Never marry a scammer/drug dealer...

[Finesse]

Haram money doesn't build a halal house.

I know this is common sense but I've noticed many young Somali guys are scamming and then turning around and using that same HARAM money to get married!


Do they not know how haram money affects families?!


It brings to mind the hadith about the "IBNU HARAM" boy, supposedly the prophet SAW and his companions were walking and this boy was playing but being annoying with it. Some of the sahaba tried to stop him but the prophet said; "leave him, he is ibnu haram", one of his companions was the boy's father. Naturally, he went home to accuse his wife of adultery. He returned to the prophet SAW and said, my wife didn't cheat on me, so why is my son "ibnu haram", the prophet replied with something along the lines of "you ate something you didn't pay for".

May Allah forgive me If I misquoted.


I just wanted to share as many young people think they can just steal and then later "seek forgiveness", however, that's not how it works!


Secondly, do you want to ruin your lineage, FOREVER, with corrupted children/doomed family, because you procreated with a THIEF?

There is no excuse for such behaviour.

Be very careful of marrying into families who have haram wealth, even if they steal/claim illegal benefits.

Haram money is not a joke, don't create more "ibnu haram".

 

[Helios]

Marry garbage = creating garbage kids

 

[Finesse]

Marry garbage = creating garbage kids

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I have noticed many young Somalis that are ill-mannered and frankly, quite shameless in their behaviour.

Many Somalis don't realise how much haram money they are consuming and they think it's normal to steal from the government even.

Imagine how many families are doomed.

 

[416]

Families who claim no father and take cayr, have the most problems in their relationship

 

[tootrappy]

True I realised that money is not everything and quit that life the main reason I quit is because I wouldn’t want my future children being criminals

 

[MI]

Excellent advice may I add onto it with a few others?

Don’t kill yourself
Drink water
Beware of bears in a forest
Don’t invade Russia in the winter

 

[HanadR6]

Drug money > Male stripper money

 

[Caartan Boos]

Haram money doesn't build a halal house.


I've noticed many young Somali guys are scamming and then turning around and using that same HARAM money to get married.

Do they not know how haram money affects families?

It brings to mind the hadith about the "IBNU HARAM" boy, supposedly the prophet SAW and his companions were walking and this boy was playing but being annoying with it. Some of the sahaba tried to stop him but the prophet said; "leave him, he is ibnu haram", one of his companions was the boy's father. Naturally, he went home to accuse his wife of adultery. He returned to the prophet SAW and said, my wife didn't cheat on me, so why is my son "ibnu haram", the prophet replied with something along the lines of "you ate something you didn't pay for".

May Allah forgive me for misquoting.

I just wanted to share as many young people think they can just steal and then later "seek forgiveness", however, that's not how it works!


Secondly, do you want to ruin your lineage, FOREVER, with corrupted children/doomed family, because you procreated with a THIEF?

There is no excuse for such behaviour.

Be very careful of marrying into families who have haram wealth, even if they steal/claim illegal benefits.

Haram money is not a joke, don't create more "ibnu haram".

Can you please show me the evidence, where is the Hadith from

 

[Finesse]

Excellent advice may I add onto it with a few others?

Don’t kill yourself
Drink water
Beware of bears in a forest
Don’t invade Russia in the winter

Unfortunately, common sense is not common!

 

[Helios]

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I have noticed many young Somalis that are ill-mannered and frankly, quite shameless in their behaviour.

Many Somalis don't realise how much haram money they are consuming and they think it's normal to steal from the government even.

Imagine how many families are doomed.

Pick your spouses carefully everyone. Inshallah I'll find myself a cute xalimo with deen when the time comes.

 

[Samira]

"Haram money" is like "haram alcohol": a total redundancy. The concept was made in a time where simple muscular men made their living from the sweat of their brow. In their time there were such things as honest days. You live in a degenerate and dark age. There is no hope for "halal" money. Just lighten up and have fun sis.

 

[Caartan Boos]

Haram money doesn't build a halal house.


I've noticed many young Somali guys are scamming and then turning around and using that same HARAM money to get married.

Do they not know how haram money affects families?

It brings to mind the hadith about the "IBNU HARAM" boy, supposedly the prophet SAW and his companions were walking and this boy was playing but being annoying with it. Some of the sahaba tried to stop him but the prophet said; "leave him, he is ibnu haram", one of his companions was the boy's father. Naturally, he went home to accuse his wife of adultery. He returned to the prophet SAW and said, my wife didn't cheat on me, so why is my son "ibnu haram", the prophet replied with something along the lines of "you ate something you didn't pay for".

May Allah forgive me for misquoting.

I just wanted to share as many young people think they can just steal and then later "seek forgiveness", however, that's not how it works!


Secondly, do you want to ruin your lineage, FOREVER, with corrupted children/doomed family, because you procreated with a THIEF?

There is no excuse for such behaviour.

Be very careful of marrying into families who have haram wealth, even if they steal/claim illegal benefits.

Haram money is not a joke, don't create more "ibnu haram".

I never knew some brothers would get married with drug money

 

[Helios]

Excellent advice may I add onto it with a few others?

Don’t kill yourself
Drink water
Beware of bears in a forest
Don’t invade Russia in the winter

Unless you're the Mongols

 

[Finesse]

Can you please show me the evidence, where is the Hadith from

As soon as I find, I will share it!

 

[Ayubi]

Honestly though, who would marry a thug or a drug dealer? Only women with low self esteem or s like those type of men. Self respecting women would not go for them unless their ignorant.

 

[Nostalgia]

I don't think kids inherit their parents sin.
Maybe the pressure of paying expensive mehr and paying for a big wedding makes some guys do that.

In my case never heard of it.

 

[Inquisitive_]

This is a common thing among Somali's and has become part of lifestyle, you have people who consistently pray in the first row at the mosque engage in these types of dealing.

Then you wonder why the boys are filling the prison system and the girls being lost in clubs and shiisha places.

 

[Shmurda]

I'd rather a bytch that flips shaqo and makes bands instead of a bytch that don't do nothing all day and ask u for money

 

[?????]

Excellent advice may I add onto it with a few others?

Don’t kill yourself
Drink water
Beware of bears in a forest
Don’t invade Russia in the winter

People need help and advice to not marry a drug dealer. No shit Sherlock and who tf is shukaansing a scammer????

 

[Lostbox]

But currencies is backed by interest though

 

[Odkac WRLD]

Families who claim no father and take cayr, have the most problems in their relationship

This happens wherever the Mali’s are....
I thought it was only Seattle but nearly every mali family in the US are on benefit
Like 9 out of 10 families
I thank god my parents were hard working and didn’t need a handout