Marrying a revert

[SOULSEARCHING]

If you married one , would you all your children to be around there non muslim family? Like allow them to have sleep overs, celebrate birthdays etc.

Or would you be completely strict and only let them socialise with their muslim side?

 

[Noway]

Of course I would allow my kids to play and meet their non muslim family.. it would be border-line psychopath not to.
Plus if you're living in the west, your child is bound to have non muslims friends so it doesn't even make sense to cut them form their own family.

Anyway don't marry a revert, stick with your own, and you won't have to deal with Chad and Emily wanting to take away your kids when the divorce is happening.

 

[Jaydaan]

offcourse those people are the kids grandparents, uncles, aunties, cousins etc etc

 

[Sumaaya]

I can't even answer this question because I can't ever see myself marrying a non Somali

 

[Sumaaya]

But if someone was to choose to marry a revert, it would be silly not to allow your kids to interact with the non Muslim family members. Didn't Allah SWT guide your revert husband/wife to the the haqq? Can He not guide them too?

 

[BobSmoke]

Too many beautiful Muslim girls to choose from. I don't have energy to be going through unnecessary madax xanuun for an ajnabi, let alone a revert.

Besides I don't really believe in people turning Muslim for marriage. Something about it seems fake. It's another thing for the person to become revert on their own.

I could be wrong tho

 

[المهندس]

This is the risk, if they see their family members eating pork, drinking alcohol eventually as they grow up they will see it as a normal thing..

Not only will it confuse them but there is a 50/50 chance they can become an apostate once they reach intellectual maturity and start questioning things etc getting influenced from non-muslim family members.

Im not willingly to gamble my children's akhirah like that

 

[Sumaaya]

This is the risk, if they see their family members eating pork, drinking alcohol eventually as they grow up they will see it as a normal thing..

Not only will it confuse them but there is a 50/50 chance they can become an apostate once they reach intellectual maturity and start questioning things etc getting influenced from non-muslim family members.

Im not willingly to gamble my children's akhirah like that

So that said, wouldn't it be easier not to marry a revert lol?

 

[salma saluuni]

Marry a revert. 5 years down the line wala gaalowdi again I’ve seen that happen far too many times.

 

[المهندس]

So that said, wouldn't it be easier not to marry a revert lol?

Obviously thats my whole point sister



I don't do gambling

 

[Sumaaya]

Marry a revert. 5 years down the line wala gaalowdi again I’ve seen that happen far too many times.

I remember that Hodan girl, cheese and Xalwa from YouTube/Instagram and it turnt out her revert husband was a racist who even hated madows and Islam

 

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I hated those times as a child going to realtives Christmas dinners it was so weird.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

I remember that Hodan girl, cheese and Xalwa from YouTube/Instagram and it turnt out her revert husband was a racist who even hated madows and Islam

That dutch guy was so extreme when he started practicing the deen, it was so confusing when he left. He has his own channel now in dutch where he promotes atheism.

 

[Sumaaya]

I hated those times as a child going to realtives Christmas dinners it was so weird.

Who's the ajanabi, your Mum or Dad?

 

[salma saluuni]

Reverts for reverts that’s all I’m going to say. Sounds harsh but 9/10 of them go back to being gaals and denounce Islam.

 

[Sumaaya]

That dutch guy was so extreme when he started practicing the deen, it was so confusing when he left. He has his own channel now in dutch where he promotes atheism.

No way?!

 

[Abu Hesi]

This off topic but naagaha somaliyeed intey ajnabi guursadan hadhow maxay la calaacalan? On YouTube there is bunch of them Chad kasheganyo.

 

[Sumaaya]

This off topic but naagaha somaliyeed intey ajnabi guursadan hadhow maxay la calaacalan? On YouTube there is bunch of them Chad kasheganyo.

They realised that Faarax wax dhaama la waayay

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Who's the ajanabi, your Mum or Dad?

My auntie, she's married to a french dude.
She would invite us over to her place and my brother and I were so uncomfortable

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

This off topic but naagaha somaliyeed intey ajnabi guursadan hadhow maxay la calaacalan? On YouTube there is bunch of them Chad kasheganyo.

They do it for clout