My Thoughts On Interracial Relationships and 'Supposed' Male Hypocrisy

[Abdurahman_somali]

Mate we both know that many here have real problems with Somali women marrying out and use that as a
way to bash them.

When a Somali woman marries out they are insulted by the guys on this board and some go as far as calling the kids bastards even if she is married to a decent Muslim man.

A child takes on a fathers lineage, however, ethnicity and lineage is not the same.

Many Saudis are of Yemeni and Turkish background, yet they are still regarded as Saudi.

Stop conflating the two.

Ethnicity and lineage is the same. You mean lineage and nationality is not the same. Saudi nationality includes everyone with a Saudi passport, but real Arab you become only if you can trace your lineage back to Arab forefathers. Same with Somali.

Their kids are not bastards and if they marry out an decent Muslim Ajnabi it is not my concern or anybody else, but their families. No one has the right insult them or look down at them. The problem here is you can't deny that almost all Somali women who marry out, do it without the permission of their parents, and in the end most of this marriages don't last long. So they can marry out as much as they want i don't care, i just made clear that the kids have no Somali lineage and are not part of our ethnicity. That is a fact.

Me as a Somali man would never allow some Ajnabi guy to marry any of my sisters. I will only allow a Muslim Somali guy. This is not nationalism, but my God given right and duty to protect my female relatives. However if any female does it with the permission of her family Ahlan wa Sahlan, it is her good right then. I can only say if she breaks up with him, wich happen in most of this marriages, her kids are not Somali. You can't argue about that. The father and his folks will always (rightfully) claim her children.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Where did I say that a Muslim woman can marry without her father's permission? Did I not state that she can marry whom she wants as long as the sharia requirements are met? You are tugging at straws and you know it.
My own cousin married her ajnabi husband with the full permission of her father. What now?

You are a hypocrite

Calling Allahs creation 'danyeer' 'ugly' ect due to their race.

One min you preach Islam, the next you are insulting a whole horde of people for the way they look that young man is not acceptable in the Sharia.

My Islamic belief and my personal views do not conflict. By choosing to distant people whos genes are clearly a disadvantage does not make me a hypocrite.

That same father/cuck would never allow his daugther to marry a Madhibaan,Tumal,Yibir but would allow a low born,uncultured ajnabi to breed with his daughter

 

[Struggle]

I fail to see what is so great about marrying a Somali girl @Samaalic Era Marrying a Somali girl is a boderline masochism and a Recipee for a miserable life.

 

[Samaalic Era]

I fail to see what is so great about marrying a Somali girl @Samaalic Era Marrying a Somali girl is a boderline masochism and a Recipee for a miserable life.

Walal, alhamdulillah im already married to a Somali woman with a religious,responisble father and pious family. Im the head of the household alhamduillah.

Your right about western Somali women sxb. You have to not only be a masochist but a cuck,a retard and low self esteem individual to chase one

 

[Degmada waaberi]

On another thread, forum member @Abdisamad3 asked the question, why do we Somali men, get mad when a xalimo marries out? The answer is, we're not cucks. Apart from cuck westerners and east Asians, every other race/people groups, do not allow/want their women marrying out and breeding for another race/ethnicity.

In this world, the offsprings of a couple, follow the father, not the mother (only Jews have it the other way around) The children take the father's name, and the father's clan/tribe/race.
Why do you think in world history, in cases of conquests, why were the womenfolk spared and the men killed off? Thats because the women folk increase the numbers of the conqueror, even if those women be of races deemed inferior to the conqueror's race. In this world it's acceptable for a man to go and plant his oats in women of other races, because of what i have stated above. But, a woman doing the same thing is unacceptable, because she's decreasing her race/ethnicity. Its pretty simple.

Last year, there was outrage in Uganda. What was happening was, a tonne of Chinese men, were coming to Uganda and marrying Ugandan women. Now, it's absolutely fine for those Chinese men, to go and marry a bantu woman, because the children from those unions will have chinese names. Now, if it was the otherway around, no chinese man would have a bantu marry and mate with his sister.

I am married to a beautiful women from Cape Verde, and we have a little girl together, with another on the way (In Sha Allah) Now, my children, have my name, they have my qabil, my daughter speaks Somali, so to will my other child (In Sha Allah) It's because of that, they are Somali.

