Non muslim white dude in love with muslim hijab wearing (somali) girl.

[black]

But it doesn't. You must not know any Jewish ppl. It's the male that stands to lose not having Jewish children for not having a Jewish wife. The Jewish female picks freely. She will not necessarily pick a Jewish mate, though she may for posterity, and that's the reason Jewish ppl have cast a wide net and still maintain a strong Jewish identity, whether it's cultural or religious.

Somali men date, f*ck, and marry out pretty frequently, but you only choose to pay attention to the women. And Somali men don't invoke "As long as she's Muslim" precisely bc they don't have to. It doesn't matter what she is unless she's a polytheist or atheist. It's almost as if you don't know your deen.

Fucking and dating out is true for both Somali men and women. And ironically while Somali men could pursue Christian or Jewish women for marriage, they rarely ever do. There are far more Somali women married to 'reverts' than there are Somali men married to non-Muslims. Somali men are for some reason far more invested in their roots than their counterparts if we're being honest. Despite having the 'you-are-Somali-if-your-abo-is-Somali' card. I have a mixed bag of Somali friends and it's almost like non-Somali women don't even register outside of 'I'd beat' for a good chunk of them. And no, I don't see this as a good thing either imho.

 

[Prince Abubu]

But it doesn't. You must not know any Jewish ppl. It's the male that stands to lose not having Jewish children for not having a Jewish wife. The Jewish female picks freely. She will not necessarily pick a Jewish mate, though she may for posterity, and that's the reason Jewish ppl have cast a wide net and still maintain a strong Jewish identity, whether it's cultural or religious.

You're just agreeing with me here. I've pretty much said the exact same thing in my post above.

Somali men date, f*ck, and marry out pretty frequently, but you only choose to pay attention to the women. And Somali men don't invoke "As long as she's Muslim" precisely bc they don't have to. It doesn't matter what she is unless she's a polytheist or atheist. It's almost as if you don't know your deen. The thing it should tell you @ that last sentence is ONE UMMAH

Nope. Not in my experience. Where I'm from, Somali men marry Somali women. The really tiny minority that don't, usually marry wholesome Muslim women from other Muslim cultures e.g. Arab, Indonesian, Malaysian, South Asian etc. They don't chase after white gyals who were downing shots at the club yesterday. More often as well, their relationships seem organic, like they knew the girl for years and were courting before deciding to marry. Xaliimos on the other hand literally put their name down on registers at the mosque. The two are not comparable.

Fyi, I genuinely don't care about the #oneummah nonsense so. All I see are desperate females using religion to jump the first ex-convict cadaan revert. Gotta get dem exotic light-skin babies yo! Those Youtube vlogs aren't gonna make themselves.

 

[Soulei]

Fucking and dating out is true for both Somali men and women. And ironically while Somali men could pursue Christian or Jewish women for marriage, they rarely ever do. There are far more Somali women married to 'reverts' than there are Somali men married to non-Muslims. Somali men are for some reason far more invested in their roots than their counterparts if we're being honest. Despite having the 'you-are-Somali-if-your-abo-is-Somali' card. I have a mixed bag of Somali friends and it's almost like non-Somali women don't even register outside of 'I'd beat' for a good chunk of them. And no, I don't see this as a good thing either imho.

Idk about that. Most interracial relationships I see both within my own family and Somalis I see out and about are with the men. I've even seen Somali faraxs with Natives where I live lol. The whole "xalimos marry out more" sounds more like a myth imo, seeing as most parents are stricter with who their daughters marry vs their sons. Plus the fact that a woman's children won't be seen as Somali (in the Somali context) if she marries a non Somali man is enough to deter some people from marrying out. It's just that the women who do marry out tend to publicize their relationships (i.e having a joint YouTube account dedicated to their interracial marriage) while the men that marry out don't.

 

[VixR]

Fucking and dating out is true for both Somali men and women. And ironically while Somali men could pursue Christian or Jewish women for marriage, they rarely ever do. There are far more Somali women married to 'reverts' than there are Somali men married to non-Muslims. Somali men are for some reason far more invested in their roots than their counterparts if we're being honest. Despite having the 'you-are-Somali-if-your-abo-is-Somali' card. I have a mixed bag of Somali friends and it's almost like non-Somali women don't even register outside of 'I'd beat' for a good chunk of them. And no, I don't see this as a good thing either imho.

I can only speak to what I see.

I don't think your reality is similar to mine.

Here, it's dating and marrying out, and that's box sexes and some folks aren't even being converted anymore, and these ppl aren't on the Salafist spectrum. They're just regular folks.

I have strong ties to Salafists, as in they're my family, and the whole shotgun wedding, marrying quick and young through the masjid, being ushered off to some bedouin looking guy, quick divorces and short marriages, etc, are a feature of that community.

 

[VixR]

....

1) Read closely. They're NOT exclusive.

2) Are these two groups of men and women you're describing the same archetype? There's no way they can be. What you're describing are religious girls that live and breathe in mosques, and the regular Joe Schmoe Somali guy, isn't it? Or is it bc, seeing as you live in Brexitstan, that perhaps even within families, the females lead a more strict, Islamic lifestyle, while the men are mainstream lax?

