If you're a 2nd generation somali in the west and you talk qabil, you deserve a bullet.
The only thing I tell white people is that my parents fled the communists. I make sure to tell this to conservative looking folk and Eastern European descent folk especially like my current boss and a sweet old granny. They love having me around and are extra nice to me. We relate
A few years ago I didn't know anything about qabil and I didn't grow up around somalis so when I saw random somalis who asked me what my qabil was I just told them proudly￼￼￼￼￼￼I'm so embarrassed ￼