My personal view is, if a Somali woman wants to go and spread her legs and breed for a cadaan, madow, arab man, then so be it. But what i don't like and don't want to see is for her to then call any children she has with another race, Somali. I do not accept an cadaan, madow, arab looking individual, with an cadaan, madow, or arab name, as Somali. That's how the world works.

SIMPLE AS.

Brother You're not here to preserve a qabiil or ethnicity but to worship Allah (swt)

"I created the jinn and humankind only that they might worship Me" surah Adh-Dhariyat verse 56

Brother focus on your life and your family.

Surah At-tahrim "O ye who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire whereof the fuel is men and stones, over which are set angels strong, severe, who resist not Allah in that which He commandeth them, but do that which they are commanded."

Qabiil or ethnicity will mean nothing on judgement day, likewise those in paradise will not look anything like how they looked on earth, so what's the point of worrying about who marries who.

Personally, I would only marry a gabar soomaaliyed cuz we share the same deen, language, dhaqan iyo country or even qabiil and would expect my sons (if Allah swt blesses me with sons) to marry gabdho somali ah and my daughters (if Allah swt blesses me with daughters) to marry niman somali ah, I wouldn't let some random foreigner into my family whether it be male or female lkn at the same time I would not insult, look down or criticise some random Xalimo's life chooses.

Our time is limited and only Allah (swt) knows when each and everyone of us will leave this planet so why not work towards our akhria instead of things that will not matter on the day of judgement like qabiil or ethnicity.

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

Then Daroods are not Somali.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Then Daroods are not Somali.

You're become a troll today

 

[xalimathe6]

@Armadillo ignore her saaxib, she’s reer henny they have a graveyard for faraaxs and the xalimos are pretty much *****s View attachment 71564 plus the reality is there is most likely no attractive woman on this site because they wouldn’t Be on here defending *****s iyo ciyaalasuuq they would be out there being the hoe they want to be but this xalimo is obviously obese with a few clogged arteries with timo Madow and will probably soon be harbouring a little Abu daquan oo bastar ah.View attachment 71565 Waxad arkasaa yatha oo YouTube kujirta oo kahaadlisa “nimankaa somalidaa romance mayaganaan sida nimanka kalee” oo mel walba baruur kamogata...View attachment 71566

iskaa suug saaxib.View attachment 71567

You're wrong on all points, and clearly salty. Most of what you described me is probably what you look like yourself you bucktooth musty c*nt. You're clearly very ugly and insecure since you're so mad about a random Somali woman marrying a non-Somali man. Somali diaspora in Toronto are far better than whatever shithole you're from which is probably London or MN.

You're just another pathetic, ugly undesirable incel who hates seeing other people happy because of how miserable you are.

 

[xalimathe6]

She's a nutcase. She's well known in this forum, for self-hatred and support for dh1lo lifestyle.

Self hatred? Looool yeah no. I can be called many things but self hating is not one of them, and idc what anyone on this site thinks of me.

What is a "dh1lo" lifestyle? Are you saying that Somali women who marry non-Somali men are automatically dh1los?

You are clearly a very jealous & insecure person, and probably angry that Idris Elba is in his 40s yet still has more hair on his head than you. Do yourself a favour and get a hair transplant in Turkey.

 

[pablo]

You're wrong on all points, and clearly salty. Most of what you described me is probably what you look like yourself you bucktooth musty c*nt. You're clearly very ugly and insecure since you're so mad about a random Somali woman marrying a non-Somali man. Somali diaspora in Toronto are far better than whatever shithole you're from which is probably London or MN.

You're just another pathetic, ugly undesirable incel who hates seeing other people happy because of how miserable you are.

There are some rare good xalimos over there in Canada but let’s be real, a lot more of them are like the great caraweelo a.k.a Monique ibrahim. Btw your definitely an unattractive, overweight xalimo if you really weren’t you would be out there living your life or ignoring what we say on this site. And I look like a young johnny depp dipped in chocolato

 

[Degmada waaberi]

You're wrong on all points, and clearly salty. Most of what you described me is probably what you look like yourself you bucktooth musty c*nt. You're clearly very ugly and insecure since you're so mad about a random Somali woman marrying a non-Somali man. Somali diaspora in Toronto are far better than whatever shithole you're from which is probably London or MN.

You're just another pathetic, ugly undesirable incel who hates seeing other people happy. Miserable

Sister maanta waad xanaqsan tahay

Take a chill pill

"Somali diaspora in Toronto are far better than whatever shithole you're from which is probably London or MN."

