shes right in a way. Even if I don't love my future wife ( if I am provided with one in the future ofc) if I am mildly attracted to her I'd be pleasedkinda depressing ngl
shes right in a way. Even if I don't love my future wife ( if I am provided with one in the future ofc) if I am mildly attracted to her I'd be pleasedkinda depressing ngl
How old are u?So I already joined muzmatch but deactivated for a while but will plan to reactivate. But my issue is I don't want to show my face only until after I got to know him well but when it comes to my future spouse I want to see how he looks first hand to see if I want to interact with him or not. Will this be OK? do some of you girls do this? I'm too scared to show my face first. Especially since we sadly have incel problems and so I can't fully trust a man until I fully got to know him well. I need an advice.
I understand but I know I'm attractive since I tick all the traits somali men like, the only downside is my hair which is short and is 3c/4a. I could show him half my face so he can have a better idea as to how I look i won't be deceiving him.I guess it's possible, but not optimal. What's wrong with censoring your face but unlocking it after you match? I mean, it's important that you both meet the minimum looks thresholds for each other otherwise, it can be a huge waste of time.
Imagine if you speak for a long time only for him to unmatch after you show yourself.
in my late 20sHow old are u?
Nah I have seen that fail too many timesArranged marriage by parents and relatives is way better. They can vouch in for the mans manners, finances and tell you if he has history. You canβt tell all of that from an app. Or you can just meet a somali man in real life. Never trust online mishaps
She is 29 going on 30How old are u?
ask your friends to set you up with someone, connections is way better can't trust random ngl Ask Allah.So I already joined muzmatch but deactivated for a while but will plan to reactivate. But my issue is I don't want to show my face only until after I got to know him well but when it comes to my future spouse I want to see how he looks first hand to see if I want to interact with him or not. Will this be OK? do some of you girls do this? I'm too scared to show my face first. Especially since we sadly have incel problems and so I can't fully trust a man until I fully got to know him well. I need an advice.
We men are simple creatures, hair type/length doesn't matter to us and I like that type of hair on a woman.I understand but I know I'm attractive since I tick all the traits somali men like, the only downside is my hair which is short and is 3c/4a. I could show him half my face so he can have a better idea as to how I look i won't be deceiving him.
Hair doesnβt matter sisI understand but I know I'm attractive since I tick all the traits somali men like, the only downside is my hair which is short and is 3c/4a. I could show him half my face so he can have a better idea as to how I look i won't be deceiving him.
Hair doesnβt matter sis
Yeah I get that but I would rather be on the safer side and show half my faceMaybe show your photo after matching, itβs a waste of time to talk without knowing how you look because looks are the most important thing especially for men.
I understand but I know I'm attractive since I tick all the traits somali men like, the only downside is my hair which is short and is 3c/4a. I could show him half my face so he can have a better idea as to how I look i won't be deceiving him.
People see your face for free outside anyway if your looking for marriage looks is the most important factor.So I already joined muzmatch but deactivated for a while but will plan to reactivate. But my issue is I don't want to show my face only until after I got to know him well but when it comes to my future spouse I want to see how he looks first hand to see if I want to interact with him or not. Will this be OK? do some of you girls do this? I'm too scared to show my face first. Especially since we sadly have incel problems and so I can't fully trust a man until I fully got to know him well. I need an advice.
3c/4a hair is easily the best hair type if styled and taken care of appropriatelyI understand but I know I'm attractive since I tick all the traits somali men like, the only downside is my hair which is short and is 3c/4a. I could show him half my face so he can have a better idea as to how I look i won't be deceiving him.
Khanis guy tricked me beforeIgnore the 'b' word, but the sentiment stands!
Get away from there sis! Just pray Tahajjud and ask Allah SWT to provide you with a husband, and ask for all the traits you want, and continue to develop yourself. These so-called 'marriage' apps, are filled with degenerates, catfishes and all sorts. Some people do find spouses on those apps, but honestly? I think people need to boycott these apps, that don't even run background checks.
Khanis guy tricked me before
I will make it another timeStory time!!
Make a thread and tell us what happened
in my late 20s