Question for men

[Yankee]

no i would lose respect for them

Why? Give me a good reason saxib

 

[Yankee]

i have siil pictures on my phone im always sending it to my guys who cares no face no case

How does it feel role playing as a dhîlo on the internet?

 

[Yankee]

Stay away from such woman. She doesn't have morals at all.

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[Yankee]

NO FACE! NO CASE!

Allah sees all cases he created all faces

 

[Odious Delirium]

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So you basically as bad as her why did you entertain it and not shut it down straight away. She would only keep sending you stuff if she believed she was getting positive feed back from yourself

 

[Yankee]

No thats haram and in general if she's willing to send me nudes she's probably sent it to many other guys before me that's a turn off and I'm not sending anyone nudes.

For the longest I beat myself down thinking I had to compromise my morals just to make another human being happy. I no longer feel that way. I agree with you, that shit is a complete turn off. Some guys think they’re special little do they know that’s her speciality

 

[Yankee]

So you basically as bad as her why did you entertain it and not shut it down straight away. She would only keep sending you stuff if she believed she was getting positive feed back from yourself

She dragged me down into her lifestyle, I thought it was cool having a girlfriend and all. Sometimes I believe it was peer pressure, she said we were a couple and I went with it.

 

[JigjigaKismaayo]

It’s too early to be contradicting yourself already. What sort of advice would you give him? And technically by telling him to change his ways aren’t you encouraging him to leave his relationship behind? So you do care?

no because if he can change himself, she can change herself and the two reformed X thowts can now get married.

 

[Yankee]

no because if he can change himself, she can change herself and the two reformed X thowts can now get married.

Brother one thing my father has taught me is never try and change a woman, woman don’t change for men, they change for themselves.

 

[JigjigaKismaayo]

Brother one thing my father has taught me is never try and change a woman, woman don’t change for men, they change for themselves.

If she's changed, who cares how or why?

 

[Yankee]

If she's changed, who cares how or why?

Okay I respect your beliefs

 

[Yankee]

@JigjigaKismaayo
What if she was the one leading your son on? Encouraging him? You should never rush to conclusions. But still you’ll make a great father one day lol

 

[Mozart]

Only on somalispot do males complain about being sent nudes

 

[Yankee]

Only on somalispot do males complain about being sent nudes

No one’s complaining here but seems like you are bro, haadi iska dhig

 

[BobSmoke]

Be honest guys. You’re seeing someone who you’re really into so you decide to exchange explicit videos/photos with them, will this be considered a red flag to you? And how do you feel after receiving those nudes? Do you still feel the same way about her? Do you respect her still? Because I don’t

She's just a good timer not long timer

 

[Odious Delirium]

She dragged me down into her lifestyle, I thought it was cool having a girlfriend and all. Sometimes I believe it was peer pressure, she said we were a couple and I went with it.

Is this person somali or a random?

 

[JigjigaKismaayo]

@JigjigaKismaayo
What if she was the one leading your son on? Encouraging him? You should never rush to conclusions. But still you’ll make a great father one day lol

listen bro, humans are prone to making mistakes. I don't see why we should punish chicks more harshly than dudes. we need to raise our kids upright, with morals and good character based on our religion and culture. However, if they still make mistakes, we should be more interested in rehabing them than punishing them. With that said, unless my son is a minor and she's way older than him, I cannot accept that he's outsmarted because if he is, then I should be very concerned. Stupid kid like that are the ones blowing up innocent people back home, because they are stupid and they are easy to manipulate.

long rant but you asked for it man!

 

[Sajid]

Only dogs eat a rotten meat

 

[Odious Delirium]

Only on somalispot do males complain about being sent nudes

Bro we are Muslims at the end of the day degenerate behaviour is unacceptable to most of us and we are all trying to be better Muslims

 

[Odious Delirium]

She dragged me down into her lifestyle, I thought it was cool having a girlfriend and all. Sometimes I believe it was peer pressure, she said we were a couple and I went with it.

If you believe she is the one I would say get together in a halal way since your basically at the same level as each other instead of acting holier than thou go about this like a man.

Just correct her and tell her to stop sending it and explain to her that she is disrespecting herself. If she reacts negatively then cut her off.

It's possible that she really likes you and has received ill gotten advice on how to keep a hold on your attention so it could be that she was peer pressured to send those nudes to you in the first place and you reciprocating her energy probably encouraged her to send more validating the advice she received.