Question for y'all

[Foxy]

Are any of you voluntarily introverts. Like you deliberately become a introvent from a extrovert. Like u just ghosted and people were like where the f*ck did you go.

Cause I had this little period in which I just blocked a bunch of people, changed my number and just keep to myself.

The only issue is that am still kinda on my ones. Am not saying I don't have any friends but not many and miss the old days when I literally was well known across my city.

I moved to london and I am new to the city, without knowing anyone. I have family that's about it. But yeah am kinda a loner in that city.. don't get me twisted my nigga, It ain't that bad. I see family when I need to. I work, go to the mosque and go to uni. But sometimes( a well placed astaghfirullah there, for the Muslim police) smoke weed and would like to have a larger social circle then my cousins know, for gyal. Should I stop being so reserved and be more willing to make friends. I just seem like f*ck it, it's too much energy, but anyway. What do you think?

 

[Basra]

I think u should take your head medication

 

[Abdi Nur]

I think u should take your head medication

lmao

 

[IstarZ]

Sometimes your soul craves solitude. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[Foxy]

I think u should take your head medication

It seems I will not being getting reasonable responds from people on this site. I miss the days when the people were funny and weren't irrationally. This site literally used to be great

 

[Foxy]

Sometimes your soul craves solitude. Nothing wrong with that.

That's true but why do you think that is? Ain't we social creatures . Surely wanting to be alone, as we all do it, is alien to our nature? So why do we do it?

 

[Abdalla]

People change. I use to be super extrovert growing up, but became more quiet as I got older. It seems like you don't have a social life, try to find like minded people. I never forced myself onto friendships. If we click we click, if we don't, we don't.

I'm from the generation that moved on a large scale to the UK. I've lost tens of great childhood friends to the UK.

 

[Jaydaan]

Are any of you voluntarily introverts. Like you deliberately become a introvent from a extrovert. Like u just ghosted and people were like where the f*ck did you go.

Cause I had this little period in which I just blocked a bunch of people, changed my number and just keep to myself.

The only issue is that am still kinda on my ones. Am not saying I don't have any friends but not many and miss the old days when I literally was well known across my city.

I moved to london and are new, without knowing anyone. I have family that's about it. But yeah am kinda a loner in that city.. don't get me twisted my nigga, It ain't that bad. I see family when I need to. I work, go to the mosque and go to uni. But sometimes( a well placed astaghfirullah there, for the Muslim police) smoke weed and would like to have a larger social circle then my cousins know, for gyal. Should I stop being so reserved and be more willing to make friends. I just seem like f*ck it, it's too much energy, but anyway. What do you think?

how old are? It’s hard to make friends in a big city like London when you don’t have roots there. The older people get the harder it is to make true friends. I say be open, but don’t force anything. People will notice if you are desperate and will use it against you. All my closest friends I made them before 15

 

[Foxy]

how old are? It’s hard to make friends in a big city like London when you don’t have roots there. The older people get the harder it is to make true friends. I say be open, but don’t force anything. People will notice if you are desperate and will use it against you. All my closest friends I made them before 15

Am like twenty. Yeah and I get you akhi. Am completely rooted in another city and that fact I haven't connected with anyone from this city from young, makes it probably harder for me. All my friends from back home I have known since I was like 5 to 9 literally bro.

 

[IstarZ]

That's true but why do you think that is? Ain't we social creatures . Surely wanting to be alone, as we all do it, is alien to our nature? So why do we do it?

We need time to re-energize our body and mind. Our lives are so busy and we’re constantly on the go and too readily accessible via different modes.

You made a choice to disconnect so you can reconnect with them at any time or find new connections. Time for new experiences, perhaps?

 

[Jaydaan]

Am like twenty. Yeah and I get you akhi. Am completely rooted in another city and that fact I haven't connected with anyone from this city from young, makes it probably harder for me. All my friends from back home I have known since I was like 5 to 9 literally bro.

i moves to uk at 19 and had only family. Luckily 2-3 childhood friends moved 3 years later. I have got to know people here. But it’s never like the people I grew up with. As adults you can’t make that connection

 

[Basra]

We need time to re-energize our body and mind. Our lives are so busy and we’re constantly on the go and too readily accessible via different modes.

You made a choice to disconnect so you can reconnect with them at any time or find new connections. Time for new experiences, perhaps?

When are you going to disconnect to your appetite for food?

 

[IstarZ]

When are you going to disconnect to your appetite for food?

