NOFAP!!??

[arawelo 2.0]

What do you expect a sexually frustrated teen who can't have sex for religious reasons to do? Life's hard in the west. At this age I would've been married in Somalia

you could still get married

 

[Arman]

I never heard anything about masturbation being haram in Islam, unlike Christianity. Or I should say it's more clear to me that it's not OK in Christianity, whereas in Islam, it's not something I've heard.

I imagine that since you can't have sex whilst fasting in Ramadan, that masturbation's equally unacceptable, but other than that?

I'd say it's a gray area. It's disliked because of its uncertainty.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 1.49 Narrated by An Numan bin Bashir

I heard Allah's Messenger (saws) saying, Both, halaal and haraam things are evident, but in between them there are doubtful (suspicious) things, and most of the people have no knowledge about them. So whoever saves himself from these suspicious things, saves his religion and his honor. And whoever indulges in these suspicious things is like a shepherd who grazes (his animals) near the Hima (private pasture) of someone else and at any moment he is liable to get in it. (O people!) Beware! Every king has a Hima, and the Hima of Allah on the earth is His illegal (haraam) things. Beware! There is a piece of flesh in the body if it becomes good (reformed), the whole body becomes good; but if it gets spoilt the whole body gets spoilt; and that is: the heart.

It's why people are encouraged to marry so early.

Also, viewing ographic content or anything sexually explicit on purpose is considered a mild form of adultery.

 

[YoungFarah]

you could still get married

It's way easier to get married in Somalia all you need is to go to the badiyo/Miyi and give them 6 months worth of food as mehr to cope with the drought whereas most girls in London are asking for £10k+

 

[YoungFarah]

I'd say it's a gray area. It's disliked because of its uncertainty.



It's why people are encouraged to marry early.

Also, viewing ographic content or anything sexually explicit on purpose is considered a mild form of adultery.

Yh but it's a lesser of two evils. Rather than zina.

 

[XamarCade]

8 yrs,

From the time I was born till I turned 8

 

[TooMacaan]

That's where I found out about it. I know some niggas who got into some weird shit the longer they watched . also desensitises you to women as things people enjoy become overshadowed by viewing them as just sexual beings. Stopping watching also helps your mental health. That's what they preach.

Lmao, long term p0rn viewing tends to/can escalate into some 'wtf did I just watch...?' and 'I may need a psychiatrist after this' territory..and yh, I read the benefits to NoFap were more so for men than women. I think it's said to help perserve testosterone levels abd prevent erectile dysfunction as well. I'm not sure exactly how scientific it is though...
You don't completely buy what they preach?

 

[arawelo 2.0]

It's way easier to get married in Somalia all you need is to go to the badiyo/Miyi and give them 6 months worth of food as mehr to cope with the drought whereas most girls in London are asking for £10k+

then why not get married in Somalia

 

[Sarah136]

Cajib wallahi

 

[government]

I'd say it's a gray area. It's disliked because of its uncertainty.



It's why people are encouraged to marry so early.

Also, viewing ographic content or anything sexually explicit on purpose is considered a mild form of adultery.

Shikh Arman

 

[YoungFarah]

then why not get married in Somalia

Don't want her entire tol to be dependent on me. Plus I want someone I can connect with that is more or less similar

 

[arawelo 2.0]

Don't want her entire tol to be dependent on me. Plus I want someone I can connect with that is more or less similar

I see your dilemma but there's probably a better solution than 'fapping'

hopefully, you'll find a decent girl with a decent meher

 

[YoungFarah]

Lmao, long term p0rn viewing tends to/can escalate into some 'wtf did I just watch...?' and 'I may need a psychiatrist after this' territory..and yh, I read the benefits to NoFap were more so for men than women. I think it's said to help perserve testosterone levels abd prevent erectile dysfunction as well. I'm not sure exactly how scientific it is though...
You don't completely buy what they preach?

Whenever I tried it at around day 15 I felt changes such as less brain fog, more energy and more vivid dreams. Since I don't lack confidence I can't attest to this but some people on Reddit claim to have improved confidence such as eye contact and being able to approach girls etc. I mainly want to do it to improve my motivation and reduce my self-diagnosed depression.

 

[YoungFarah]

I see your dilemma but there's probably a better solution than 'fapping'

hopefully, you'll find a decent girl with a decent meher

Secret marriages are always an option :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Arman]

Shikh Arman

I like comparative religion.

 

[arawelo 2.0]

Secret marriages are always an option :siilaanyolaugh:

i'm certain that finding a girl who'll agree to that is much harder than finding one that meets your meher expectations.
but then again a lot of shit is possible these days

 

[Bonjour]

What do you expect a sexually frustrated teen who can't have sex for religious reasons to do? Life's hard in the west. At this age I would've been married in Somalia

If you're a teen don't even think about getting married. I know someone who got married at age 17 and now they are in their early 20s divorced and with a child. Instead, distract yourself with other things and stop watching .

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

Not to be discouraging but only 27 days?? The addiction is real out here lol..
I'm sure you're probably familiar with the sub reddit, judging by your title, perhaps it'll help you accomplish your objective this time

27 is amazing in my eyes

My record is 9 days

 

[YoungFarah]

27 is amazing in my eyes

My record is 9 days

The Skruggle is real

 

[TooMacaan]

Whenever I tried it at around day 15 I felt changes such as less brain fog, more energy and more vivid dreams. Since I don't lack confidence I can't attest to this but some people on Reddit claim to have improved confidence such as eye contact and being able to approach girls etc. I mainly want to do it to improve my motivation and reduce my self-diagnosed depression.

I think that's due to what they call "semen retention", I'm not sure how scientifically sound it is..but it's an interesting theory for sure. And it's pretty neat that it's helped with the brain fog and stuff; those symptoms are horrible to tolerate on the daily.
Other sites that might interest you to check out: yourbrainonporn.com and https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/8664-11-years-of-depression-and-nofap/

Edit: as to the confidence thing, I've actually heard that some guys find p0rn helps them with their confidence (probably the desensitization thing)

 

[Tjioux]

Stop faping and gabdho raadso sxb