Question for men are you ok marrying Xalimo with ex spouse being ajnabi?

[Kisame]

Hey if she dates a somali man and even had sex with him as long as its just one or two former boyfriends who are somalis its okey imo.
But where isue is if they ajnabi.

Somali gender dynamics are different in the west lool. Somalis here are very conservative. Lots of these guys don't even date xalimos until it's time for marriage.

Even though they don't date they still don't want to see xalimos dating other ajnabis. Xalimos have even spoken about not wanting to be with abdis that have dated ajnabi women.

Somali men tend to be the loudest regarding this issue though.

Also some Somali women that have dated ajnabis have pissed off Somali men because they go on social media and attack Somali men.

 

[galhareeri]

Nah bro am not going to marry zina woman
Even if she does it with Somali man.

Bro i too had somali girlfriends imo that why i dont mind

 

[NomadicWarlord]

Hey if she dates a somali man and even had sex with him as long as its just one or two former boyfriends who are somalis its okey imo.
But where isue is if they ajnabi.

Nope I also aint gon marry a xalimo that was committing zina/got her genitals touched weather somali or not

 

[bohom]

Bro i too had somali girlfriends imo that why i dont mind

Don't expose your sins publicly..

 

[galhareeri]

Somali gender dynamics are different in the west lool. Somalis here are very conservative. Lots of these guys don't even date xalimos until it's time for marriage.

Even though they don't date they still don't want to see xalimos dating other ajnabis. Xalimos have even spoken about not wanting to be with abdis that have dated ajnabi women.

Somali men tend to be the loudest regarding this issue though.

Also some Somali women that have dated ajnabis have pissed off Somali men because they go on social media and attack Somali men.

Bro i am here in somalia not the west

 

[Kisame]

You illiterate doqon. I asked will you be ok marrying Xalimo who’s husband was ajnabi.

As long as she wasn't a divestor I'd be willing to marry one whose ex husband was an ajnabi.

They wouldn't be a first option though lool. Like why marry a divorcee if I can just find a single and never married ajnabi women.

 

[Mudug_gyal]

The prophet the best of mankind got with a woman with kids from multiple previous marriages. Just who are you to judge?

 

[Laiis]

Men are tribalistic. Especially if they only date women within their ethnic group. They will automatically assume the chick doesn't f*ck with men from her ethnic group if they see them with an ajnabi.

These women are even more despised if they marry or date men from an ethnic group that has caused trouble with their ethnic counter parts. So a Somali women in the UK that marries a Jamaican would probably get a lot more hate than a Somali women that marries a morrocan.


Madow niggas on boxden/thecoli hate madow women that date cadaan niggas. Hispanic niggas hate Hispanic women that date madow niggas, and etc. It happens in every community.

Divestors from these communities have also added by dissing their ethnic counter parts just to prop men from other ethnic groups.

Only reason my opinion is different than most of these niggas is because Ive dated and considered settling down with an ajnabi.

Interesting.. I still find it weird. You can like more than one ethnic group without being a self hater

 

[Kisame]

Bro i too had somali girlfriends imo that why i dont mind

Yea you guys back home in Somalia have a dating culture.

Somalis in the west don't have this

 

[Laiis]

As long as she wasn't a divestor I'd be willing to marry one whose ex husband was an ajnabi.

They wouldn't be a first option though lool. Like why marry a divorcee if I can just find a single and never married ajnabi women.

Nigga really hates divestors

 

[Nin123]

Bro i too had somali girlfriends imo that why i dont mind

In Mogadishu or the island you did your studies?

 

[galhareeri]

In Mogadishu or the island you did your studies?

Even in that island i did only for once though but .
Also in nairobi.

 

[galhareeri]

Yea you guys back home in Somalia have a dating culture.

Somalis in the west don't have this

Here in xamar we cal it qudbo siro. Its nit dating but secret mariage

 

[Nin123]

Even in that island i did only for once though but .
Also in nairobi.

What about in Mogadishu? Is it common there?

 

[galhareeri]

What about in Mogadishu? Is it common there?

Qudbo siro fo u know it its comon. Bro

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Qudbo siro fo u know it its comon. Bro

I swear thats haram

 

[Kisame]

Interesting.. I still find it weird. You can like more than one ethnic group without being a self hater

Tbh most men are like this.

The only ones willing to date chicks that have dated out were very liberal and westernized men.

Look at white conservatives for example. They literally hate white women that date madow niggas. Conservative madow niggas feel the same way about madow women that date white men.

Plus since Somalis don't have a dating culture compared to other ethnic groups, being seen in public with an ajnabi can pretty much ruin your chances of finding any decent marriage prospects.

 

[galhareeri]

B

What about in Mogadishu? Is it common there?

Ro as long ss the gurl is cute if lets say she had boyfriend before who is somali. Than i become her bkyfriend we date than we can mary i wont mind wah. As longs its a somali man

 

[Nin123]

I swear thats haram

Yeah it’s haram but this will not stop people from doing it.

 

[Kisame]

Nigga really hates divestors

Madow chick called me a bullet bag on twitter back in 2019. Ive had beef with ever since