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[Omnya]

tnis sight makes me wonder though if reverts are actually paying reduced and cheap mehr prices.

Most non Muslims don't even no about mehr. I told my friends about it once and they looked at me like .


They just tried to convice to marry a girl for free.99 like them.

None of them liked the idea of paying thousands of dollars for a chick

No the guy is half Arab so he knows about mehar and stuff.

 

[Nomad2054]

Nobody’s trying to marry nobody without their family’s consent.

oh yeah thats right, its about your friend right, i remember now.

considered yourself served.

 

[Woozie Mu]

So your telling me her parents have the Islamic right to deny a potential spouse based on their racist beliefs? that's haram.

I don't give a flying f*ck about this cheap and clean shit. A majority of people don't give a shit about this cheap and clean thing either.
Men and women should both be happy with who they want to marry.

You shouldn't be getting denied a spouse for stupid reasons like race.

We don't give a f*ck if its haram. Somalis for somalis only. f*ck Madows b. either hit the road or catch bullets.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

We don't give a f*ck if its haram. Somalis for somalis only. f*ck Madows b. either hit the road or catch bullets.

She trying to get with An Arab.

 

[Woozie Mu]

She trying to get with An Arab.

She will realise the mistake she made once he starts beating her ass like a donkey that hasnt moved in years. I dont understand how Somalis are so cheap and give their girls away so easily compared to Arabs and Asians.

 

[Omnya]

oh yeah thats right, its about your friend right, i remember now.

considered yourself served.

I don’t understand what your point is? Like even if this is about me I don’t see what the problem is.
weird character!!

 

[AdoonkaAlle]

@Omnya
Waan fahmay walaal but based on what you mentioned it does look like she has known him for quite some time to be that determined. I agree as well only way to move forward is by informing her parents and see what they have to say.

 

[Omnya]

@Omnya fyi this site hardly seems befitting to seek advice considering what goes on here

iska ilaali reer ss, intowda badan waa dad taagey !!!!!!!!

Be warned baan ku iri !!!!!!!!!!!

macsalam walaal

Hahahaha i agree walal. Thanks for your adivce

 

[Factz]

it’s my friend. She’s worried that since he is a revert and his family is still non Muslims this might give her parents further reasons to say no.

Huuno, that is awful news. Somali women that end up marrying reverts either become single mothers or abused for the rest of their lives. You should persuade your sister that this revert issue going on with Somali women is ridiculous and embarrassing. It brings nothing but bad reputation for Somali women and she's increasing that terrible stereotype of being cheap and clean. Tell her to stop being a self-hater and find a decent Somali man to marry. Heck, warn her parents about the bad news without her hearing it so they can refuse her marrying a revert.

 

[Omnya]

Huuno, that is awful news. Somali women that end up marrying reverts either become single mothers or abused for the rest of their lives. You should persuade your sister that this revert issue going on with Somali women is ridiculous and embarrassing. It brings nothing but bad reputation for Somali women and she's increasing that terrible stereotype of being cheap and clean. Tell her to stop being a self-hater and find a decent Somali man to marry. That's what you should really be doing sister.

Walal can we first stop this generalization about girls who go for reverts are self haters and will end up being single mothers and abused for life. I understand that lately a lot of Somali women are choosing reverts over Somali men and there’s different reasons why that is. Why don’t Somali men focus on why Somali women choose reverts over them and try and do something about it instead of saying Somali girls are cheap and self-haters. Cala kul xaal qof walba naasibkisuun buu qadan donaa.

 

[Factz]

Walal can we first stop this generalization about girls who go for reverts are self haters and will end up being single mothers and abused for life. I understand that lately a lot of Somali women are choosing reverts over Somali men and there’s different reasons why that is. Why don’t Somali men focus on why Somali women choose reverts over them and try and do something about it instead of saying Somali girls are cheap and self-haters. Cala kul xaal qof walba naasibkisuun buu qadan donaa.

Lol, most Somali women in the west marry Somali men. Somali women marrying reverts is only happening in the U.K while the rest of the diaspora are fine. Other Muslim communities are shocked at how the Somali community have weak parents. Different cultures with proud backgrounds don't marry out, especially to low quality ex-con reverts that Somali women be marrying, it's embarrassing. There are many decent Somali guys out there, it's not her excuse. She's just a self-hater, period. I have Somali brothers that want to marry out and I advise them why it's better for them to marry Somali women and I think you should do the same sister.

Anyways huuno, it's up to you. I honestly don't care.

 

[Horner]

Walal can we first stop this generalization about girls who go for reverts are self haters and will end up being single mothers and abused for life. I understand that lately a lot of Somali women are choosing reverts over Somali men and there’s different reasons why that is. Why don’t Somali men focus on why Somali women choose reverts over them and try and do something about it instead of saying Somali girls are cheap and self-haters. Cala kul xaal qof walba naasibkisuun buu qadan donaa.

