My opinion on the idea of marrying from home country:

[Ade]

I don’t see how a Somali marrying another Somali is an issue. This is possibly the dumbest thread I have ever seen.

Quote where I wrote it. I do not seem to make the connection

 

[Caaro]

Such were her thoughts, though she lacked the words to express them.
- George Orwell, Animal Farm

I wanted to have it said as I have seen many write about the subject. I wanted to describe from my point of view

why should you have a point of view that has nothing to do with you and doesn't affect you? Mind your own business nayaa.

 

[Ade]

Mind your own business nayaa.

Hayeee

 

[KobeBryant]

Quote where I wrote it. I do not seem to make the connection

A Somali Man born in the west marrying a Somali female born in Somalia can’t be an issue. Because living in the west doesn’t make somebody some new race they are the same people.

 

[Mercury]

Alot guys that go back home just want someone thats gonna look after them like their hooyo

 

[ReyRey]

First of all you don’t know me so for you to make assumptions about my educational background is bizzare. FYI I have a degree in Cognitive Psychology.

You’ve just shown right there your intellectual immaturity. You’ve lashed out at me and made assumptions without hearing me out. In other words you’ve proven my point
(I can also cook I was taught at a young age as it’s Sunnah)

King!!

 

[ReyRey]

Immaturity is a common thing among Somali girls raised in the diaspora. So, I really can't relate with them. They probably never went through any major hardship in their life. So, the moment the marriage becomes difficult, they dip. They're not like our mother's generation. A lot don't know how to cook and don't make proper housewives.

Plus, they wear sureel.

 

[ReyRey]

Alot guys that go back home just want someone thats gonna look after them like their hooyo

Elaborate. So taking care of your husband is treating him like your child?

 

[ReyRey]

Women who are family oriented>>>>>> career oriented women.

I'm not saying that women shouldn't have a career. I'm just saying that marrying a woman like that isn't good when you want to have a long lasting relationship. That is, if she lets her career get in the way of of her duties to her husband and kids.

 

[Geostars]

@ReyRey is growing up

 

[ReyRey]

@ReyRey is growing up

Was I ever a child?

 

[Geostars]

Was I ever a child?

growing up I mean being wiser, the pursuit of knowledge lasts a lifetime

 

[ReyRey]

growing up I mean being wiser, the pursuit of knowledge lasts a lifetime

Horta. Are you a guy or a girl?

 

[Octavian]

@Geostars is a G

 

[Geostars]

A g my g I’m a guy

 

[Ade]

Women who are family oriented>>>>>> career oriented women.

Rafaad iyo silic No thanks..

 

[Ade]

Forget and dream about it that I will not be take as nothing other than an independent woman. I will inshallah never be dependent on a man. That me haha

 

[Mahacagalla]

No one wants to marry a BLM supporting xalimo from a single mother family with blue hair.

Come on.

Yooo why did this kill me

 

[ReyRey]

Forget and dream about it that I will not be take as nothing other than an independent woman. I will inshallah never be dependent on a man. That me haha

Then face the fact that you won't make a good partner.

There is a Somali saying that goes like:
Be a mountain or be the person leaning on it.

It's in human nature to want to be depended on and use your strength to serve others. A wife depends on her Husband and vice versa. That's how a good relationship is made.

I read an article that was talking about military boot camps and the thing that sparked my interest was that the boot camps were designed for trainees to ask others for help. They realized that the more they asked each other for help, the more the trainees bonded. The ones that decided to be stuck up and act like they didn't need any help were shunned by the rest of the group.

Love is cultivated by giving sincerely. The more you give a person sincerely. The more you love them and not the other way around. When you give, it's like you're taking a part of yourself and offering it to another person. You're essentially tricking your brain into thinking that a part of you is with them. Thus, making you love them.

You can be an independent all you like but keep in mind that men will always flock to women that are dependent on them. It's just in our nature

 

[ReyRey]

Rafaad iyo silic No thanks..

KKKK you're making it seem like I want to get married to you