Question for men are you ok marrying Xalimo with ex spouse being ajnabi?

[Homerlilian]

This is well beyond gatekeeping. They are not fixated on who these girls are with. The vast majority of which will marry Somali. Many of which do not commit Zina. This is largely an issue of collective antagonism of Somali women. Notice how they see them in a one dimensional way. Undifferentiated with the same tastes and preferences. Which is far from true.They might be attracted to them but despise them. I do not think they get that each "Somali" woman has her own set of standards and getting with one does not grant you universal access to all.

Also, not all incels are nefarious and women hating. That appears to be a cop out for bad behaviour. That would not be excused no matter their appearance. Some men are blatant misgonists independent of marital status or dating options.

I never get mad when our women are complimented for their beauty I take with a sense of pride and if they mock them I feel just as hurt . I’ve seen both sides . I’ve said this before if I try make sense of what goes in these peoples mind I feel as if I would go crazy so I just blame the shaytaan and his whispers . If I don’t then I’m forever doomed with confusion and burning rage which Is not good for my mental health .

 

[Vapour]

Bit silly this. A man is a man. I don’t plan on marrying a divorcee no matter the background.

 

[_Yusuf_]

I can’t imaging marrying Xalimo who ex husband was ajnabi, and worst if she have mixed kids.

She'd have to be a ultra-rare exceptional 1 of 1 for me to think about it.