Especially a girl.
Their insecurities surrounding their weight is toxic. A lot of ppl feel sorry for them thinking they are attention deprived but if you become close with someone whose overweight, you'll notice they not only eat your food, they eat up your energy too. I tried to be nice to a fat girl at work because i'm a polite person but months later I get regular miscalls from her, when she does eventually catch me she tries to drag her trivial conversations nonstop, it irks me more when she talks about something involving person X or person Y and I use to ask her who is this person X or Y and that just kept the conversation going on for longer, now I've stopped asking those questions and pretend to know what on earth she's talking about. It is so narcissistic to bring up random names in a conversation like i'm suppose to know who they are. It is a constant battle to avoid her wallahi. That sort of behaviour is enough to push a nigha away from any woman, good looking or not.
Last night was the last straw for me. We had a Xmas party and she dressed up, I noticed she made a real effort so I simply said "you look nice". She ended up chilling with me for 2 hours because of that. I went to the toilet and she waited outside. I stepped out for a blem and she came out with me. Wherever i went, there she was. Nothing was deterring her
I told her I was tired so I sat down for a while. She wanted to dance so she managed to find another colleague of mine who took one for the team, this colleague is one of my closest friends but he's too nice for his own good. I could see he was suffocating. By half 11 he said he's gonna bounce, I looked at him like
don't leave me with her.
Fast forward to midnight and the shots were taking it's toll. This whale was all up in my space, I couldn't even enjoy the presence of the many pretty girls I use to kick it with, without hurting her feelings.
It got to half midnight and I tried telling her I need to leave. She begged me to wait for her so she can order an Uber to get home. I told her my phone is dead so unless you're booking me an Uber too don't fucking waste my time because there is no way i'll be able to get home. She wasn't keen to book me an Uber despite me offering to pay her back but she said let's go and ask the building ppl for Android chargers so you can charge it and wait with me and I looked at her like
not only is that a stretch, i'd rather miss my train and take a nightbus home, which I eventually ended up doing.
That's when I realised they are actually selfish. A fat person will never do favours for you. Ever. Despite everything I did for her, purely out of politeness.
On the plus side, she's been texting me if I got home safe and I haven't responded. She knows i'm pissed off and that's enough justification to ignore her from now on. She's done this to another colleague of mine before, overstepping her friendship boundaries and he gives her the silent treatment. The only problem is, the is loud and not conscious of ppl around her, she will loudly blurt out why am I ignoring her but no fucks given no more wallahi.
Before anyone feels personally offended, I have ppl in my own family who are overweight and I've noticed the same thing. Boys or girls alike, they are all lowkey mad at the World. Lose the fucking weight if you want to be taken seriously.
Their insecurities surrounding their weight is toxic. A lot of ppl feel sorry for them thinking they are attention deprived but if you become close with someone whose overweight, you'll notice they not only eat your food, they eat up your energy too. I tried to be nice to a fat girl at work because i'm a polite person but months later I get regular miscalls from her, when she does eventually catch me she tries to drag her trivial conversations nonstop, it irks me more when she talks about something involving person X or person Y and I use to ask her who is this person X or Y and that just kept the conversation going on for longer, now I've stopped asking those questions and pretend to know what on earth she's talking about. It is so narcissistic to bring up random names in a conversation like i'm suppose to know who they are. It is a constant battle to avoid her wallahi. That sort of behaviour is enough to push a nigha away from any woman, good looking or not.
Last night was the last straw for me. We had a Xmas party and she dressed up, I noticed she made a real effort so I simply said "you look nice". She ended up chilling with me for 2 hours because of that. I went to the toilet and she waited outside. I stepped out for a blem and she came out with me. Wherever i went, there she was. Nothing was deterring her
I told her I was tired so I sat down for a while. She wanted to dance so she managed to find another colleague of mine who took one for the team, this colleague is one of my closest friends but he's too nice for his own good. I could see he was suffocating. By half 11 he said he's gonna bounce, I looked at him like
don't leave me with her.Fast forward to midnight and the shots were taking it's toll. This whale was all up in my space, I couldn't even enjoy the presence of the many pretty girls I use to kick it with, without hurting her feelings.
It got to half midnight and I tried telling her I need to leave. She begged me to wait for her so she can order an Uber to get home. I told her my phone is dead so unless you're booking me an Uber too don't fucking waste my time because there is no way i'll be able to get home. She wasn't keen to book me an Uber despite me offering to pay her back but she said let's go and ask the building ppl for Android chargers so you can charge it and wait with me and I looked at her like
not only is that a stretch, i'd rather miss my train and take a nightbus home, which I eventually ended up doing.That's when I realised they are actually selfish. A fat person will never do favours for you. Ever. Despite everything I did for her, purely out of politeness.
On the plus side, she's been texting me if I got home safe and I haven't responded. She knows i'm pissed off and that's enough justification to ignore her from now on. She's done this to another colleague of mine before, overstepping her friendship boundaries and he gives her the silent treatment. The only problem is, the is loud and not conscious of ppl around her, she will loudly blurt out why am I ignoring her but no fucks given no more wallahi.
Before anyone feels personally offended, I have ppl in my own family who are overweight and I've noticed the same thing. Boys or girls alike, they are all lowkey mad at the World. Lose the fucking weight if you want to be taken seriously.
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