Question for men are you ok marrying Xalimo with ex spouse being ajnabi?

[Laiis]

Nah am pretty sure that city folks are lean and rural folks are conservative.

Cringe why is a grown atheer talking about zina subhanallah

 

[Nin123]

Cringe why is a grown atheer talking about zina subhanallah

Even with old age will not stop
Me from chasing this malab.

 

[Kisame]

I doubt it
maybe it’s best to not disclose any info of your previous dating history

Dark NN only exist because of this "honor culture" we got when it comes marriage. These incels go out of their way to expose Somali women that have dated ajnabis because they don't want a miskeen Farah to end up with a "hoe". Before dark NN we had patrol who pretty much did the same thing.


Somalis have a completely different definition of a hoe compared to other communities. Mainly because most of us don't date here in the west. Somalis back home date each other. That's why you got guys like @galhareeri willing to give xalimos with a past a chance compared to most western farahs on here.

 

[datesfrompuntland]

Nah bro am not going to marry zina woman
Even if she does it with Somali man.

Talking about zina, if you admit that a lot somali women will not marrying those who do that. I know of many men who are fine to date and what not in the west. But there’s hypocrisy for women doing that even her mother will scold her but her son has something one each week and is seen down the street back home. It’s haram either way and marrying a man who’s done zina has probably and is risk to a women’s health and mental well-being. And he will probably cheat during the marriage, she gets labelled a garob during divorce with or without kids .

Traditionally, the man’s meant to take the kids, but in the west they don’t even pay for the kids school fees or what not anyway. There’s no way winning with this.

 

[Laiis]

Even with old age will not stop
Me from chasing this malab.

Ew at certain age old men should just stop being horn bags

 

[Laiis]

Talking about zina, if you admit that a lot somali women will not marrying. A risk to health and mental well-being.

Found the dark nn memebr @Kisame

 

[Nin123]

Ew at certain age old men should just stop being horn bags

Nah the moment man stop being horny that means he is sick or something wrong with him. My one dreams to be late 80s 90s and marrying young girl in her 20s

 

[datesfrompuntland]

Found the dark nn memebr @Kisame

Edited it, it’s keeps posting mid way…

 

[Kisame]

Talking about zina, if you admit that a lot somali women will not marrying. A risk to health and mental well-being.

Ew at certain age old men should just stop being horn bags

@Nin123 is a grown ass man with a preference for the most obtainable women on the planet.

Instead of being booed up with his fat partner bro is causing havoc on sspot.

I think bro is a truck driver that's struggling to find time to date women. He gives me fob vibes

 

[Nin123]

@Nin123 is a grown ass man with a preference for the most obtainable women on the planet.

Instead of being booed up with his fat partner bro is causing havoc on sspot.

I think bro is a truck driver that's struggling to find time to date women. He gives me fob vibes

Cause am into thick women. Am being ashamed for liking thick girls. Gaal boy.

 

[attash]

3 out of the 5 votes for yes are women.

@rayxn3 @Mudug_gyal @Laiis I didn't know you girls were okay with marrying women who had ajnabi husbands. It seems SSpot has a vibrant lesbian community.

 

[Nin123]

3 out of the 5 votes for yes are women.

@rayxn3 @Mudug_gyal @Laiis I didn't know you girls were okay with marrying women who had ajnabi husbands. It seems SSpot has a vibrant lesbian community.

Didn’t know they indulge into this behaviour.

 

[Ozymandias]

3 out of the 5 votes for yes are women.

@rayxn3 @Mudug_gyal @Laiis I didn't know you girls were okay with marrying women who had ajnabi husbands. It seems SSpot has a vibrant lesbian community.

I'm dead

 

[Ozymandias]

It's interesting to see that the vast majority of somali men voted no. I think that somali culture is very puritanical in this way, the significant other must suffice the requirements that have been laid bare. It's xenophobia on the extreme end, but that's how it is. I don't even know why a xalimo who's been with an ajanabi would even want to be with somali, we'd be too close minded for her, that freedom that she's become accustomed to would vanish if she was to return

 

[mrlog]

I would never marry a chick who has kids in the first place Somali or ajbnabi

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[Homerlilian]

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don’t wanna carry around another man sperm or burden . But I know a lot of men who tolerate that kinda stuff so single mothers are not at
loss here

 

[EyiPunter]

All the people who said yes seem to have couple thing in common for instance yall major sjw's and this how i imagine yalls relationship with that Xalimo with the ajnbi kid would be.

 

[Sophisticate]

Dark NN only exist because of this "honor culture" we got when it comes marriage. These incels go out of their way to expose Somali women that have dated ajnabis because they don't want a miskeen Farah to end up with a "hoe". Before dark NN we had patrol who pretty much did the same thing.


Somalis have a completely different definition of a hoe compared to other communities. Mainly because most of us don't date here in the west. Somalis back home date each other. That's why you got guys like @galhareeri willing to give xalimos with a past a chance compared to most western farahs on here.

They do not care about chasity. If they did they would not be attempting to expose innocent Halimos. Or even blatantly lie. They merely hate Somali women. I have come to this conclusion. That is why they are an issue.

There are some negative elements online who are like this. Even if you never give an ajnabi the time of day. Do not talk to Abdis let alone date. They will still speak ill of you. There is something pathological there.

 

[NOT-ACTIVE]

They do not care about chasity. If they did they would not be attempting to expose innocent Halimos. Or even blatantly lie. They merely hate Somali women. I have come to this conclusion. That is why they are an issue.

There are some negative elements online who are like this. Even if you never give an ajnabi the time of day. Do not talk to Abdis let alone date. They will still speak ill of you. There is something pathological there.

I think the main reason is they want to limit the dating options of Somali women. Since Somali women are known to be attractive, the incels are worried that they’ll have to compete with other ethnicities. Their answer to this is to try and ruin the image of Somali women so that no other ethnicities will take an interest in them

I think this is also why they hyper focus on the patrilineal nature of qabil. By positioning Somali fathers as the gatekeepers of Somalinimo, they are telling Xalimos that their children will only be Somali if the father is

The incels definitely are misogynistic, but I think their main motive is to mate guard. Their fear that Somali women will date ajnabis is also they have nightmares of being cucked by ajnabis

 

[Sophisticate]

I think the main reason is they want to limit the dating options of Somali women. Since Somali women are known to be attractive, the incels are worried that they’ll have to compete with other ethnicities. Their answer to this is to try and ruin the image of Somali women so that no other ethnicities will take an interest in them

I think this is also why they hyper focus on the patrilineal nature of qabil. By positioning Somali fathers as the gatekeepers of Somalinimo, they are telling Xalimos that their children will only be Somali if the father is

The incels definitely are misogynistic, but I think their main motive is to mate guard. Their fear that Somali women will date ajnabis is also they have nightmares of being cucked by ajnabis

This is well beyond gatekeeping. They are not fixated on who these girls are with. The vast majority of which will marry Somali. Many of which do not commit Zina. This is largely an issue of collective antagonism of Somali women. Notice how they see them in a one dimensional way. Undifferentiated with the same tastes and preferences. Which is far from true.They might be attracted to them but despise them. I do not think they get that each "Somali" woman has her own set of standards and getting with one does not grant you universal access to all.

Also, not all incels are nefarious and women hating. That appears to be a cop out for bad behaviour. That would not be excused no matter their appearance. Some men are blatant misgonists independent of marital status or dating options.