were you looking to get married to a 20 year old halimo and she then rejected you ?Females mature far quicker then male's especially <25, the male only begins to slowly catch up >25.
The fact that she is attracted to a dude who is less mature then she is on every conceivable level, is a sign of how low her intelligence is.
But what makes this even worse for our Xaalimo's unlike other females from different races were it happens by chance is that unlike them they deliberately seek out such male's for marriage.
They have this flawed twisted mentality that somehow some doqon around her age is a far better match for her then someone older and more mature, this even goes against there basic biological predisposition for hypergamy. (which explains why they are the worst females today in the diaspora)
I have only ever seen Xaalimo's in the diaspora behave this way, whether it's on the streets, workplace or even on matrimonial sites.
If you actually do the maths and probability for first generation immigrant from refugee parents, and account for school, college, university, intern position, junior position etc. in general it isn't until late 20's when the dude can even take care of a family from a financial standpoint.