Question for y'all

[Jaydaan]

I get more enjoyment out of a good show and bomb food than I ever did running around with my friends. I love how simple my life is right now.

Like anything if you leave it for long time you will forget how to do it. Don’t be one of those who forgets how to socialise with people and become awkward

 

[Happy_]

Are any of you voluntarily introverts. Like you deliberately become a introvent from a extrovert. Like u just ghosted and people were like where the f*ck did you go.

Cause I had this little period in which I just blocked a bunch of people, changed my number and just keep to myself.

The only issue is that am still kinda on my ones. Am not saying I don't have any friends but not many and miss the old days when I literally was well known across my city.

I moved to london and I am new to the city, without knowing anyone. I have family that's about it. But yeah am kinda a loner in that city.. don't get me twisted my nigga, It ain't that bad. I see family when I need to. I work, go to the mosque and go to uni. But sometimes( a well placed astaghfirullah there, for the Muslim police) smoke weed and would like to have a larger social circle then my cousins know, for gyal. Should I stop being so reserved and be more willing to make friends. I just seem like f*ck it, it's too much energy, but anyway. What do you think?

Hmm, lets see I think you should stop smoking weed, make tawba and never look back. Let‘s start there haaye

 

[Basra]

The day you drop dead qumayoyahay ilkaha la’

 

[NotMyL]

I get more enjoyment out of a good show and bomb food than I ever did running around with my friends. I love how simple my life is right now.

I can relate to this so much, I make plans with my friends weeks ahead of time only to regret and cry about it on the day lol nothing excites me more than to cuddle with hubby and watch a good show. We watched like 6 episodes of Peaky blinder since Friday.

 

[Basra]

I can relate to this so much, I make plans with my friends weeks ahead of time only to regret and cry about it on the day lol nothing excites me more than to cuddle with hubby and watch a good show. We watched like 6 episodes of Peaky blinder since Friday.

Your imaginary husband is shinning in heaven

 

[NotMyL]

Your imaginary husband is shinning in heaven

Lol inshAllah so ducaaye qumaayo may we all enter jannatul firdaus

 

[Basra]

Lol inshAllah so ducaaye qumaayo may we all enter jannatul firdaus

 

[Mckenzie]

Damn reminds me of myself, i lived in Bristol and Milton Keynes throughout younger years but came to London to see fam and Uni. If you moved to London from another UK city, get a car and drive back home every few weeks. But 20 is still young enough to make new friends as long as you're in education. I personally never liked smoking bud with niggas i don't know, unless they're a mutual friend. Anyway pick and choose wisely because once you have a fulltime job, you're stuck with the same ppl for 40hrs a week and life will fast track you into adulthood.

 

[TheAnswer]

Depends on you and what you like.

95% of people are airheads full of vacuous small talk about commonplace things. I can tolerate them for limited amounts of time, but i dont want to be around them all the time. in fact, i have maybe a 30 minute daily limit for vacuous small talk--beyond that, i disengage completely. I have no problem straight up ignoring my co-workers and roommates if their idle chatter does not interest me. (unintentionally, this sometimes gives me a 'mysterious' aura that seems to attract them more, which is sort of annoying).

But if I find some people who I can have deeper and more interesting conversations with, we hit it off immediately and develop a good friendship. Quality over quantity.

seek out people who make you happy and keep your interest. dont feel like you need to be around people 24/7 just to live up to some dumb social expectation.

 

[Basra]

Depends on you and what you like.

95% of people are airheads full of vacuous small talk about commonplace things. I can tolerate them for limited amounts of time, but i dont want to be around them all the time. in fact, i have maybe a 30 minute daily limit for vacuous small talk--beyond that, i disengage completely. I have no problem straight up ignoring my co-workers and roommates if their idle chatter does not interest me. (unintentionally, this sometimes gives me a 'mysterious' aura that seems to attract them more, which is sort of annoying).

But if I find some people who I can have deeper and more interesting conversations with, we hit it off immediately and develop a good friendship. Quality over quantity.

seek out people who make you happy and keep your interest. dont feel like you need to be around people 24/7 just to live up to some dumb social expectation.

So r u an angel or a devil?

 

[Foxy]

Hmm, lets see I think you should stop smoking weed, make tawba and never look back. Let‘s start there haaye

Inshallah qurux, I will do

 

[TheAnswer]

So r u an angel or a devil?

I am an angel who can metamorphose into a devil when the situation calls for it

 

[Basra]

I am an angel who can metamorphose into a devil when the situation calls for it

 

[Mahacagalla]

Depends on you and what you like.

95% of people are airheads full of vacuous small talk about commonplace things. I can tolerate them for limited amounts of time, but i dont want to be around them all the time. in fact, i have maybe a 30 minute daily limit for vacuous small talk--beyond that, i disengage completely. I have no problem straight up ignoring my co-workers and roommates if their idle chatter does not interest me. (unintentionally, this sometimes gives me a 'mysterious' aura that seems to attract them more, which is sort of annoying).

But if I find some people who I can have deeper and more interesting conversations with, we hit it off immediately and develop a good friendship. Quality over quantity.

seek out people who make you happy and keep your interest. dont feel like you need to be around people 24/7 just to live up to some dumb social expectation.

Yeah I feel the same way about it. But when I shutdown it doesn't attract people it ostracizes me and then I regret it

 

[Mahacagalla]

I completely get you, sometimes it's better to have the independence and not have to reliable on any one on how you should. I fucking hated drama, and the people I know all loved drama and fighting and shit. That ain't me, am a miskeen. I love to read books, watch anime and am a massive american hip hop fan. I was just completely different from the get go and I just thought if I want to be me. I have to change or they will change me. Loooool that's a lot of stuff but yeah

Just find friends that are more similar to you. Or just talk to your friends and suck it up noone is perfect. You should value them, being isolated is not sustainable and shows can only distract you for so long. You will regret being a hermit in the long run.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Mess around with those and you might poke an eye out.