah obligating you to sell you’re daughter or son to a ajanabi.
But at the same time you can’t judge others for marrying out, after all it’s not against the religion. There’s nuance to this.
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@Omnya
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It's a sticky situation tbh but the real reason why the parents are ok with their son marrying out is due to lineage, his children will carry his lineage and will be always be considered somali but with their daughter the children will not, as lineage is passed down through the father in islam. Lineage is one of the qualities that is sought after in marriage and in islam this is allowed.
Correct me if i'm wrong but it seems like the sister has been in touch with the revert brother for quite some time and is only deciding to inform her wali now after she vetted him herself,? enough time has gone by for her to develop feelings for this brother which further complicates this issue all together. Even if the sister had acted according to islam and informed her wali about the revert so as to let the wali do his job chances are he still would never accept him solely on his background never mind the issue with having non-muslim in laws etc
Only solution now is to go ahead and inform her wali about the brother and should they decide to reject him then best thing to do is move forward and forget this brother as it's only going to create more drama down the line tbh. I know it'll be hard but it's better than the alternatives out there
I just hope that she doesn't focus on her parent's rejection due to his lineage and say it's "haram/un-islamic" when she has interactions with a non mahram without the consent of her wali to begin with. Had she cared about what islam says then she wouldn't be talking to the revert brother in the first place, so how come rules didn't matter then but do now ?
We're all walking contradictions, best course of action is to focus on our's before we turn to others.
Asalam Aleikum
Salaanta ka dib
It's a sticky situation tbh but the real reason why the parents are ok with their son marrying out is due to lineage, his children will carry his lineage and will be always be considered somali but with their daughter the children will not, as lineage is passed down through the father in islam. Lineage is one of the qualities that is sought after in marriage and in islam this is allowed.
Correct me if i'm wrong but it seems like the sister has been in touch with the revert brother for quite some time and is only deciding to inform her wali now after she vetted him herself,? enough time has gone by for her to develop feelings for this brother which further complicates this issue all together. Even if the sister had acted according to islam and informed her wali about the revert so as to let the wali do his job chances are he still would never accept him solely on his background never mind the issue with having non-muslim in laws etc
Only solution now is to go ahead and inform her wali about the brother and should they decide to reject him then best thing to do is move forward and forget this brother as it's only going to create more drama down the line tbh. I know it'll be hard but it's better than the alternatives out there
I just hope that she doesn't focus on her parent's rejection due to his lineage and say it's "haram/un-islamic" when she has interactions with a non mahram without the consent of her wali to begin with. Had she cared about what islam says then she wouldn't be talking to the revert brother in the first place, so how come rules didn't matter then but do now ?
We're all walking contradictions, best course of action is to focus on our's before we turn to others.
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