Question About Mehr

So lads, as you know Mehr has been increasing during recent times. Back in the day the Mehr was $500-$4,000 or even just a Kitab. Nowadays these Xalimos are asking for $10k-$20k and want Faraaxs to give them racks on racks. My question is, let's say you pay $20k mehr, how do you afford everything else? Since the man is supposed to 100% financially provide in the marriage, that means he has to pay for the wedding, the honeymoon, the new place, bills, luxuries while also providing $20k mehr. It's going to be at least high 5 to 6 figures and it seems unreasonable. What would you do?
 
Advice for the young bucks. Any gal that wants a 10k plus mehr is not the one. Her malab is not some kind of gold, tell the xalimo we gonna put the money to actual good use and put it towards our future. Also, advice for the girls to fully ignore whatever I said and ask for as much as you can because the divorce laws in Islam are not in your favor whatsoever. So rinse that nigga you marrying as much as you can.
 
Advice for the young bucks. Any gal that wants a 10k plus mehr is not the one. Her malab is not some kind of gold, tell the xalimo we gonna put the money to actual good use and put it towards our future. Also, advice for the girls to fully ignore whatever I said and ask for as much as you can because the divorce laws in Islam are not in your favor whatsoever. So rinse that nigga you marrying as much as you can.
Sometimes I think about marrying a good girl from badiyo
 
Sometimes I think about marrying a good girl from badiyo
These badiyo girl are no long the miskeen people think they are. Globalization means they are more ilbaah then you think. Besides snacks you hella young focus on your goals first. You will find the one later in life.
 
If she asks for 10k she dont rly like u fr :banderas:
On another note perhaps the gals can chime in here. Who decided wedding and all the gaarish should cost upwards of 20k. Now I ain't saying I'm a broke nigga but damn I can't think of a bigger waste of money to spend all in one night. Nigga I might as well take that money and put it all on black at least there's a chance I might double my money. Why am I gonna spend money on niggas I don't even like and family members who I don't even remember to enjoy a nice day out at my expense? f*ck outta here. A simple hall to dance to some drizzy tunes and a mirinda in your goody bag to take home farax. You ain't chatting up xalimos on my expense you big forehead xayawan.
 
On another note perhaps the gals can chime in here. Who decided wedding and all the gaarish should cost upwards of 20k. Now I ain't saying I'm a broke nigga but damn I can't think of a bigger waste of money to spend all in one night. Nigga I might as well take that money and put it all on black at least there's a chance I might double my money. Why am I gonna spend money on niggas I don't even like and family members who I don't even remember to enjoy a nice day out at my expense? f*ck outta here. A simple hall to dance to some drizzy tunes and a mirinda in your goody bag to take home farax. You ain't chatting up xalimos on my expense you big forehead xayawan.
Wedding aren't even about the 2 people being married anymore, it's more of a cultural thing. I like big weddings and big honeymoons, you should go out with a bang!
 

Periplus

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Wariyah I can already tell by the scent of the pixels on your PFP that you're a langaab. Address me with praise, n*gger.

Hooyada was, ciyaalyahoow. Meesha naga bax, mehr iyo balaayo ayuu noo keenay.

22 noqo, kadib waxaan noo keen. Subhanallah
 
Wedding aren't even about the 2 people being married anymore, it's more of a cultural thing. I like big weddings and big honeymoons, you should go out with a bang!
Big honeymoon yes but a big wedding on my costs just so niggas I barely know can dine on my cents. Not on my watch.
 

AbrahamFreedom

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It would be nice to get your wife-to-be something extravagant or to give her alot of money, but someone who truly loves you will only want the minimum maheer required, which I believe is the equivalent of $50.
 
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