Marriage tips for the brothers

[reer]

Who told these men to fight each other? Silliness.

somaliweyn is mostly harsh terrain. its a dog eat dog world out there. in the 21st century people fight over grazing land and rights

 

[Angelina]

Doing chores and working is different. Taking care of cattle cleaning cooking is all chores.

Its work. Anything can be work. There is work you get paid for and work you don't.

Also looking after cattle and agriculture is work that is outside the home that is 5x than anything we women do and is more masculine.

 

[Amk]

There is nothing to suggest that in islam women working is manly. The only concern scholars bring up is freemixing.

Its rather insulting for you to think women working their brains makes them manly. The work that people do in today's societies is light work compared to the men and women of the past. How is teaching, being a doctor, writing ect only the domain of men when we have been blessed with aql?

Quite simply, a man is obligatory to have worked islamically, to provide money. Whereas a woman does not.
And it is preferable for women to stay in their homes most of the time.
Its that simple

 

[Amk]

Its work. Anything can be work. There is work you get paid for and work you don't.

Also looking after cattle and agriculture is work that is outside the home that is 5x than anything we women do and is more masculine.

Tbh woman shouldnt need to do that either. I would argue doing that much hard work is also making them masculine

 

[Angelina]

Tbh woman shouldnt need to do that either. I would argue doing that much hard work is also making them masculine

You need to let go of masculine this or masculine that.

People were on survival mode, much of human history. Do I think women should be straining themselves? No.

But saying women sitting in air-conditioned offices, only using their brains, which for me is easier than housework (I find it tedious) is silly.

 

[reer]

You need to let go of masculine this or masculine that.

People were on survival mode, much of human history. Do I think women should be straining themselves? No.

But saying women sitting in air-conditioned offices, only using their brains, which for me is easier than housework (I find it tedious) is silly.

use your brain or use your limbs either way you become tired and want rest. its both work.

 

[senor chang]

This thread is weirddddd

 

[Apollo]

The obsession online Faraxs have with second/third/fourth wives is laughable when +99% of them never ever get second wives.

 

[Angelina]

use your brain or use your limbs either way you become tired and want rest. its both work.

I feel more tired doing housework and cooking cleaning.

You men don't care about women being tired as long as it benefits you.

So lets cut the whole manly nonsense out.

 

[reer]

I feel more tired doing housework and cooking cleaning.

You men don't care about women being tired as long as it benefits you.

So lets cut the whole manly nonsense out.

feminazi.

 

[Angelina]

feminazi.

Incel

 

[senor chang]

I feel more tired doing housework and cooking cleaning.

You men don't care about women being tired as long as it benefits you.

So lets cut the whole manly nonsense out.

True I have male family members that dont care for their wives only themselves

 

[Bundasliga]

Here are some simple tips for younger brothers looking to get married. These are tips that most people are too afraid to say but are absolutely critical to fruitful marriage.

1) never legally marry. Always just do Islamic nikaax. This will protect you and your assets in the future and gives you more options to marry a second wife from abroad

1. A prenup will solve this problem.

 

[Angelina]

True I have male family member that dont care for their wives only themselves

The only time they talk about 'manliness' or tiredness is when it doesn't benefit them.

At the end of the day, women have always worked. Only difference now is we're getting paid for it.

 

[Sophisticate]

You want an emotionally abusive relationship.

 

[Calaf]

Whilst your at this comical list, lets add some others that don't make sense

5) Add bars to her window, to ensure she doesn't escape, women always wanna escape
6) Don't let her watch TV, TV gives bad advice
7) Don't let her use a phone, Phone gives bad advice

and last advice, knock her father out, to show whose the man of the house

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

You want an emotionally abusive relationship.

I’m partially trolling but I do believe a woman with too many friends is not good for healthy marriage

 

[Oday-yar]

That's bad advise, I assume you ain't married yet?

From a married man with children, fellas, don't take this advise.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

I feel more tired doing housework and cooking cleaning.

You men don't care about women being tired as long as it benefits you.

So lets cut the whole manly nonsense out.

Housework, cleaning, and cooking is not tiring at all. This is a huge misconception.

 

[Amk]

Housework, cleaning, and cooking is not tiring at all. This is a huge misconception.

Its tiring for unfit or disabled ppl. I assume she isnt disabled so ill take the first option that she is unfit