If you see a beautiful woman walk past you, as a man you should lower your gaze. I am not a dog and I may be tempted like any other man but I try to lower my gaze. We are not all dogs.
In the first or second situation or in any situation
O you who have believed, obey Allah and obey the Messenger and those in authority among you. And if you disagree over anything, refer it to Allah and the Messenger, if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day. That is the best [way] and best in result.
-Surah An-Nisa 4:59
Shouldn't all Muslims, male or female, agree on following that? A Muslim has to follow the Quran. We have to follow what Islam tells us.