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[HalimaJ]

A man talking about his feelings to world is homosexual but definitely feminine and fruity

Have you made an error or are you implying that talking about feelings is homosexual?

Also, men are human. Nothing wrong with expressing yourself to close ones here and there and that is what this young man is talking about. There is nothing wrong with emotional stoicism, but many men are emotional, but they express their emotions in ways that are considered acceptable, yet damaging to themselves. Intense anger, aggression and hyper lust are all 'feeling' btw. A lot of emotionally unstable men or men going through a lot unleash their emotions in these unhealthy ways.

It is a lot more healthy and masculine we can argue if these men had a safe space where they can deal with their shit and then go through life with their intense emotions in check.

 

[HalimaJ]

A real nigga is his own therapist. All he needs in life to be successful is himself. He doesn't need to vent to other people because he knows that he can fix his problems by himself. You become a real nigga when you realize that other people are gonna come and go but you will always be there for yourself.

Humans are social creatures. It is only now in the age of modernisation and technology that people think that intense individuality is natural. Now suicide, mental health issues and depression is on the rise. We as people have been built to be community orientated.

Even in the past when men were warriors and stoicism was the order of the day, they had close friendships and true companionship.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Have you made an error or are you implying that talking about feelings is homosexual?

Also, men are human. Nothing wrong with expressing yourself to close ones here and there and that is what this young man is talking about. There is nothing wrong emotional stoicism, but many men are emotional, but they express their emotions in ways that are considered acceptable, yet damaging to them. Intense anger, aggression and hyper lust are all 'feeling' btw. A lot of emotionally unstable men or men going through a lot unleash their emotions in these unhealthy ways.

It is a lot more healthy and masculine we can argue if these men had a safe space where they can deal with their shit and then go through life with their intense emotions in check.

He should only express to Allah swt and a close confidant. Men can't imitate women

 

[HalimaJ]

He should only express to Allah swt and a close confidant. Men can't imitate women

Look at my post above.

 

[Mimir]

He doesn't really strike me as feminine @Samaalic Era @Shmurda What I did notice though is that he's trying his best not to man spread.It seems like he's trying his best not to offend feminists and sjws

 

[NotMyL]

All the dudes calling him homosexual and feminine are the type too afraid to put on hand lotion or chapstick cuz it would make them feminine

@VixR Thanks for sharing him, I haven’t seen him before, he kinda reminds me of Subhi Taha, nothing sexier than a man who is emotionally intelligent.

 

[Mimir]

The video overall was uhmmm.....interesting to say the least.Might not agree with some stuff but I understand and respect his point of view.

 

[Shmurda]

He doesn't really strike me as feminine @Samaalic Era @Shmurda What I did notice though is that he's trying his best not to man spread.It seems like he's trying his best not to offend feminists and sjws

I was trolling tbh but hes doing too much not gonna lie

 

[Peaches]

I agree victimization isn’t good, but I don’t see why anyone should make that leap.

What he said about guys not being able to tell each other what they’re going through is true, though. Male-to-male friendships are more activity based, and surface level. They bottle the real shit, and it comes out in other ways.

If they trust you, they might be more likely to tell a woman, and maybe not even then.

I noticed a huge transformation in one of my bros, when he was going through a pretty hedonistic, every-day-like-the-last mentality. Even though he was on track otherwise, I could tell something was up, and he suddenly changed up for the positive completely. He used to have a short fuse. Recently, he told me what happened in retrospect, and it was bc he found a Muslim, male EA therapist that could actually work things through with when he was going through a patch. We’re human.

yeah i see what you're saying, go your friend!!!
let me add on to it.

Men need support, a shoulder to lean on, maybe even a therapist etc but when they go out into the world and seek it (especially online) they create communities (mgtow, incels)

it seems like men prefer a group instead of an intimate one on one relationship. In this group, they are just one of many. "Hey, if you are going through what i am going through - something or someone must be targeting all of us" that leads them to finding a scapegoat, and victimization.

