My mom is such an evil person

[Ahmed Ato]

??? Are you okay I’m so sorry to hear that

Not my mom but i am talking about Somali parents saying that when they get angry.

 

[Sueeeeeee]

I just told her to not call me a “wecel” and I didn’t had a fault with her and my father falling apart. It was the same as usual “you act like your father, if you act like that then live with him, I don’t love you and wouldn’t care less if you are alive or fall dead” which I then cried because she couldn’t shut up about something I can’t do anything about which made her laugh and smirk about it. From that moment in she became dead to me.

I’m sorry sis no one deserves to be spoken to like this! You deserve the world and as soon as you can leave you do that! Some mothers can be so toxic and horrible especially on their daughters. If you ever feel the need to vent we are all here for you darling

 

[kickz]

I just told her to not call me a “wecel” and I didn’t had a fault with her and my father falling apart. It was the same as usual “you act like your father, if you act like that then live with him, I don’t love you and wouldn’t care less if you are alive or fall dead” which I then cried because she couldn’t shut up about something I can’t do anything about which made her laugh and smirk about it. From that moment in she became dead to me.

Is it possible to live with your father, since she is offering.

 

[Xoxoxo]

Is it possible to live with your father, since she is offering.

Ehhhh my dad is too wild living, like wild living. He claims he’s a Muslim but my dad acts if he is a single man in his 20s living his best life ever.

 

[minaaa]

I was talking with her about my frustration, cried because off stress and anger (not because I was sad) and then she laughed and smirked and told me my life isn’t hard knowing full well she plays a huge role into my stress and depression.

Now I officially got my sign! I’ll leave this house once I finish my degree and achieve my goals. I don’t even consider these people as my family and I am thankfully just half related to them.

You deserve better love. Some people are just sick and there’s nothing you can do about it. My mom’s siblings for example abuse her dad, and they’re all for prostitution and all the bad stuff. They used to f*ck around with the French military men back when they were still in Djibouti while my mom earned an honest income and respected her parents. She cut off her siblings. There’s nothing wrong with parting ways with people who are not good for you, even if you’re related. Love you and stay safe

 

[Dibleyy]

I just posted a thread about this a couple days ago sis, been going through this shit for years and my siblings are also only half and I get compared to my father as well smh, move out like I am and if your guilt tripped into coming back don’t do it! Biggest mistake I made was coming back, walahi if it wasn’t for Allah swt I would have disappeared on my family a long time ago.

My advice is Get into a low income financial program like government aid so you can comfortably go to school and pay for other needs on a tight budget, and keep your toxic family members at arms length. Never get your hopes up for a full reconciliation because you’ll always end up disappointed and when you get independence while you should forgive them don’t be too open and don’t be too trusting but also help your family and be there for them as much as you have to.

All the best sis!!!

 

[Lord]

cas cas. naya u need daqan cellis

 

[Amirah]

by calling you wecel she’s actually insulting herself lol. Don’t take it to the heart. Words are just words unless she harming or depriving you physically dont mind her, just ignore her and go about your daily routine.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Don’t take their insults serious, they are most likely going through some life struggles and don’t know how to manage their stress, so they take it on you.

 

[amaal]

I just told her to not call me a “wecel” and I didn’t had a fault with her and my father falling apart. It was the same as usual “you act like your father, if you act like that then live with him, I don’t love you and wouldn’t care less if you are alive or fall dead” which I then cried because she couldn’t shut up about something I can’t do anything about which made her laugh and smirk about it. From that moment in she became dead to me.

AT this point her seeing you cry is her entertainment. and FYI your feelings are 100 percent valid! I'm sorry to say this but from an outsider looking in, for a person to laugh when someone crying is insanity, and until she gets help.... she'll never stop.

 

[Xoxoxo]

We can't choose our families. Most days I wanna kms if I'm being real honest. For now you just have to stick through this and cope as much as possible. Volunteer at school, go sight seeing. I went to the mall this week and it helped me calm down.

That’s what I am doing! Going to the library, out shopping, hanging out with friends, even school helps me a lot too because I am far away from everyone. And I am so sorry to hear that

 

[digaagjecel]

Why don’t you just leave? Your an adult right.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Why don’t you just leave? Your an adult right.

She still in school

 

[digaagjecel]

She still in school

College or high school? If she’s in college she’s still an adult.

 

[Jiron]

I know not all parents are created equal but she is most likely going through something herself and does not know how to express it. Please be patient with her because you will be on ur own one day soon, and the good memories you had of her will outlive the temporary negative experiences. Remember she too is suffering evident by her choice of words. Things will get better

 

[Cerberus]

I was talking with her about my frustration, cried because off stress and anger (not because I was sad) and then she laughed and smirked and told me my life isn’t hard knowing full well she plays a huge role into my stress and depression.

Now I officially got my sign! I’ll leave this house once I finish my degree and achieve my goals. I don’t even consider these people as my family and I am thankfully just half related to them.

There it is, keyword is "half related". Often times when you're half related to a family they won't treat you as full blood of theirs. I grew up in such a hateful and disrespectful home environment with an Auntie. Stay strong sister.

 

[Xoxoxo]

College or high school? If she’s in college she’s still an adult.

It’s too expensive to live on my own, I also don’t love far away from school too: I first want to save up enough money to survive on my own

 

[Anubis]

I just told her to not call me a “wecel” and I didn’t had a fault with her and my father falling apart. It was the same as usual “you act like your father, if you act like that then live with him, I don’t love you and wouldn’t care less if you are alive or fall dead” which I then cried because she couldn’t shut up about something I can’t do anything about which made her laugh and smirk about it. From that moment in she became dead to me.

I was in a pretty similar situation myself, and from my experience I think it's better you make your own choices without trying to convince your mother. Once you've put some distance between your self and your mother you can reset your relationship. And don't worry about her cutting you off it's just a bluff.

 

[Jaale]

At first I thought you might be exaggerating but reading further, your mother is toxic.

She gets pleasure from your frustration. Like a kid not being told do something, she will do it. That's what that smirk is for.

Best thing to do is limit all contact and not play any of her games.

Best of luck to you.

 

[Bundasliga]

I was talking with her about my frustration, cried because off stress and anger (not because I was sad) and then she laughed and smirked and told me my life isn’t hard knowing full well she plays a huge role into my stress and depression.

Now I officially got my sign! I’ll leave this house once I finish my degree and achieve my goals. I don’t even consider these people as my family and I am thankfully just half related to them.

Forgive her & close that chapter of your live . Don't hold grudges towards her for your own mental health & get over her.
Make the best out your live & don't engage in ciyaal suuqnimo outta resentment