Never befriend a fat person

[Hardwork2019]

80% of halimos post marriage become heavyweight

 

[Basra]

Especially a girl.

Their insecurities surrounding their weight is toxic. A lot of ppl feel sorry for them thinking they are attention deprived but if you become close with someone whose overweight, you'll notice they not only eat your food, they eat up your energy too. I tried to be nice to a fat girl at work because i'm a polite person but months later I get regular miscalls from her, when she does eventually catch me she tries to drag her trivial conversations nonstop, it irks me more when she talks about something involving person X or person Y and I use to ask her who is this person X or Y and that just kept the conversation going on for longer, now I've stopped asking those questions and pretend to know what on earth she's talking about. It is so narcissistic to bring up random names in a conversation like i'm suppose to know who they are. It is a constant battle to avoid her wallahi. That sort of behaviour is enough to push a nigha away from any woman, good looking or not.

Last night was the last straw for me. We had a Xmas party and she dressed up, I noticed she made a real effort so I simply said "you look nice". She ended up chilling with me for 2 hours because of that. I went to the toilet and she waited outside. I stepped out for a blem and she came out with me. Wherever i went, there she was. Nothing was deterring her

I told her I was tired so I sat down for a while. She wanted to dance so she managed to find another colleague of mine who took one for the team, this colleague is one of my closest friends but he's too nice for his own good. I could see he was suffocating. By half 11 he said he's gonna bounce, I looked at him like don't leave me with her.

Fast forward to midnight and the shots were taking it's toll. This whale was all up in my space, I couldn't even enjoy the presence of the many pretty girls I use to kick it with, without hurting her feelings.

It got to half midnight and I tried telling her I need to leave. She begged me to wait for her so she can order an Uber to get home. I told her my phone is dead so unless you're booking me an Uber too don't fucking waste my time because there is no way i'll be able to get home. She wasn't keen to book me an Uber despite me offering to pay her back but she said let's go and ask the building ppl for Android chargers so you can charge it and wait with me and I looked at her like not only is that a stretch, i'd rather miss my train and take a nightbus home, which I eventually ended up doing.

That's when I realised they are actually selfish. A fat person will never do favours for you. Ever. Despite everything I did for her, purely out of politeness.

On the plus side, she's been texting me if I got home safe and I haven't responded. She knows i'm pissed off and that's enough justification to ignore her from now on. She's done this to another colleague of mine before, overstepping her friendship boundaries and he gives her the silent treatment. The only problem is, the is loud and not conscious of ppl around her, she will loudly blurt out why am I ignoring her but no fucks given no more wallahi.

Before anyone feels personally offended, I have ppl in my own family who are overweight and I've noticed the same thing. Boys or girls alike, they are all lowkey mad at the World. Lose the fucking weight if you want to be taken seriously.

ALL this drivel about a fat person????????? do u watch chubby ?????

 

[Shmurda]

One of my bestfriends was fat he would always cheer me up when I was down, share his food with me, help me out with everything and was a joy to be around. He was the only person I met that was a truly pure soul rest in peace

 

[Nomoregames2019]

Fat people are digusting, there should be a law making everyone who is overweight to be sent to a fat camp until they lose weight. In Japan, they have complusory fat check ups for people over the age of 40 who are overweight. I wish it was like this in the West.

 

[Jiron]

While being nice and respectable to others is a noble trait, I would also recommend to be very careful how you interact with coworkers. Keep it professional and set boundaries, remember the security of your job comes second to none. With that said, please don't body shame your coworker, her plus size has nothing to do with her actions, instead try to be more direct with her without sounding offensive, like write down what you want to say and then say it like you would give her a constructive feedback, good luck sxb

 

[Nomoregames2019]

I don't understand how being overweight has anything to do with a persons conduct..

Because appearances matter in this world, if a homeless guy was trying to sell you perfume on the street would you take 2 mins to listen to him? No you wouldn't. If you can't take care of your own health, how will people take you seriously as a person especially when working in a company and you're dealing with clients.

 

[HalimaJ]

Because appearances matter in this world, if a homeless guy was trying to sell you perfume on the street would you take 2 mins to listen to him? No you wouldn't. If you can't take care of your own health, how will people take you seriously as a person especially when working in a company and you're dealing with clients.

I agree, being fat is not a good look, but ridiculing them and looking down on them is not acceptable.

Tell that to most of your mothers and aunts.

A lot have a lot to say about fat people, yet I can imagine most of your elder female/male members of your own family are virtually obese.

Just stop with that.

 

[Nomoregames2019]

I agree, being fat is not a good look, but ridiculing them and looking down on them is not acceptable.

Tell that to most of your mothers and aunts.

A lot have a lot to say about fat people, yet I can imagine most of your elder female/male members of your own family are virtually obese.

Just stop with that.

Yep. They do. All of them have diabetes and have severe back problems cause their fat asses couldn't control their caloric intake.