Hold on. This is too much, i need my super charged brain to unpack it. WOW!!!!
Sex is a very deep aspect of humanity walaahi. Everything can be traced to an individuals sexuality. *side note* lol
The poor woman probably wanted to explore her deep desire of self hate. She wanted to get in touch with her deep self hate hidden by a heap of self lies and self affirmation. What better time when you are high from sexual hormones and horniness. She was vulnerable.
As for him, he seems to have lost the game. He is what they call an earnest black live matter activist. Probably being attracted to her was a subconscious White guilt that he is trying to fix. Hates what happened to the blacks more than the blacks hate it themselves. Unfortunately, she just ruined his therapy into becoming a good non-racist White man.
Therefore a conundrum happened here.
The White dude upon being viewed by his 'love' or 'guilt love' as a 'Slave Master" was an erection killer.
I am surprised he didn't slap the sh!t out of her. He is kind in spitting on her, because unfortunately he is too normal.

(i hate normal men)
And as for her, i am surprised she got mad from being spit on???? Isn't that what i see in ???? (ooops i beg your pardon)
Anyway-- both of them need to go apart and ask themselves--- WHO AM I REALLY??????