 

[black]

Really? Most interracial relationships I see both within my own family and Somalis I see out and about are with the men. I've even seen Somali faraxs with Natives where I live lol. The whole "xalimos marry out more" sounds more like a myth imo, seeing as most parents are stricter with who their daughters marry vs their sons. It's just that the women who marry out tend to publicize their relationships (i.e having a joint YouTube account dedicated to their marriage) while men don't.

You could be right tbh, even in my family only men have married out. I'm still 99.99% convinced it's disproportionately skewed to the other end. Aside from actual number count, there are small things that make be believe it generally holds true. The imam at the mosque even asked the 'Somali brothers' to stay behind for a chat once. He asked what was troubling the community. Why are there so many Somali women coming to the mosque looking for a pious and suitable husband saying they can't find one in their own community? Then he went on to offer cliché advice about the deen, school and staying away from crime. 'Fix up not for yourselves, but for your women or they will leave you'. Ceeb badana.

Also there's a good reason they publicize it and its gets attention too. Not to mention every mixed Somali person I've met had a Somali mother. Barring one actually. If they made mixed Somali-X tags we would be able to get an idea lol

 

[Mohamud]

You could be right tbh, even in my family only men have married out. I'm still 99.99% convinced it's disproportionately skewed to the other end. Aside from actual number count, there are small things that make be believe it generally holds true. The imam at the mosque even asked the 'Somali brothers' to stay behind for a chat once. He asked what was troubling the community. Why are there so many Somali women coming to the mosque looking for a pious and suitable husband saying they can't find one in their own community? Then he went on to offer cliché advice about the deen, school and staying away from crime. 'Fix up not for yourselves, but for your women or they will leave you'. Ceeb badana.

Also there's a good reason they publicize it and its gets attention too. Not to mention every mixed Somali person I've met had a Somali mother. Barring one actually. If they made mixed Somali-X tags we would be able to get an idea lol

maybe that's a UK thing or wherever you're from

but here in Canada it's dead even

 

[VixR]

maybe that's a UK thing or wherever you're from

but here in Canada it's dead even

Same in the US, at least from what I see and am exposed to.

@black Answer the Q I directed to Abubu. I've seen UK comments on here like, "if I/you become a Salafi, I/you can get married tomorrow" directed at guys.

 

[dhegdheer]

Why are you ppl always so predictably and why did this turn into another thread demeaning halimos
Insecure losers wallahi I hope you future wives cheat on u with a white man

So a white guy liking her is her fault and demeans her value and dignity ... interesting???? ... you hear that somali girls?? its your fault if a guy likes you ... even worse if he's white.

I can see why some somali girls feel they can't be with xoolo's like you.

Don't mind them lol it's apparently our fault if we don't chase, anything for them apple mehr jokes

 

[dhegdheer]

@Prince Abubu Jewish ppl don't care about Jewish women marrying out because according to them you're Jewish if you mother is.

That's why there's a lot of empathise placed on boys to find a nice Jewish girl yahodism>>> muslamics

Fucking and dating out is true for both Somali men and women. And ironically while Somali men could pursue Christian or Jewish women for marriage, they rarely ever do. There are far more Somali women married to 'reverts' than there are Somali men married to non-Muslims. Somali men are for some reason far more invested in their roots than their counterparts if we're being honest. Despite having the 'you-are-Somali-if-your-abo-is-Somali' card. I have a mixed bag of Somali friends and it's almost like non-Somali women don't even register outside of 'I'd beat' for a good chunk of them. And no, I don't see this as a good thing either imho.

Maybe in your experience but I've seen more faraaxs marry out than the other way around, the females who marry out usually end up in the streets

 

[VixR]

@Prince Abubu Jewish ppl don't care about Jewish women marrying out because according to them you're Jewish if you mother is.

That's why there's a lot of empathise placed on boys to find a nice Jewish girl yahodism>>> muslamics



Maybe in your experience but I've seen more faraaxs marry out than the other way around, the females who marry out usually end up in the streets

What's the deal with UK guys and these insinuations.

 

[waraabe]

she doesn't sound religious.

 

[dhegdheer]

What's the deal with UK guys and these insinuations.

Just another thing for them to latch onto to distract against their own failings i guess "we won't focus on the rampant gang culture and drug peddling but rather the fact that some halimos are loud at the bus stops and so are therefore not marriage material, also jilbaab r ugly" lol

It's like when the sheikhs in Somalia declared a female basketball team to be the worst thing to happen to the country despite us having corruption in every corner of the government

 

[black]

Maybe in your experience but I've seen more faraaxs marry out than the other way around, the females who marry out usually end up in the streets

Them getting kicked out for that is absolute nonsense and you know it. Somali parents do the most for the smallest things, but this is not one of them. Get tricked and held hostage in Somalia for coming home drunk, high or whatever. But marrying a revert is not looked down upon at all. I've had a grown man tell me "Maxa la sameeya adeer? Hada caawo guriga la ga saaro, sadex nin baa albaabka uu soo istaagaya"

What's the deal with UK guys and these insinuations.

