The Somali boomers and their general ignorance and distortion of Somali history has a lot to do with it too, they over emphasis pastoral nomadism, and completely neglect of all other historical occupations and sectors of the Somali economy, and our history of urbanism.Picked up on this almost 15 years ago. I can't really relate to them. I was born into a wealthy and educated family and grew up in the Khaleej where most Somalis are middle-class to well-off and the ones who aren't are just folks hustling their way through life as drivers or housekeepers to the local Somalis. Intellectual-ish parents who were not qabiilist in the least as well.
I sympathize, though. I had cousins in their situations and/or family friends. When you grow up in a house of 8 kids, you've been lower-income your entire upbringing, grew up as a minority in a country where even some of the other minorities might bully you because of your ethnicity and religion (UK) and your parents are maybe village bumpkins listening day and night to some disingenuous sheikh while a lot of other kids in your situation turn to crime... it's a little inevitable to self-hate and have low self-worth.
Just learned to ignore them, to be honest.
I deadass remember watching a news documentary when I was in highshool where some boomer oday told the news lady "Somalis are an oral people, we didn't write" nacas ass reer baadiyo nigga being used as an authoritative source. Now image the kids that generation raised and the distorted/harmful version of history they passed on. This is why a lot of young diaspora Somalis lack collective self-esteem.