I'll have you know madam London is a very nice place and I've lived here for nearly 15 years and one thing it's not is a "shithole" lkn you'll find all sort of people just like any other city so let's all calm down.

Btw curious question, are you also HG like
@Mckenzie
@Samaalic Era
@HIGH PRIESTESS
@Halimo-2018
@RichEnoughForGucci
@HalimaJ

 

[Leila]

Some people on SSpot seem to think that there is a large number of Somali women marrying out . In reality most Somali men and women marry someone from their own community. I lived in London for years, out of all the weddings that I attended and the couples I have seen I could count the Somali -ajnabi marriages on one hand . Even in Holland where I live now and Somalis are a tiny community interracial marriages are rare. We are one of the most endogamous communities.

 

[Degmada waaberi]

Some people on SSpot seem to think that there is a large number of Somali women marrying out . In reality most Somali men and women marry someone from their own community. I lived in London for years, out of all the weddings that I attended and the couples I have seen I could count the Somali -ajnabi marriages on one hand . Even in Holland where I live now and Somalis are a tiny community interracial marriages are rare. We are one of the most endogamous communities.

I think some people just exaggerate things when they hear about a somali marrying out, as if it's every single Somali woman or man who is marrying out lkn it's not that big. If your going to marry (whoever that may be) than make sure you follow the deen of Allah (swt) and focus on your life and family and work towards your akhira.

 

[xalimathe6]

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There are some rare good xalimos over there in Canada but let’s be real, a lot more of them are like the great caraweelo a.k.a Monique ibrahim. Btw your definitely an unattractive, overweight xalimo if you really weren’t you would be out there living your life or ignoring what we say on this site. And I look like a young johnny depp dipped in chocolato View attachment 71602

That girl is a rare exception, only Somalis who do that shit are Abdis 97% of the time.

That logic technically works for you, since you got so angry of what I said you dumb f*ck. And if you weren't ugly and insecure, you wouldn't be online hating on other people's relationships.

You're projecting, since you're clearly a bucktooth, ugly involuntarily virgin Abdi with a receding hairline who can't find a girlfriend which is why you get so mad when you see a happy couple, cause of how miserable & jealous you are.

 

[xalimathe6]

Sister maanta waad xanaqsan tahay

Take a chill pill

"Somali diaspora in Toronto are far better than whatever shithole you're from which is probably London or MN."

I'll have you know madam London is a very nice place and I've lived here for nearly 15 years and one thing it's not is a "shithole" lkn you'll find all sort of people just like any other city so let's all calm down.

Btw curious question, are you also HG like
@Mckenzie
@Samaalic Era
@HIGH PRIESTESS
@Halimo-2018
@RichEnoughForGucci
@HalimaJ

Lol I was just defending reer Toronto fam. Don't take much of what I say personally.

and yes

 

[Schematics]

Somali women are the property of Somali men.

Whatever an ajnabi women bares for a Somali man is 100% Somali(Bantu women not included)

Nah. Somali women in the west can marry out. The civilized thing for them to do is to not bother other Somalis with their kids. They belong to other nations and communities they married into.

Ethnicity and lineage is the same. You mean lineage and nationality is not the same. Saudi nationality includes everyone with a Saudi passport, but real Arab you become only if you can trace your lineage back to Arab forefathers. Same with Somali.

Their kids are not bastards and if they marry out an decent Muslim Ajnabi it is not my concern or anybody else, but their families. No one has the right insult them or look down at them. The problem here is you can't deny that almost all Somali women who marry out, do it without the permission of their parents, and in the end most of this marriages don't last long. So they can marry out as much as they want i don't care, i just made clear that the kids have no Somali lineage and are not part of our ethnicity. That is a fact.

Me as a Somali man would never allow some Ajnabi guy to marry any of my sisters. I will only allow a Muslim Somali guy. This is not nationalism, but my God given right and duty to protect my female relatives. However if any female does it with the permission of her family Ahlan wa Sahlan, it is her good right then. I can only say if she breaks up with him, wich happen in most of this marriages, her kids are not Somali. You can't argue about that. The father and his folks will always (rightfully) claim her children.

Some exceptions we can make would be if she married from east African tribes who are close to us Somalis in looks and culture like Afar and Oromo Muslims. The kids can easily blend in and eventually claim to be Somalis if the fathers abandon them. Kids not standing out from others is important in terms of looks. Somalis are strict in lineage.

