Muzmatch
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Idk how to approach to my family to help look for potential
I’m thinking about getting the app muzmatch after listening podcasts on hold my hijab.
Should I or should not get it?
Go for it. Like most app most people aint serious. But some people are and you have nothing to lose
It's a waste of time. People just use it to reinforce their desirability. On both sides. It's like Tinder but without the hookup.
I think I'll make one too. I need to have a family of my own.
I’m thinking about getting the app muzmatch after listening podcasts on hold my hijab.
Should I or should not get it?
Forget this app sister, i have a better concept for you. Go to Hargeysa and choose a guy from there, who is studying something. Men from back home are humble and no matter how handsome they are, they will always respect you for giving them the opportunity to come to the west.
Yesterday i met with a friend, who is in Europe for 5 years now. He is around 30 years old, mashaAllah very handsome, funny guy and on top of that he is very intelligent and completly integrated into the life here. His wife brought him to Europe from back home. They are happily married and she is even older than him and already was married with a child.
I give you that advise because i know the struggle for a muslim women to find a man in the west. The families barely support their daughters. So why waiting for a guy from europe/america when you can easily have every man from back home. Just saying.
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Forget this app sister, i have a better concept for you. Go to Hargeysa and choose a guy from there, who is studying something. Men from back home are humble and no matter how handsome they are, they will always respect you for giving them the opportunity to come to the west.
Yesterday i met with a friend, who is in Europe for 5 years now. He is around 30 years old, mashaAllah very handsome, funny guy and on top of that he is very intelligent and completly integrated into the life here. His wife brought him to Europe from back home. They are happily married and she is even older than him and already was married with a child.
I give you that advise because i know the struggle for a muslim women to find a man in the west. The families barely support their daughters. So why waiting for a guy from europe/america when you can easily have every man from back home. Just saying.
Don't listen to him. Getting a Somali man from back home (unless he is highly educated, handsome, worldly and well-off) is a waste of time. If you import him it's like raising an adult child. That works more for men because they are ok with the power differential and tend to prefer a stay at home wife. Try pulling that with a conventional minded Abdi. It's a no go.
The only ones that might be salvageable are those from Djibouti or Kenya but they better be the cream of the crop. Along with those that are foreign educated and open minded but those mostly exist in the diaspora.
Forget this app sister, i have a better concept for you. Go to Hargeysa and choose a guy from there, who is studying something. Men from back home are humble and no matter how handsome they are, they will always respect you for giving them the opportunity to come to the west.
Yesterday i met with a friend, who is in Europe for 5 years now. He is around 30 years old, mashaAllah very handsome, funny guy and on top of that he is very intelligent and completly integrated into the life here. His wife brought him to Europe from back home. They are happily married and she is even older than him and already was married with a child.
I give you that advise because i know the struggle for a muslim women to find a man in the west. The families barely support their daughters. So why waiting for a guy from europe/america when you can easily have every man from back home. Just saying.
To be honest western Somalis are to quick to judge people from back home and especially the men from there are all portrayed as uneducated, unattractive and 24 hours on khat.
My cousin who lives in Hargeysa has married at 25, when he finished his university (Computer Science). He is now 29 years old, has two kids, a nice car and is building his own house, which almost looks like a Villa. There are thousand of people like my cousin. There are many girls who married from back home and in most cases they seem to be happy.
Of course when she goes back home, her family will only introduce her to the most handsome and best educated guys. This is the privilege of a western passport. But typical for a women, probably my first comment since i am in this forum where i felt bad for you girls and gave you a brotherly advise and immediately you criticize me.
Maybe you should think for yourself about this concept.
To be honest western Somalis are to quick to judge people from back home and especially the men from there are all portrayed as uneducated, unattractive and 24 hours on khat.
My cousin who lives in Hargeysa has married at 25, when he finished his university (Computer Science). He is now 29 years old, has two kids, a nice car and is building his own house, which almost looks a Villa. There are thousand of people like my cousin. There are many girls who married from back home and in most cases they seem to be happy.
Of course when she goes back home, her family will only introduce her to the most handsome and best educated guys. This is the privilege of a western passport. But typical for a women, probably my first comment since i am in this forum where i felt bad for you girls and gave you a brotherly advise and immediately you criticize me.
Maybe you should think for yourself about this concept.
Not interested in the non-diaspora. I cannot relate to them in the same way. Not taking a dig at them just stating the obvious. It's more of a disadvantage marrying from them if you take them abroad.
I have no trouble with western Abdis. I just don't like relationships (kind of energy consuming). I'll marry when I want a kid.
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I'm very suspicious of apps, but I actually have friends that have met and married Somali guys from Muzmatch.
If you are going to use muzmatch be cautious and make sure you blur your pictures.
Who knows you could be lucky and find yourself a husband. Many are meeting through instagram and Muzmatch these days.
I met my husband through instagram but i knew a few people that knew him.
If you are going to use muzmatch be cautious and make sure you blur your pictures.
Who knows you could be lucky and find yourself a husband. Many are meeting through instagram and Muzmatch these days.
I met my husband through instagram but i knew a few people that knew him.
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Somalia First!
If you want anything in life
You have to go out there and get it
It won't just magically fall from the sky
I say go for it
You have to go out there and get it
It won't just magically fall from the sky
I say go for it
Nope. I’m scared of u
I made muzmatch account, will I find u? Kkkkk
well, my sis married to a guy back home. He was studying at Malaysia when they were dating. They are doing well MashaAllah, brought a home and have beautiful kids MashaAllah. I might consider that option.Forget this app sister, i have a better concept for you. Go to Hargeysa and choose a guy from there, who is studying something. Men from back home are humble and no matter how handsome they are, they will always respect you for giving them the opportunity to come to the west.
Yesterday i met with a friend, who is in Europe for 5 years now. He is around 30 years old, mashaAllah very handsome, funny guy and on top of that he is very intelligent and completly integrated into the life here. His wife brought him to Europe from back home. They are happily married and she is even older than him and already was married with a child.
I give you that advise because i know the struggle for a muslim women to find a man in the west. The families barely support their daughters. So why waiting for a guy from europe/america when you can easily have every man from back home. Just saying.
I straightway blur my pic when I seen guys that know my brothers. I had an heart attack.
Go for it but be careful. I feel like people don’t understand how hard it could be for a young woman to meet a potential partner. I have sisters and cousins who are single and would love to meet someone but they just don’t have the time, they go to work and back to their houses and when they do go out it’s with their friends. If you aren’t the type to be out every weekend it can be hard to meet someone new, so maybe online is the way. It’s not as taboo as it was before, everything is practically online nowadays.
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