The girl is 20-21+
My lil bro is heartbroken
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He should stick to older ones
Or batista bomb the girl.Tell your younger bro to take the redpill and go "mgtow"
Thats the only way he will find happiness in this world as a man.
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This new generation is filled with extreme delusions of grandeur backed by absolutely nothing.
It's 100x easier to have zinna with these women in colossally huge numbers then it is to marry a single one of them.
It also takes less effort and money too, unlike the generation before were the ratio's weren't as bad.
This is due to the levels of materialism being far worse in the younger generation today then those that preceded them.
Materialism naturally cheapens women because it puts a price on them, it deadens their heart, destroys their sense of dignity, honour and humanity without them even knowing.
They turn into classless vultures that feast on the dead, they become easy prey for even the dumbest of predators.
The fact that your weed smoking bum brother pulled what you described as a "dime" is very telling, it proves my point above.
She even got him to stop taking drugs which goes to show how desperately easy they are.
It's 100x easier to have zinna with these women in colossally huge numbers then it is to marry a single one of them.
It also takes less effort and money too, unlike the generation before were the ratio's weren't as bad.
This is due to the levels of materialism being far worse in the younger generation today then those that preceded them.
Materialism naturally cheapens women because it puts a price on them, it deadens their heart, destroys their sense of dignity, honour and humanity without them even knowing.
They turn into classless vultures that feast on the dead, they become easy prey for even the dumbest of predators.
The fact that your weed smoking bum brother pulled what you described as a "dime" is very telling, it proves my point above.
She even got him to stop taking drugs which goes to show how desperately easy they are.
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He shouldn't even look towards her way. As you mentioned some of her needs/requirements are reasonable, but the others are ridiculous. Why does she have a long list of expectations from her future husband, no one will come with everything you have in mind when it comes to an IDEAL SPOUSE, they might come close like 95% but even then no one is 100% who you dreamt you'd end up with. If shes got 1 year left of school she should work for a year or 2 to experience the real world and also have money of her own so she doesnt go into the relationship expecting a man to pay for everything she may want and need. Many women aren't willing to start from the ground up and grow with their partner or even potential partner and I dont understand why. A lot of women are looking for a man who has his life together and aren't struggling, they want the final product but that's not fair. A woman should help build their man, now bring them down and make them feel worthless because they can't offer them their ridiculous wants. Also a huge wedding for what.. families spend so much on outdoing the last persons wedding and they forget what the occasion is really about. Its about 2 people, 2 families coming together as one, as a whole. Many times these weddings are so over the top and over done that months later you realize it was a waste of time, money and energy because the couple have divorced or are messing around on each other. My final thoughts are he can do better and find someone whose willing to go through the ups and downs and help him get to the TOP together.Had a chat today with my younger brother whose been frustrated with his failing love life.
He's not even 25 yet but said his girl broke up with him recently because she didn't want to wait for him to "get his shit together".
I asked him to describe this girl and explain these demands she wants, turns out she's a little younger, with a year left at University. She has no money of her own but expects the kid to already have a down payment on a flat, not drive a rental like most his age but instead own a car in this expensive ass city, have the money to throw a massive wedding and enough money for a years rent and to have a credible profession. She has all these expectations (some are reasonable some aren't) because in her head she wants to skip the headache of joining the real world when she graduates and become a stay-at-home wife.
From her part she agreed to play housewife given she can be provided for.
I told him she drives a hard bargain but you can't blame her for wanting a secure future. But atleast she's willing to be a housewife, that's unheard of these days, war inanta ma salafi baa
Anyway he said all his friends are going through similar problems and the girls they all want are dating and marrying older guys, only to end up being divorced.
Which brings me to my question, what happened to growing together through struggle? Why do some girls drop the young Abdi just to get with the older Abdi who they have no chemistry with? Yeah he has money but you barely know him?
I feel like this leads to a vicious cycle. Xalimo breaks up with Young Abdi because she doesn't believe in his potential. Young Abdi loses motivation and messes around. Xalimo marries older Abdi who doesn't treat her right because he was expecting a doormat after years of also messing around because a previous Xalimo probably broke his heart too.
Now everyone is unhappy, all because of instant gratification? I think this generation need a reality check wallahi. We don't have parents with generational wealth, learn to be humble and appreciate a simpler life. Half of you are in debt and probably won't afford houses for decades. Instead of a big wedding, have a modest one. Instead of the Shard, go to Tinseltown, instead of driving 18 plates, how about an uber if you're travelling or even a nice walk? Or is romance just about snapping dashboards?
Great post. Your final thought is bang on. He can do better.
Thank you! I'm on anyone's side who I feel is right, and in this case shes wrong. I'm a woman and I wouldnt even put a guy o ask a guy all she is asking or requiring of him. She should come at him in a more mature REASONABLE way.
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lool @Inquisitive_ why did you find my question funny?
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Your expectations that her impulsive emotional and irrational demands somehow have a logical rational and carefully thought out reasoning behind it.
If these people just excercised 1/5 of those skill sets, the entire pathetic state of our community would have changed overnight.
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Don't be so harsh on her though, we've only heard one side.
who wants to become a housewife once they have graduated ??? did she complete uni to become an utter waste of shit lmao girls mindsets these days are soo weak she needs to start working on her shit too what you bring on the table is what you most likely to receive. and your bro needs to get himself together otherwise stop interacting with girls that will reject him later on
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