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Most people that are apathetic or don't like you don't care enough to spread lies about you. But, as I said, only a pathological few would take it a step further. But these few and their allegations can do a lot of damage. :mindblown: Imagine going to prison for a crime you didn't commit from a false accusation. I was trying to point out that defamation can occur even if a person is innocent. Even if this is proven, those lies can have lasting ramifications and can't exactly be recanted. The damage is done. :manny:
False accusations are a good chunk of the prison population. No one really cares in the long run everything becomes a smudge in the past.
 

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~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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False accusations are a good chunk of the prison population. No one really cares in the long run everything becomes a smudge in the past.
There tends to be a trope they have about being forgiving and not letting hate consume them when they are behind bars for a crime they didn't commit. I don't think it's just a smudge. That could wreck someone for life. I don't know how much counseling they would need. You can't exactly get those life years back and no recompense can make up for it. There will also be people out there that have zero ceeb and will never apologize to them. Or worse still believe they did it despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary.
 
There tends to be a trope they have about being forgiving and not letting hate consume them when they are behind bars for a crime they didn't commit. I don't think it's just a smudge. That could wreck someone for life. I don't know how much counseling they would need. You can't exactly get those life years back and no recompense can make up for it. There will also be people out there that have zero ceeb and will never apologize to them. Or worse still believe they did it despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary.
Probably behind bars for a good reason you have to be on someone’s radar no one is totally innocent. The law hasn’t got the time or the resources for a total witch hunt. You’ve got to ask yourself why are you there.
 

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~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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Probably behind bars for a good reason you have to be on someone’s radar no one is totally innocent. The law hasn’t got the time or the resources for a total witch hunt. You’ve got to ask yourself why are you there.
:deadrose:Imagine ruining a college kid's life for something they did not do and presuming them a sex offender for attending a frat party when they didn't commit the crime. And considering the case unworthy of further investigation. I can't tell if you are trolling or there is a compassion deficit.
 
We Somalis get maaaaad hate subxaanallah. Which demographic made such an assumption?

Mostly Horners, North Africans and Middle Easterners, some South Asians too. It's more pronounced when I'm out with my sisters, they approach us speaking Arabic, just to be taken aback when we say we're Somali.
 
Mostly Horners, North Africans and Middle Easterners, some South Asians too. It's more pronounced when I'm out with my sisters, they approach us speaking Arabic, just to be taken aback when we say we're Somali.
you probably just don't look somali.
 
you probably just don't look somali.

I don't have this issue with Somalis, Somalis can easily recognise me, especially the elders. These individuals I come across think I'm North Sudanese or Eritrean, hence the Arabic. They have this preconceived notion that Somalis have to look a certain way, kinda annoying tbh.
 

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Having lost and gain weight multiple times. There definitely a difference of treatment how people perceive you. While being fat and dressing 110% might get you more respect and people will treat you better however being fit and dressing 100% plus taking care of your skin and hair will make people go the extra mile for you.

Socialising will be easier, people will laugh easier, service people fix problems faster, women would start chatting just standing there being alone, people will gravitate towards you and more
 

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it does, attractive people are seen as more approachable, confident, trustworthy. thats why an ugly guy approaching a woman will always be called a creep vs a conventionally attractive one who will likely be given time out of their day

i had a pretty boy look in sixth form(end of highschool years for non-UK) and even while being completely antisocial girls stood close to my proximity, touched me playfully, talked and carried almost all the convos. eventually my introvertness did f*ck me over and they were no longer interested which I regret a lot since those were some good girls.

overall you don't need to be extremely attractive to have admirers. if youre atleast 5/10 and have a group of female friends or women youre around a lot you'll be way more attractive to outsider women. read about preselection. women want the guys everyone wants. even if those women around u are just friends from outside POV it looks like "there must be a reason all those women are around him". i have a few attractive female friends i keep around just for this reason. no girl is gonna be interested in a guy who always hangs out with other guys which is what i notice guys do a lot.

everything i've said is assuming youre tall since we're on a somali board. i would never get any of the attention i do without my height. if youre short then get used to the blackpill.
 
:deadrose:Imagine ruining a college kid's life for something they did not do and presuming them a sex offender for attending a frat party when they didn't commit the crime. And considering the case unworthy of further investigation. I can't tell if you are trolling or there is a compassion deficit.
I’m a very compassionate person. :childplease:
 
it does, attractive people are seen as more approachable, confident, trustworthy. thats why an ugly guy approaching a woman will always be called a creep vs a conventionally attractive one who will likely be given time out of their day

i had a pretty boy look in sixth form(end of highschool years for non-UK) and even while being completely antisocial girls stood close to my proximity, touched me playfully, talked and carried almost all the convos. eventually my introvertness did f*ck me over and they were no longer interested which I regret a lot since those were some good girls.

overall you don't need to be extremely attractive to have admirers. if youre atleast 5/10 and have a group of female friends or women youre around a lot you'll be way more attractive to outsider women. read about preselection. women want the guys everyone wants. even if those women around u are just friends from outside POV it looks like "there must be a reason all those women are around him". i have a few attractive female friends i keep around just for this reason. no girl is gonna be interested in a guy who always hangs out with other guys which is what i notice guys do a lot.

everything i've said is assuming youre tall since we're on a somali board. i would never get any of the attention i do without my height. if youre short then get used to the blackpill.
I like my men with child bearing hips and the darker the Berry the sweeter the juice
Ain’t that right @Unbothered & @Xoxoxo
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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You can always get a lawyer :wow1:
What if the popo comes to get you? No one cares about your case, and you have to deal with a bumbling and incompetent court-appointed lawyer with a polyester suit and a bad comb-over because your money is short.
 
What if the popo comes to get you? No one cares about your case, and you have to deal with a bumbling and incompetent court-appointed lawyer with a polyester suit and a bad comb-over because your money is short.
I’d ask them to have some mercy and spare some change and what is the crime in question I’m being charged for.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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I’d ask them to have some mercy and spare some change and what is the crime in question I’m being charged for.
It shouldn't matter the nature of the allegation because it's a kangaroo court. So we're doing this because you're guilty no matter what. And we want to put on a show!
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