Non muslim white dude in love with muslim hijab wearing (somali) girl.

[Prince Abubu]

If we're to take that as a given, according to you that would be bc, bottomline, a large vocal minority of Somali females, of various backgrounds etc, want Ajnabi babies??

FTFY

 

[VixR]

FTFY

Why would you say that is? Light skin, you said earlier? They could get with light-skinned Somalis?

 

[Prince Abubu]

Why would you say that is? Light skin, you said earlier? They could get with light-skinned Somalis?

That's usually the reason yes. But there are also xaliimos that marry madow/Caribbeans as well.

 

[Gambar]

Unfortunately, it's true, most are khasaaro.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

He hasn't got no issues here Somali chick tend to be subservient & servile when it comes to other races of men, may Allah bless him with four xalimos & if he ain't feeling them anymore may he marry another 4.

 

[xisaabiye]

The smart or somewhat religious males should plan to make it happen back home unless they stumble upon the elusive 1% among the diaspora garbage dump, I was just reading @cantspeak talk about his 13K savings "so far" in his quest to get married to some Xaalimo that would do it for an apple for shiisheyo

That same women that lead the farah to financial ruins would quickly let herself go to the point you can't tell if she's pregnant or clinically obese, in contrast when she is bought courtesy of an apple she goes to the gym regularly to maintain herself out of respect for her husband.

The reason why this happens is very simple and basic human psychology, one guys gives into extortion like a sheep and the other doesn't and therefore dictates the terms like he is supposed to, hence the dictator subconsciously inculcates respect through his actions while the sheep is ridiculed, debased and taken for a ride for his inaction and lack of stance.

In virtually all cases of interracial marriage the Shiisheyo doesn't even need to stand his ground, the women herself is innately and deeply "ashamed" to even dare extort him and so is her degenerate family.

But they doesn't feel this same remorseful shame with the Somali male's because of a flood of betaised guys like @xisaabiye and @waraabe whom have been bending over backwards for decades with no questions asked, even worse competing with each other over who can bend down the most and the longest.

Hence as a result a Somali man that stands his ground in the diaspora (10%) will not work because there are millions of @waraabe on the corner that are prepared to offer their entire minuscule life savings including his own limbs for her

The average general women is stupid and would go for this not knowing the ramifications of what she got herself into, for most of these women you could put a Prophet next to her and she wouldn't even have the ability to discern him from the average Farah, then people wonder why divorce rates are going through the roof.

Why you tagging me,I'm a player I wish I Could feel something instead of faking it. For every 10k mehr there's a one night stand

 

[dhegdheer]

Them getting kicked out for that is absolute nonsense and you know it. Somali parents do the most for the smallest things, but this is not one of them. Get tricked and held hostage in Somalia for coming home drunk, high or whatever. But marrying a revert is not looked down upon at all. I've had a grown man tell me "Maxa la sameeya adeer? Hada caawo guriga la ga saaro, sadex nin baa albaabka uu soo istaagaya"

I swear to god a relative of mine got chased out ha house by her mama when she told her she married a cadaan guy granted she'd already told her she was living with the white dude so at least she had some form of security

 

[xisaabiye]

Exactly, "OMG, Mitchell looked at me, OMG my heart is melting "



It never ends well. Gaalos been drinking, fukking, smoking, since they were 16, they won't give that up for some girl they "love". They will be going back to they're old lifestyle in three months time. After they're bored smashing the naive girl, they pack up they're bags and send a text telling the girl "Look, it isn't working out, it was nice getting to know you "

It's just something on they're bucket list "get with a Muslim girl".

Their bucket list . Walle white people waa imtixaan. " yeah when I was 25 I wanted to rag shag this burkah chick so I accepted Mohammedism"

 

[GodKnowsBest]

I like the story but you're not supposed to put yourself in a position where feelings can overcome reason especially when its a non-Muslim guy you cannot marry anyway. It's a pure lose-lose situation because even if he converts to be with her, that man will only hold onto the Deen long enough to get in her pants until the loveydovey honey moon stage is over. (which of course will eventually happen) I don't particularity trust reverts in that sense because of personal experience with a relative of mine. And even if she continues the relationship without him being Muslim that's a whole lot of sinning ahead.

Even as a Muslim guy living in the west, I've always gotta set my boundaries beforehand and never let myself get caught up in some feelings. Feelings are fickle and love never lasts. That's why marriage is a contract and love+feelings are only 1 part of it. Either way, I hope those two figure it out IsA.

I couldn't agree more with you brother.I feel entirely bad for the girl because she has rejected guys and not partaken in relationships so she may remain pure for God so that she can enter a marriage with no burdens.

She even listed that she loved him and had feelings for him but had to push the thoughts away so that she could marry a man who in her eyes God would want her to marry.

She has remained his friend and loved him while he has been dating other girls in front of her, that carries a lot of baggage and scarring and if they do end up in a relationship it will hurt her.