Don't listen to the qasaros of this site. Tell your friend that she should stand her ground and not give in to outside pressure. She's not a self-hater nor cheap. That's just something people say to shame her into submission. It's her life and she's the one who's going to be living it, not her parents or the qashin of SSpot.

 

[AussieHustler]

Don't listen to the qasaros of this site. Tell your friend that she should stand her ground and not give in to outside pressure. She's not a self-hater nor cheap. That's just something people say to shame her into submission. It's her life and she's the one who's going to be living it, not her parents or the qashin of SSpot.

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[AarHawd_7]

Don't listen to the qasaros of this site. Tell your friend that she should stand her ground and not give in to outside pressure. She's not a self-hater nor cheap. That's just something people say to shame her into submission. It's her life and she's the one who's going to be living it, not her parents or the qashin of SSpot.

So its okay disobeying your parents who raised you and went through shit with you? You'd rather have her choose for her own luck instead of her parents? You should stop giving people advise, cuz your breaking a relationship between a girl and her parents.

Always choose your parents luck above yours. Jannah is under the feet of your mum. Not some adoon or arab guy she will forget about in a few months.

 

[Omnya]

So its okay disobeying your parents who raised you and went through shit with you? You'd rather have her choose for her own luck instead of her parents? You should stop giving people advise, cuz your breaking a relationship between a girl and her parents.

Always choose your parents luck above yours. Jannah is under the feet of your mum. Not some adoon or arab guy she will forget about in a few months.

We know that walalo. Your family comes first. Qof an khayer ahelkeesa oo lahayn qof kale khayer oo noqon mayo

 

[Horner]

So its okay disobeying your parents who raised you and went through shit with you? You'd rather have her choose for her own luck instead of her parents? You should stop giving people advise, cuz your breaking a relationship between a girl and her parents.

Always choose your parents luck above yours. Jannah is under the feet of your mum. Not some adoon or arab guy she will forget about in a few months.

Her parents don't own her. She can show them love and gratitude for raising her, without letting them dictate every part of her life. She shouldn't make of herself a sacrificial lamb just for the sake of her parents. If her parents would disown her for this, that's on them and not her.

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

Don't listen to the qasaros of this site. Tell your friend that she should stand her ground and not give in to outside pressure. She's not a self-hater nor cheap. That's just something people say to shame her into submission. It's her life and she's the one who's going to be living it, not her parents or the qashin of SSpot.

You’re a special type of neef to advise someone to go against their parents wishes.

Walal can we first stop this generalization about girls who go for reverts are self haters and will end up being single mothers and abused for life. I understand that lately a lot of Somali women are choosing reverts over Somali men and there’s different reasons why that is. Why don’t Somali men focus on why Somali women choose reverts over them and try and do something about it instead of saying Somali girls are cheap and self-haters. Cala kul xaal qof walba naasibkisuun buu qadan donaa.

Except the stereotypes in this case are true. Somali women in mosques typically go for ex-con reverts who are losers and have no prospects in life. Sheikhs will advise reverts who are having trouble getting married to Arab or Cadaan women to go for a Somali woman as a last resort because they have no standards. Don’t get mad when people start pointing out your shenanigans.

 

[Omnya]

You’re a special type of neef to advise someone to go against their parents wishes.



Except the stereotypes in this case are true. Somali women in mosques typically go for ex-con reverts who are losers and have no prospects in life. Sheikhs will advise reverts who are having trouble getting married to a Arab or Cadaan to go for a Somali woman as they have no standards. Don’t get mad when people start point out your shenanigans.

Nobodys mad here but why do you think Somali women choose these ex-con reverts who have no prospects in life over Somali men?

 

[AarHawd_7]

Her parents don't own her. She can show them love and gratitude for raising her, without letting them dictate every part of her life. She shouldn't make of herself a sacrificial lamb just for the sake of her parents. If her parents would disown her for this, that's on them and not her.

You cant love and yet disobey your parents. Yes your parents OWN you. What? your mum went through all of that pain for 9 whole months, raised you till u became big for you to disobey her and choose for your own luck? You sound like a gaal

 

[Factz]

@Horner What the #### happen to you?

What I stated was true. You have Sheikhs advising reverts to go for Somali women as they are easy, cheap and clean. Even Muslim Anjabis see Somali women as cheap alternatives with a very low standard. I mean these reverts that Somali women be marrying are ex-cons.

What I'm trying to do is to break this horrible stereotype and bring back the Somali women nobility. I can even tell you Xalimos from London like @yaskaaa who seen some horrible shit. She's even disgusted and many self-respecting Xalimos are