So lads, as you know Mehr has been increasing during recent times. Back in the day the Mehr was $500-$4,000 or even just a Kitab. Nowadays these Xalimos are asking for $10k-$20k and want Faraaxs to give them racks on racks. My question is, let's say you pay $20k mehr, how do you afford everything else? Since the man is supposed to 100% financially provide in the marriage, that means he has to pay for the wedding, the honeymoon, the new place, bills, luxuries while also providing $20k mehr. It's going to be at least high 5 to 6 figures and it seems unreasonable. What would you do?