My older brother beat me up

[trucel]

Best thing to do is move out , if your family is allowing this to happen then thy're culpable too and they can get fucked.

 

[CalmOne]

Best thing to do is move out , if your family is allowing this to happen then thy're culpable too and they can get fucked.

I cant move out I dont have enough money plus i live in london england where houses are unaffordable.

 

[TekNiKo]

This sounds dangerous do you have any older male cousins that can handle this coward?

 

[CalmOne]

This sounds dangerous do you have any older male cousins that can handle this coward?

Yes but i didnt tell them. Wallahi i dont even think he can be called a man hes a boy.

 

[Mercury]

your brother sounds like a loser who even lays hands on their sister?

Best thing to do in my opinion is this

-audio record him in secret and ask him why hes doing this even record a video in secret

- Now tell your cousins and male relatives you need help cause your brother is abusive tell em in detail everything hes done so they can see that the brother is a pshyco

- Your brother is 100% gonna deny everything when confronted by the relatives this is where your evidence come in handy

 

[X29]

Yes but i didnt tell them. Wallahi i dont even think he can be called a man hes a boy.

You need to tell them immiedtily and tell them the effect he's boughting on you if not call the police there's no reason why a 24 year old man should be boughting his hands on his sister you need handle the situation asap

 

[Mercury]

Families probably do allow this, they call it "Edbis". It is crazy. I had a crazy aunt who used to whip only me the son of her dead brother, she never whipped her own boys or girls. She did favoritism and during my whipping sessions by her, her own oldest daughter and her adult Niece (my cousin) watched, but they never did anything as I cried as a child. She kept whipping while observing my face and eyes to wait to stop as soon as I cried. To her seeing me cry as a child as she whipped me was like some satisfaction. Anyways that is a story for another post lol. I let it go and forgave her but thank God my mom came and got me when I was 14. 9 years of hell I have been through with my aunt. They stole Gold from her so that is probably what drove her mad. OP's brother who is abusing her maybe alcoholic or going through some crazy shit.

Im sure her mom will downplay what the brother is doing and if she tell relatives they gonna think its just a little bit of sibling quarrel but if she records video or audio of her brother than her other relatives will probably be on her side

 

[Angelina]

That's assault. Report him and get him jailed.

Easy said than done. If she does that, she may lose her mother and other family members. Also, it sounds as though she's dependent on her hooyo and family.

I think the first step is for her to find a way for her to get away from him by moving out.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Yes but i didnt tell them. Wallahi i dont even think he can be called a man hes a boy.

Why not? They're the next best thing to the police. Stop protecting him, you're literally doing the same thing your mom is lol.

 

[CalmOne]

Why not? They're the next best thing to the police. Stop protecting him, you're literally doing the same thing your mom is lol.

I aint protecting that pos. If i call the police i will most likely be kicked out by my mum.

 

[Cerberus]

Easy said than done. If she does that, she may lose her mother and other family members. Also, it sounds as though she's dependent on her hooyo and family.

I think the first step is for her to find a way for her to get away from him by moving out.

No hoyo is gonna leave her daughter, no way can she lose her hoyo. She can let hoyo know what she did and calling police on him doesn't mean hoyo is gonna neglect and kick her out and favourtise him.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I aint protecting that pos. If i call the police i will most likely be kicked out by my mum.

I asked why you didn't tell your older cousins/relatives, not the police.

 

[CalmOne]

I asked why you didn't tell your older cousins/relatives, not the police.

I was too in pain and dizzy. Plus they are busy with work.

 

[Angelina]

No hoyo is gonna leave her daughter, no way can she lose her hoyo. She can let hoyo know what she did and calling police on him doesn't mean hoyo is gonna neglect and kick her out and favourtise him.

She might.

Calling police on family for a lot of people is crossing the line. They think its inexcusable. Sadly, people don't take into account that even with family, there is a breaking point.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I was too in pain and dizzy. Plus they are busy with work.

It's a 5min phone call or few text msgs. Didn't you say he "beat me up yesterday as well" even before the toilet incident? Why didn't you say something then?

 

[Angelina]

It's a 5min phone call or few text msgs. Didn't you say he "beat me up yesterday as well" even before the toilet incident? Why didn't you say something then?

She could be from one of those messed up families that believe brothers have a right to beat up sisters for discipline reasons.

Before you come for me, yes, i've seen that attitude first hand.

She needs to talk to someone and maybe try to move out. She's been complaining for time now and clearly her fam don't think its a major issue.

 

[Malikfiqi]

Dont be a victim walaal. Hit back it cant be that hard overpowering a skiiny farax surely

Back in my younger days when me and my sister used to beef we used to duke it out fists were exchanged and she was holding her own wlhi and winning too

 

[Mercury]

She might.

Calling police on family for a lot of people is crossing the line. They think its inexcusable. Sadly, people don't take into account that even with family, there is a breaking point.

I heard of a somali girl her uncle visited her house she slept in her kids room together with her kids and let the uncle sleep in her bedroom he came in her children's room and tried to rape her she woke up and he ran away she called the cops on him they took him in and her mom got angry at her for getting the cops involved in the end the mom defends her little brother and the rest of her uncles where also defending the uncle they disowned her

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

She could be from one of those messed up families that believe brothers have a right to beat up sisters for discipline reasons.

Before you come for me, yes, i've seen that attitude first hand.

She needs to talk to someone and maybe try to move out. She's been complaining for time now and clearly her fam don't think its a major issue.

I don't care enough to come for you, the whole thing just seems a little fishy.

 

[CalmOne]

LISTEN GIVE ME YOUR HAND IN MARRIAGE YOU SAID YOU ARE 20 OK AND I WILL BEAT THE f*ck OUT OF HIM AND TELL HIM ONLY I CAN CHOKE MY WIFE IN FOREPLAY

I HAVE YOUR BACK IM COMING TO THE UK THIS OCTOBER

What the hell it ain't funny.