I don't care what Indians and Asians and Arabs say. They don't get acknowledgments from me. Cadaans are whatever. But its the fact that they are the gatekeepers in alot of spaces, and can "control" who gets hired, fired etc. Is it exhausting working with them? Yes. But, what I do (and this has helped me) is to understand that everything and everyone is in Allah's control. Really having a close relationship with Allah and understanding that He is in control of your affairs, your money, your success will ensure that you see things in a more positive light. I don't put whites or anyone else on a pedestal, and I don't believe that they have the ultimate control - Allah does. This then, allows me to see that no one is out to get me. I think alot of people view life in this manner.