What exactly am I insulating? You said it happens equally, I disagreed. Also, I'm a nobleman from continental Europe.

Same in the US, at least from what I see and am exposed to.

@black Answer the Q I directed to Abubu. I've seen UK comments on here like, "if I/you become a Salafi, I/you can get married tomorrow" directed at guys.

1) Read closely. They're NOT exclusive.

2) Are these two groups of men and women you're describing the same archetype? There's no way they can be. What you're describing are religious girls that live and breathe in mosques, and the regular Joe Schmoe Somali guy, isn't it? Or is it bc, seeing as you live in Brexitstan, that perhaps even within families, the females lead a more strict, Islamic lifestyle, while the men are mainstream lax?

I'm not entirely sure what you're asking me. The closest Somali woman to me that married out is not family, but we go waaay back. Imo, she is like your average Somali. She married some cadaan guy, I don't want to presume stuff, but from talking to him I get the feeling he reverted to marry her. Sort of like a formality. He's not your typical revert. Then again, I do not know what goes on in their house. I think For the most part these are average Somali people. As for the mosque arrangements, good point. I see the link, but I wouldn't be quick to tar them with the same brush.

 

[Inquisitive_]

The smart or somewhat religious males should plan to make it happen back home unless they stumble upon the elusive 1% among the diaspora garbage dump, I was just reading @cantspeak talk about his 13K savings "so far" in his quest to get married to some Xaalimo that would do it for an apple for shiisheyo

That same women that lead the farah to financial ruins would quickly let herself go to the point you can't tell if she's pregnant or clinically obese, in contrast when she is bought courtesy of an apple she goes to the gym regularly to maintain herself out of respect for her husband.

The reason why this happens is very simple and basic human psychology, one guys gives into extortion like a sheep and the other doesn't and therefore dictates the terms like he is supposed to, hence the dictator subconsciously inculcates respect through his actions while the sheep is ridiculed, debased and taken for a ride for his inaction and lack of stance.

In virtually all cases of interracial marriage the Shiisheyo doesn't even need to stand his ground, the women herself is innately and deeply "ashamed" to even dare extort him and so is her degenerate family.

But they doesn't feel this same remorseful shame with the Somali male's because of a flood of betaised guys like @xisaabiye and @waraabe whom have been bending over backwards for decades with no questions asked, even worse competing with each other over who can bend down the most and the longest.

Hence as a result a Somali man that stands his ground in the diaspora (10%) will not work because there are millions of @waraabe on the corner that are prepared to offer their entire minuscule life savings including his own limbs for her

The average general women is stupid and would go for this not knowing the ramifications of what she got herself into, for most of these women you could put a Prophet next to her and she wouldn't even have the ability to discern him from the average Farah, then people wonder why divorce rates are going through the roof.

 

[Prince Abubu]

1) Read closely. They're NOT exclusive.

2) Are these two groups of men and women you're describing the same archetype? There's no way they can be. What you're describing are religious girls that live and breathe in mosques, and the regular Joe Schmoe Somali guy, isn't it? Or is it bc, seeing as you live in Brexitstan, that perhaps even within families, the females lead a more strict, Islamic lifestyle, while the men are mainstream lax?

That's how things are in the UK. Maybe things are different in Gunada.

 

[VixR]

That's how things are in the UK. Maybe things are different in Gunada.

I'm not Canadian, I'm American.

So you agree with this characterization?

Are these two groups of men and women you're describing the same archetype? There's no way they can be. What you're describing are religious girls that live and breathe in mosques, and the regular Joe Schmoe Somali guy, isn't it? Or is it bc, seeing as you live in Brexitstan, that perhaps even within families, the females lead a more strict, Islamic lifestyle, while the men are mainstream lax?

 

[waraabe]

I am a beta because I don't burn grannies apparently

 

[Prince Abubu]

I'm not Canadian, I'm American.

So you agree with that characterization?

Are these two groups of men and women you're describing the same archetype? There's no way they can be. What you're describing are religious girls that live and breathe in mosques, and the regular Joe Schmoe Somali guy, isn't it? Or is it bc, seeing as you live in Brexitstan, that perhaps even within families, the females lead a more strict, Islamic lifestyle, while the men are mainstream lax?

Like I said, where I'm from Somali males, whether salafi or non-Salafi, tend to marry Somali females. Their religious background makes no difference, (except maybe extremely secular/Atheist Somalis - but those probably only marry ajnabis by default). Somali females however will look for any excuse to marry out, that includes Salafis, non-Salafis, Buddhists etc.

 

[VixR]

Like I said, where I'm from Somali males, whether salafi or non-Salafi, tend to marry Somali females. Their religious background makes no difference, (except maybe extremely secular/Atheist Somalis - but those probably only marry ajnabis by default). Somali females however will look for any excuse to marry out, that includes Salafis, non-Salafis, Buddhists etc.

If we're to take that as a given, according to you that would be bc, bottomline, Somali females in general, of all backgrounds etc, want White babies??

Gotta get dem exotic light-skin babies yo!