Maya Jama calls Stormzy 'what a father should be'

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it is well known in the field of Psychology..,, girls with severe daddy issues tend to gravitate towards guys with a bad boy demeanour and then view him as a replacement for the father they never had .That is a dangerous place to be though . If the dude cheats , as many of these urban fellows
Tend to do , a meltdown occurs .
 

Arma

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Maya:

Sh*ts and hates on Somali dad, for being a criminal deadbeat, who spent a long while in and out of prison.

Also Maya:

Has a long history of being and getting with men, just like her Somali dad she soo deeply despises. When she was in her teens, (16 I believe) she was in a long term relationship with this half-cast drug dealer, and now in her mid 20s, she's with this hood rapper from South London, that mostly raps about the usual black man goals: gangs, money, materialism, and pussy.

Yeah, very fatherly indeed.
 
Maya:

Sh*ts and hates on Somali dad, for being a criminal deadbeat, who spent a long while in and out of prison.

Also Maya:

Has a long history of being and getting with men, just like her Somali dad she soo deeply despises. When she was in her teens, (16 I believe) she was in a long term relationship with this half-cast drug dealer, and now in her mid 20s, she's with this hood rapper from South London, that mostly raps about the usual black man goals: gangs, money, materialism, and pussy.

Yeah, very fatherly indeed.
I know some beautiful xalimos who have stayed loyal to deadbeat khat heads . The only logical and scientific explanation for such loyalty is the moos.
# . Maya was loyal to Stormz even when he was black and broke .

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Ghanaian Plaintain .

# JDNA
#Suugo
#Eat
 

Jiron

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Stormzy seems like a good guy, It’s well known most rappers are like actors who embrace a certain character to tell a story. He might not necessarily do the things he raps about. It’s obvious he makes her happy and in the end that’s what really matters :)
 

TooMacaan

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Why do guys hate on/blame girls for having daddy issues???
Bizarre af when victims of parental failure solely get picked on.. while the deadbeat gets a pass.
 
Why do guys hate on/blame girls for having daddy issues???
Bizarre af when victims of parental failure solely get picked on.. while the deadbeat gets a pass.

People take an issue when she publicly lambastes her father repeatedly for the same things she's guilty off herself, on top of this she is also insulting her own mother because to end up with the devil incarnate criminal father as she likes to portray your own mother has to be devilish herself too because filth and corruption attracts nothing other then equal dosage of filth & corruption.

Had she been quiet people would have had more sympathy for her and made excuses, but she is not, in fact it can be argued she is worse then both her parents because I don't think her mother would have ever gone for a hood rapper like she has.
 

TooMacaan

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People take an issue when she publicly lambastes her father repeatedly for the same things she's guilty off herself, on top of this she is also insulting her own mother because to end up with the devil incarnate criminal father as she likes to portray your own mother has to be devilish herself too because filth and corruption attracts nothing other then equal dosage of filth & corruption.

Had she been quiet people would have had more sympathy for her and made excuses, but she is not, in fact it can be argued she is worse then both her parents because I don't think her mother would have ever gone for a hood rapper like she has.
Lambastes him for the same thing she's guilty of..? What exactly has she done that's equal to abandoning one's own child??

As for insulting her mother- not really; I don't agree with the notion that "filth and corruption attracts other then equal dosage of filth & corruption". There's a variety of reasons why a nice person could end up with a bad partner: they could've just been weak, naive, stupid, had low self-esteem, etc. A poor selection of mate doesn't make a person devilish or filthy. (not that I believe that her father is wholly evil while her mother is all innocent -- but they're def not of equal character).
 
Lambastes him for the same thing she's guilty of..? What exactly has she done that's equal to abandoning one's own child??

By picking out a male that has perhaps worse characteristics then her father, a man that raps about the things her father did which she criticised him for (criminality/drugs etc.)


As for insulting her mother- not really; I don't agree with the notion that "filth and corruption attracts other then equal dosage of filth & corruption".

Marriage is political, it's a reflection of your stance and values, as well as a reflection of who you are as a person. You can't be a righteous spiritual monk yet fall in love with a materialist prostitute, it's a contradiction.

You can't be a good righteous women that despises vice yet select a partner that deals drugs and hooks up with stripper, you can only do this if your no different to that person in the first place, meaning you have the same vices/corruption and values as that person.

I can't be campaigning against Monsanto all my life yet marry the CEO of that company or a female that works their, it's a contradiction that is never seen in the real world.


There's a variety of reasons why a nice person could end up with a bad partner: they could've just been weak, naive, stupid, had low self-esteem, etc.

That's hamster wheel rationalisation done by corrupt women to justify their lust and choice for corruption, even the devil rationalised why he didn't prostrate when commanded.


