Qoyans aka somali women

[Odious Delirium]

Exactly so why are you dragging BLM into this??

Some women are pic mes in that context they seek validation from other communities and wanna be picked by there men so they present themselves as blm halimos. Blm halimo is just anyone woman who is a pick me for other communities other than her own which tends to mainly be other black communities for the most part

 

[KinsiHilaac]

I know what a Pick me is and I find them disgusting as a guy because there basically seeking validation from every guy in the room I would prefer a woman was a misandist to a pick me lol

But yeah what's your experience with pick mes?

They’re not so good to meet .
They’re just painful to converse with cuz idk what goes on in a woman’s mind for her to dislike and put down the very thing she is .

But I think most women have been pick me’s. We just start getting educated because as you know this world is very eager to keep women under men at all times wether it be as cultural traditions or religions .

 

[Barni]

Exactly so why are you dragging BLM into this??

Blm halimo isn’t used in the context of sjw somali girl like it used to be. But a fcking sellout get with the program.

 

[Barni]

Some women are pic mes in that context they seek validation from other communities and wanna be picked by there men so they present themselves as blm halimos

Exactly u said it better than i did i dont y this nigga is mad.

 

[KinsiHilaac]

Some women are pic mes in that context they seek validation from other communities and wanna be picked by there men so they present themselves as blm halimos

a blm Halimo is not a pick me Halimo though . Seeking validation from a community (black) in this context and seeking validation from men to put down other women are 2 different things

 

[KinsiHilaac]

Exactly u said it better than i did i dont y this nigga is mad.

I’m not a nigga and why u so angry damn. Ur the one that introduces BLM to this talk , it was about sexism.

 

[Odious Delirium]

a blm Halimo is not a pick me Halimo though . Seeking validation from a community (black) in this context and seeking validation from men to put down other women are 2 different things

For the most part they seek validation of the men in those communities and attack both somali women who don't do the same and obviously somali men so they can cope with there decision of being divesters.
That's a pick me the whole point of a pick me is to seek male validation it can come in different contexts

 

[Barni]

I’m not a nigga and why u so angry damn. Ur the one that introduces BLM to this talk , it was about sexism.

Listen, in 2023 blm halimo isn’t used to describe a halimo that is pro blk anymore it just a straight up insult. I will use a different term if u want since u r having a hard time tryna to comprehend what i am tryna say.

 

[KinsiHilaac]

For the most part they seek validation of the men in those communities and attack both somali women who don't do the same and obviously somali men so they can cope with there decision of being divesters.
That's a pick me the whole point of a pick me is to seek male validation it can come in different contexts

So they support blm because of the madow men, is that what you’re trying to say

 

[KinsiHilaac]

Listen, in 2023 blm halimo isn’t used to describe a halimo that is pro blk anymore it just a straight up insult. I will use a different term if u want since u r having a hard time tryna to comprehend what i am tryna say.

Nah I’m good honestly. Idk how a blm supporting Halimo relates to a pick me girl who puts other women down for the sake of men but imma keep it pushing lest you start exploding

 

[Odious Delirium]

So they support blm because of the madow men, is that what you’re trying to say

No this isnt about supporting blm there just called that. It's not literal. It refers to those that hate somalinimo and have inferiority complexes and seek validation from ajnabis. Blm halimo could be seeking white/yellow/brown/black men there is no difference they are all called blm halimos.

Basically pick mes for ajnabis

 

[Barni]

Nah I’m good honestly. Idk how a blm supporting Halimo relates to a pick me girl who puts other women down for the sake of men but imma keep it pushing lest you start exploding

Most ppl would get it but u, ur just slow.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Most ppl would get it but u, ur just slow.

Na there's no need to attack the sister she probably isn't aware of the term and took it literally most people think it's an attack on the blm movement itself so I don't blame her

 

[Barni]

Na there's no need to attack the sister she probably isn't aware of the term and took it literally most people think it's an attack on the blm movement itself so I don't blame her

Kay i will lay off, i just don’t get whats not clicking.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Kay i will lay off, i just don’t get whats not clicking.

She understands now you didn't flesh it out for her so I did

 

[KinsiHilaac]

Most ppl would get it but u, ur just slow.

chill now

 

[Osiris1]

a blm Halimo is not a pick me Halimo though . Seeking validation from a community (black) in this context and seeking validation from men to put down other women are 2 different things

But both of which you’re seeking validation from a community you’re not a part of. BLM halimos are defo pick me’s.

 

[KinsiHilaac]

But both of which you’re seeking validation from a community you’re not a part of. BLM halimos are defo pick me’s.

Do you know the definiton of a pick me? It´s girl that puts other women down for the sake of men, how is this applicable to what you´re saying

 

[KinsiHilaac]

No this isnt about supporting blm there just called that. It's not literal. It refers to those that hate somalinimo and have inferiority complexes and seek validation from ajnabis. Blm halimo could be seeking white/yellow/brown/black men there is no difference they are all called blm halimos.

Basically pick mes for ajnabis

But that is not a pick me, at least not according to the definition. Like it seems ppl are giving the term pick me many meanings but it really means a girl or woman that has internalized misogyny and shows it by putting other girls down

 

[Osiris1]

Do you know the definiton of a pick me? It´s girl that puts other women down for the sake of men, how is this applicable to what you´re saying

You’re acting as if the term ‘pick me’ has a standard definition. Idk if you use social media or live under a rock, but I’ve seen it being used in different contexts apart from girls seeking validation from men.

I always saw it as ppl who seek acceptance from different groups