At the end of the day she saved herself for a pure and righteous man and he has been anything but.

To add onto this the religious barrier is frightening. Mixed religion relationships never work out. I suspect he would convert for her but he is not converting because he appreciates the religion, he is converting for her that will be a huge problem as you stated when the honey moon stage is over.

It's great you brought up the end of the honey moon stages because this is typically when most marriages end. If they have different religions likely while raising children and parents in law that do not approve their relationship will not work.

It has been 3 years since he posted up that reddit so it's worth digging up that user's posts to see where he is now. I really do pray that he has not scarred her since. Amen.

 

[Genie]

Why are you ppl always so predictably and why did this turn into another thread demeaning halimos
Insecure losers wallahi I hope you future wives cheat on u with a white man



Don't mind them lol it's apparently our fault if we don't chase, anything for them apple mehr jokes

They piss me off wallahi their logic is non existent when it comes to somali girls

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Going on dinner dates, festivals, group trips with the opposite gender is obviously impermissible. Most religious Somali girls don't do stuff like that...

Pretty sure she isn't religious and just wants the guy to convert to avoid getting rebuked by her parents.

This is the West. Take your sexist ideals to Arabia you Arab booty

 

[GodKnowsBest]

White sexpats want Somali girls now, the value of you Xaarlimos decreases by the day. Yall ganna end up like them asian hoes that let white guys disrespected them.

If men of other races want us it means are values increased. You want us to be Black women? The least sought after race, food stamp queens who don't raise their children, constantly crying for their baby daddy byyyyron.

You sound like you have a hint of jealousy because other race women don't chase after Somali men.

Understand Somali women are queens and we have so many men to choose from.

 

[black]

I swear to god a relative of mine got chased out ha house by her mama when she told her she married a cadaan guy granted she'd already told her she was living with the white dude so at least she had some form of security

That's where she fucked up, should've brought him home in a khamis and with a kitaab in his hand

 

[GodKnowsBest]

bruh in most of these instances it's the white guy chasing the somali girl

i highly doubt they make the first move. no woman ever has to.


Somali men need to understand this as well. In the new age with temptation at every corner you really should avoid marrying a woman who does not hail from a Muslim background. I have seen the product; confused children unsure of what path to take.

Now a revert is different than someone who converts solely for their spouse or maintain their . The issues avove is more for men who seek relationships with non Muslim women. The end product as of today is horrifying.

I agree 100%. This is why I'm only marrying a Christian even though it's be easier to marry a Muslim Somali man.

 

[merka]

Unfortunately, it's true, most are khasaaro.

You girls ain't innocent either

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Obviously, marrying a fellow Somali would be ideal/preferred but the older I and my Somali female friends get the more resigned we become to the fact the most likely won't happen. Somali men in Toronto are qasaro. Some people don't know any marriageable Somalis in their age group... would you prefer we die childless spinsisters? Xasids wallahi.

I once thought that way as well until I realized I had more in common with relugious Christian White guys than I did with Somali guys.

 

[Coulombs law]

This is the West. Take your sexist ideals to Arabia you Arab booty

How is it sexist ? The same thing goes for Muslim men as well, you can't invite a "Religious" girl to your house for dinner

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Yup that's what I'm beginning to learn as I interact with Xalimos here in America. Not all of them are like that obviously but a good portion who have been brainwashed by this western society are ruining the reputation of the pious God-fearing Xalimos. My biggest fear is when I'm ready for marriage and done with my education I'll end up with one of these Xalimos that lowkey have a rachet past . Like you said, good thing it's easy to pick up on it once you do a lil bit of interrogating but God knows I don't wanna end up with some born again virgin.

Love is overrated and tbh this guy seems like all he wants are some Somali cookies so he's using reddit to get a self-esteem boost before catching his prey. Why can't he just go after some becky that'll give it up after a Chipotle date??

Are you a virgin yourself walaal? Are you pious? Many of the men on here expect too much from women when they aren't bringing anything to the table. You're different in that you'll be a med student so many halimo will be on their knees for you but educated ones don't look twice at a man who is a hypocrite.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

How is it sexist ? The same thing goes for Muslim men as well, you can't invite a "Religious" girl to your house for dinner

Oh sorey. Didn't read the part where it was at his house. Yeah, that's Haram. I would never do that and I'm not super religious. That's disgusting honestly.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Which illustrates my point. The power is with Jewish female. She has the power to discriminate and be choosey, and yet she will pick a Jewish males 9/10. In Somali culture, the power is with the Somali male, due to clans being patrilineal. You aren't Somali if you're daddy isn't. Yet Somali men don't marry out as often as their female counterparts, and they certainly don't use the "as long as he's Muslim" get out of jail card. Xaliimos chasing cadaans, despite knowing their offspring will never be Somali and never be accepted just tells me one thing.

Somali women can't bee choosy?? Since when??? Every time I'm out with my parents and their friends show up, I'm given marriage offers.