The day you drop dead qumayoyahay ilkaha la’

 

[Furioso]

Are any of you involuntarily introverts. Like you deliberately become a introvent from a extrovert. Like u just ghosted and people were like where the f*ck did you go.

Cause I had this little period in which I just blocked a bunch of people, changed my number and just keep to myself.

The only issue is that am still kinda on my ones. Am not saying I don't have any friends but not many and miss the old days when I literally was well known across my city.

I moved to london and are new, without knowing anyone. I have family that's about it. But yeah am kinda a loner in that city.. don't get me twisted my nigga, It ain't that bad. I see family when I need to. I work, go to the mosque and go to uni. But sometimes( a well placed astaghfirullah there, for the Muslim police) smoke weed and would like to have a larger social circle then my cousins know, for gyal. Should I stop being so reserved and be more willing to make friends. I just seem like f*ck it, it's too much energy, but anyway. What do you think?

I was very extroverted when I was younger. I wasn’t shy and made friends easily. I changed in high school and deleted all my social media accounts. I was tired of how dramatic my friends made my life and distanced myself. My high school is very big which made it even easier to avoid my old friends. For the past few years I’ve kept to myself. I don’t put any effort into my friendships anymore. My friends are just people I talk to at school, and I like it that way. We only talk about schoolwork. I’m at the point where I’m so comfortable doing everything alone that I don’t want someone else tagging along. I don’t have a social life and don’t give a shit. If it bothers you, fix it. If it doesn’t, there’s nothing wrong with your life the way it is.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Are any of you voluntarily introverts. Like you deliberately become a introvent from a extrovert. Like u just ghosted and people were like where the f*ck did you go.

Cause I had this little period in which I just blocked a bunch of people, changed my number and just keep to myself.

The only issue is that am still kinda on my ones. Am not saying I don't have any friends but not many and miss the old days when I literally was well known across my city.

I moved to london and I am new to the city, without knowing anyone. I have family that's about it. But yeah am kinda a loner in that city.. don't get me twisted my nigga, It ain't that bad. I see family when I need to. I work, go to the mosque and go to uni. But sometimes( a well placed astaghfirullah there, for the Muslim police) smoke weed and would like to have a larger social circle then my cousins know, for gyal. Should I stop being so reserved and be more willing to make friends. I just seem like f*ck it, it's too much energy, but anyway. What do you think?

Yes i do. our prophet use to go in the cave as well. Is ok to want to have your own privacy here and there just make sure its productive.

 

[Lostbox]

For me socializing is basically me acting extroverted.

 

[Foxy]

I was very extroverted when I was younger. I wasn’t shy and made friends easily. I changed in high school and deleted all my social media accounts. I was tired of how dramatic my friends made my life and distanced myself. My high school is very big which made it even easier to avoid my old friends. For the past few years I’ve kept to myself. I don’t put any effort into my friendships anymore. My friends are just people I talk to at school, and I like it that way. We only talk about schoolwork. I’m at the point where I’m so comfortable doing everything alone that I don’t want someone else tagging along. I don’t have a social life and don’t give a shit. If it bothers you, fix it. If it doesn’t, there’s nothing wrong with your life the way it is.

I completely get you, sometimes it's better to have the independence and not have to reliable on any one on how you should. I fucking hated drama, and the people I know all loved drama and fighting and shit. That ain't me, am a miskeen. I love to read books, watch anime and am a massive american hip hop fan. I was just completely different from the get go and I just thought if I want to be me. I have to change or they will change me. Loooool that's a lot of stuff but yeah

 

[Foxy]

For me socializing is basically me acting extroverted.

It's hard to act all the time. Sometimes you just have to be you and it's hard akhi

 

[Furioso]

I completely get you, sometimes it's better to have the independence and not have to reliable on any one on how you should. I fucking hated drama, and the people I know all loved drama and fighting and shit. That ain't me, am a miskeen. I love to read books, watch anime and am a massive american hip hop fan. I was just completely different from the get go and I just thought if I want to be me. I have to change or they will change me. Loooool that's a lot of stuff but yeah

I get more enjoyment out of a good show and bomb food than I ever did running around with my friends. I love how simple my life is right now.

 

[Lostbox]

It's hard to act all the time. Sometimes you just have to be you and it's hard akhi

I agree. Ye, sometimes it's exhausting but it's the access and use he opportunity it has opens that keeps me going. That only if you are in the right circles. From women, houses, business, and so on. You get through others, it's get easier as you connect with higher circles. Of you lock yourself in your room all day you get nothing. People are always connecting and exchanging.