Does the maintaince of the wife cause direct physical harm upon the husband? Does it cause infections and severe psychological issues that can destroy a human?
It’s personal, especially since I’m a woman. You’re discussing the harming of people like me in a very offhandedly way, it’s a controversial topic and you go about it without a shred of wisdom or humanity. As Muslims harming people is haram, whether it be physically or your word, hence think about the harm this may cause a woman who may have experienced this but is lurking on this board? Let’s be real, the harming of Muslim men is never discussed in this matter, I can’t think of a single topic in which you’ll experience what you wrote but about men.