 

[pablo]

That girl is a rare exception, only Somalis who do that shit are Abdis 97% of the time.

That logic technically works for you, since you got so angry of what I said you dumb f*ck. And if you weren't ugly and insecure, you wouldn't be online hating on other people's relationships.

You're projecting, since you're clearly a bucktooth, ugly involuntarily virgin Abdi with a receding hairline who can't find a girlfriend which is why you get so mad when you see a happy couple, cause of how miserable & jealous you are.

I don’t suffer from any of things you’ve mentioned, your here screaming that’s shes a rare exception but yet you keep calling me things that are rare in faraaxs like I said it’s you that really cares I can say whatever I want on this site and you take it personal because if you really didn’t care and believed those things you would continue living your life, the reason why u sound hurt is because your an overweight, heavy breathing, old, lonely, basement dwelling xalimo.

 

[Arma]

Seems like I've caused a bit of a stir. I still stand by what I've said, and take none of it back.

 

[Degmada waaberi]

Seems like I've caused a bit of a stir. I still stand by what I've said, and take none of it back.

"I still stand by what I've said, and take none of it back."

Lkn walal at least acknowledge the fact that your qabiil or ethnicity will mean nothing on the day of judgement, you will only get to paradise with the grace of God and not your qabill or your ethnicity, plus if you end up in jannah (I hope you do) you will not look the way you do now. So marry whoever you want as long as they are Muslim and are following the deen.

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Allah does not look at your appearance or wealth, but rather he looks at your hearts and actions.”

It doesn't matter what you look like as long as you come with camal wanagsan iyo qalbi saliim ah than Allah will be pleased with you whether you be Somali, oromo, Chinese, Madow, Indian, cadaan or whatever.

Again!

Brother You're not here to preserve a qabiil or ethnicity but to worship Allah (swt)

"I created the jinn and humankind only that they might worship Me" surah Adh-Dhariyat verse 56

Brother focus on your life and your family.

Surah At-tahrim "O ye who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire whereof the fuel is men and stones, over which are set angels strong, severe, who resist not Allah in that which He commandeth them, but do that which they are commanded."

Qabiil or ethnicity will mean nothing on judgement day, likewise those in paradise will not look anything like how they looked on earth, so what's the point of worrying about who marries who.

Our time is limited and only Allah (swt) knows when each and everyone of us will leave this planet so why not work towards our akhria instead of things that will not matter on the day of judgement like qabiil or ethnicity.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

On another thread, forum member @Abdisamad3 asked the question, why do we Somali men, get mad when a xalimo marries out? The answer is, we're not cucks. Apart from cuck westerners and east Asians, every other race/people groups, do not allow/want their women marrying out and breeding for another race/ethnicity.

In this world, the offsprings of a couple, follow the father, not the mother (only Jews have it the other way around) The children take the father's name, and the father's clan/tribe/race.
Why do you think in world history, in cases of conquests, why were the womenfolk spared and the men killed off? Thats because the women folk increase the numbers of the conqueror, even if those women be of races deemed inferior to the conqueror's race. In this world it's acceptable for a man to go and plant his oats in women of other races, because of what i have stated above. But, a woman doing the same thing is unacceptable, because she's decreasing her race/ethnicity. Its pretty simple.

Last year, there was outrage in Uganda. What was happening was, a tonne of Chinese men, were coming to Uganda and marrying Ugandan women. Now, it's absolutely fine for those Chinese men, to go and marry a bantu woman, because the children from those unions will have chinese names. Now, if it was the otherway around, no chinese man would have a bantu marry and mate with his sister.

I am married to a beautiful women from Cape Verde, and we have a little girl together, with another on the way (In Sha Allah) Now, my children, have my name, they have my qabil, my daughter speaks Somali, so to will my other child (In Sha Allah) It's because of that, they are Somali.

My personal view is, if a Somali woman wants to go and spread her legs and breed for a cadaan, madow, arab man, then so be it. But what i don't like and don't want to see is for her to then call any children she has with another race, Somali. I do not accept an cadaan, madow, arab looking individual, with an cadaan, madow, or arab name, as Somali. That's how the world works.

SIMPLE AS.

how did your parents feel about the cape Verde chick? they have mixed bantu west african and Portuguese colonial blood, they are gorgeous ladies but how did family feel about her jarer blood?

mj waa ruthless, they are the most adventurous when it comes to marrying foreigners,