A poor selection of mate doesn't make a person devilish or filthy. (not that I believe that her father is wholly evil while her mother is all innocent -- but they're def not of equal character).


To an extend your correct, but that depends on the level of corruption we are dealing with, the more you tell me as a female this dude you married is a devil incarnate, the more devilish you are (if what you are saying is true).

If it's just a case "we couldn't get on personality wise or see eye-to-eye" there is no problem there because these kinds of things can happen, but those are not the examples we are talking about.
 
There were prophets(AS) who were married to kaafirs that rejected their message. Does that mean that... astagfirulah, I won’t even say it. Who you end up with is destiny.
 

TooMacaan

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By picking out a male that has perhaps worse characteristics then her father, a man that raps about the things her father did which she criticised him for (criminality/drugs etc.)
I'm not super familiar with Stormzy's lyrics but 1) his raps may not necessarily be the truth (a lot of 'artists' nowadays are entertainers...their songs nothing more than a recreation of a storyline within their head-- akin to film directors/script writers), 2) could just be a narration of the reality he grew up in (not everybody comes from a good environment, he might've had a rough upbringing with limited choices). Is he glorifying criminality/drugs in his music? or is it simply a retelling of facts?/maybe even a lesson to younger men not to repeat the mistakes of his past?

He seems like a humble/nice enough guy from the bit I've come across about him. Maybe he's trying to be a better person and change his life for the better, via the only means he knows how? I mean, he's not selling drugs or doings crimes still-- is he?

Marriage is political, it's a reflection of your stance and values, as well as a reflection of who you are as a person. You can't be a righteous spiritual monk yet fall in love with a materialist prostitute, it's a contradiction.

You can't be a good righteous women that despises vice yet select a partner that deals drugs and hooks up with stripper, you can only do this if your no different to that person in the first place, meaning you have the same vices/corruption and values as that person.

I can't be campaigning against Monsanto all my life yet marry the CEO of that company or a female that works their, it's a contradiction that is never seen in the real world.
Lol, marriage is hardly political in the West nowadays (and even less so among youth). What marriage "means" can also vary from person to person: some marry for love, some for money, some for status, some for tradition, some on a whim, etc. The 'love' marriages tend to be a bit more complex- a person who thinks they're "in love" may be too blinded by their emotions to consider their values (or have too weak of a will to leave).

Contradiction is a human speciality; a large majority of us embody it to some extent.

That's hamster wheel rationalisation done by corrupt women to justify their lust and choice for corruption, even the devil rationalised why he didn't prostrate when commanded.
You're looking at things from a rational perspective & also assuming that everyone thinks rationally. Human beings aren't all rational, and our minds don't all operate the same way. Ofc, there are some women that will use those things as an excuse to paint themselves as a victim & to avoid taking personal responsibility..but that's not mostly the case.

You srsly don't believe that there are genuinely weak, naive, stupid, low-self esteem having ppl out there?? that those factors could play a huge role in directing their thinking and, in time, their behavior??

To an extend your correct, but that depends on the level of corruption we are dealing with, the more you tell me as a female this dude you married is a devil incarnate, the more devilish you are (if what you are saying is true).

If it's just a case "we couldn't get on personality wise or see eye-to-eye" there is no problem there because these kinds of things can happen, but those are not the examples we are talking about.
But people change...she could've been in a different state of mind at the time she selected him as a partner, but later on came to regret her decision (as she matured in her thinking). Experiencing the consequences of her choices may have also functioned as her wake-up call; not everybody has the wisdom or foresight to think ahead, esp when they're younger. People make mistakes- her realization of her partner's nature could actually indicate that she's finally learned from it [or is in the process of learning from it].
 

Gibiin-Udug

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Moral of the story: don't impregnate white women, they don't handle single mother duties well.
Oh how Somali male of you, blaming the mother instead of the deadbeat, alcoholic, criminal father.

This is what's wrong with our community. The women are always blamed.

I hope Allah swt deals with some Somali men in the after life, because this is absolutely intolerable.
 
Oh how Somali male of you, blaming the mother instead of the deadbeat, alcoholic, criminal father.

This is what's wrong with our community. The women are always blamed.

I hope Allah swt deals with some Somali men in the after life, because this is absolutely intolerable.

Somali women are better at single mother duties because they are strong and can play both father and mother roles though they shouldn't have to. White women just drink red wine and have mental breakdowns.
 

Gibiin-Udug

Crowned Queen of Puntland. Supporter of PuntExit
Somali women are better at single mother duties because they are strong and can play both father and mother roles though they shouldn't have to. White women just drink red wine and have mental breakdowns.
I'm glad you acknowledge that Somali women are strong.
 
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