Idk i don't think this is unique to men, people generally look for explanations to their life problems, that are outside of their control, its the system, the neighbourhood, patriarchy...but all of the other times were people have formed a coalition based on similar problems - they've had something to work for? a cause to rally behind. Feminism had abortion, voting, blacklivesmatter have police brutality. Online communities like incel.com only have an enemy and that scares me, because i can see it turning into hopelessness, there's nothing to do, let's give up on life mentality.

 

[Peaches]

Love the title btw, a genius way to make people click.

 

[VixR]

yeah i see what you're saying, go your friend!!!
let me add on to it.

Men need support, a shoulder to lean on, maybe even a therapist etc but when they go out into the world and seek it (especially online) they create communities (mgtow, incels)

it seems like men prefer a group instead of an intimate one on one relationship. In this group, they are just one of many. "Hey, if you are going through what i am going through - something or someone must be targeting all of us" that leads them to finding a scapegoat, and victimization.

Idk i don't think this is unique to men, people generally look for explanations to their life problems, that are outside of their control, its the system, the neighbourhood, patriarchy...but all of the other times were people have formed a coalition based on similar problems - they've had something to work for? a cause to rally behind. Feminism had abortion, voting, blacklivesmatter have police brutality. Online communities like incel.com only have an enemy and that scares me, because i can see it turning into hopelessness, there's nothing to do, let's give up on life mentality.

Great points. To add to the group thing, there are female groups online, but they don’t tend towards an enemy. They’re communities, like mom groups, story-sharing, blogs, etc, even the feminist groups aren’t enemy-oriented, but about a goal or a sharing fest.

I think the male gatherings places like incel.com or subreddits, or even a forum like this one where they outnumber the women and every thread is an attack on women isn’t therapeutic, and the group is actually something they’re hiding behind, instead of something they need.

Groups are good for ineffectual, self-serving echo chambers that agree with you, they’re not good for self-reflection. That’s where you need solitude, and a 1:1 that you feel comfortable with, man or woman. And mind you, online groups are anonymous, so men don’t actually feel comfortable in groups where they’re sharing intimate details in reality, quite the opposite, it’s women who tend to. So really, they’re quasi-comfortable in groups.

 

[VixR]

Love the title btw, a genius way to make people click.

I’ve been thinking about starting a YT channel and maybe sharing it on here

 

[Basra]

Well he does live in Atlanta, Mecca of Black Gay Power

 

[VixR]

All the dudes calling him homosexual and feminine are the type too afraid to put on hand lotion or chapstick cuz it would make them feminine

@VixR Thanks for sharing him, I haven’t seen him before, he kinda reminds me of Subhi Taha, nothing sexier than a man who is emotionally intelligent.

Sis, I made a thread on his first video. That’s right, I’m saying I’ve been on this wave for 3 months now I might be a hipster for real.

 

[Yukon_Niner]

I don't understand this shit, just maintain post-nut clarity till you feel like you don't want that clarity anymore. Every problem will seem trivial and unimportant afterwards. Everything feels easy afterwards.

Don't bottle it up, jack it off like a real man

 

[Furioso]

...Somali crush.


You could tell this guy is good people

@Desert Flower You have to find him. He’s Reer Henny.

@VixR, stop lying to the people. He’s not Reer Henny. Lol, I stalked his Instagram a few weeks ago. You must be a whole private investigator. I wasn’t able to find any information like that.

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

I don't understand this shit, just maintain post-nut clarity till you feel like you don't want that clarity anymore. Every problem will seem trivial and unimportant afterwards. Everything feels easy afterwards.

Don't bottle it up, jack it off like a real man

Nigga November ended 24 days ago people have already planned this months ahead

 

[riyaale]

He's pretty cute.

Men do need safe spaces and support, the problem is that these communities seem to focus way too much on finding an enemy or ways to victimize themselves?

 

[VixR]

@VixR, stop lying to the people. He’s not Reer Henny. Lol, I stalked his Instagram a few weeks ago. You must be a whole private investigator. I wasn’t able to find any information like that.

Actually, I couldn’t tell you where I got the Canadian from. Maybe I just decided he was Canadian from scratch, bc his demeanor lol. He doesn’t seem American. Are you saying he’s reer MN?

 

[PhySom]

Damnt I thought you had a youtube channel. Biggest clickbait since that weird crazy guy who loved pregnant woman.