Marriage tips for the brothers

[Amk]

The prophetﷺ was spreading Islam, doing dawah, fighting those that were fighting him ect. His own children didn't inherit from him, as the laws were different for him.

Are you doing this? No, you're sitiing in an air conditioned office.

Thats got nothing to do with what im saying, the propht ﷺ didnt need to live difficult, he had enough money to buy a whole mansion, he chose to live difficult, theres a difference. He chose to give away all his money. Living in the modern world, im sorry, b
But a third world country nowadays would be considered a first world country in the prophet ﷺs time.
U dont understand how hard their lives were, ur poor life in the west is an easy life for the sahaba. But bc u dont want to live like that, ur gonna work and give up time with kids to live an easier life.

 

[Amk]

Yes and as a man, if you can see she's giving up her rights to full maintenance by working and helping you pay for stuff, the least you can do is help her with inside the house. Women aren't machines and life is about give and take.

Thats true but where did he say he wasnt helping her around the house

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Dis neega

 

[Angelina]

Thats true but where did he say he wasnt helping her around the house

Its a previous debate we had.

He believes that women should pay towards the house and that men shouldn't help with kids as that is purely a woman's job. He also believes that a man can get a 2nd wife without affording it as the first should pay rent and that the 2nd wife should be okay with only seeing her husband one month in the whole yr.

 

[Amk]

Its a previous debate we had.

He believes that women should pay towards the house and that men shouldn't help with kids as that is purely a woman's job. He also believes that a man can get a 2nd wife without affording it as the first should pay rent and that the 2nd wife should be okay with only seeing her husband one month in the whole yr.

ok well hes wrong then

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Its a previous debate we had.

He believes that women should pay towards the house and that men shouldn't help with kids as that is purely a woman's job. He also believes that a man can get a 2nd wife without affording it as the first should pay rent and that the 2nd wife should be okay with only seeing her husband one month in the whole yr.

There’s no way this man isn’t trolling
If not niggas clearly mentally unstable

 

[Amk]

@Angelina
To live a normal life in london, as a single person, you would need a salary of £40k a year to be considered not poor and just normal.
Now the average salary of a londoner is £39k which is just below that.
The average salary would just get a single man a normal life in london, now add on a wife and kids, and now the average person, meaning the majority, is poor,
Now if women want to work to get out of this poverty, then that is there own choice if they cannot be patient with it, but u can be patient with it if u want and u dont need to work.
Living in big cities its almost impossible to have a middle-class family without earning around 150k a year. If a woman doesnt work that makes it even harder
and most women want a middle class life style, so they r setting themselves up for destruction

 

[Angelina]

@Angelina
To live a normal life in london, as a single person, you would need a salary of £40k a year to be considered not poor and just normal.
Now the average salary of a londoner is £39k which is just below that.
The average salary would just get a single man a normal life in london, now add on a wife and kids, and now the average person, meaning the majority, is poor,
Now if women want to work to get out of this poverty, then that is there own choice if they cannot be patient with it, but u can be patient with it if u want and u dont need to work.
Living in big cities its almost impossible to have a middle-class family without earning around 150k a year. If a woman doesnt work that makes it even harder
and most women want a middle class life style, so they r setting themselves up for destruction

Most men and women want a middle class lifestyle. Who doesn't?
Londoners are struggling with rent mate, not just trying to get a middle class lifestyle.

 

[warshuush]

Shut up, you're boring me now.

Back home, no women would be okay with working and paying bills. They expect to be taken care of, so if anything us Western girls are the miskeen ones.

You western girls want to work. majority of muslim girls I have talked to want to work and dont want to have more than 2 kids. They have no interest in a real islamic family lifestyle, they want to eat out travel etc etc.. Most women have unrealistic expectations.

there is no wrong with that, IT IS HALAL

You insicure incel niggas have an issue with that
You think this is somalia 100 years ago where you can control your wife only because you are the bread winner
Wake up farax it's 2022 and islam OVER culture
And more women get more money and most somali men
im anti femienism and me speaking facts make us feminist? crazyyy is what u is

 

[Amk]

@Angelina And also to add on to that, me and alot of ppl I know, actually have good income, like maybe top 20% of people my house income is. And guess what, both me and people i know, have to share our rooms in our own homes, and basically sleep on the floor, cant afford anything other than basic essentials cos living in a semi good area in the city is still expensive. I grew up in a good area but where I lived was the most difficult living bc in a city ur gonna get killed, I slept in the sitting room for more than 9 years of my life, had big infestations, toilet was leaked and floor was wet all the time, it was hell, and household income was still better than most ppl in UK.
So finances are very difficult

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Most men and women want a middle class lifestyle. Who doesn't?
Londoners are struggling with rent mate, not just trying to get a middle class lifestyle.

UK can’t stop losing

I’m almost done transitioning into a tech career, left teaching, gonna try to work 6 months to a year at first job I land then go South, leave hennyland and get those fatter checks in the US.
I don’t know why people are averse to relocating, specially when you have youth on your side.
Make dua for me, hopefully it’ll go smoothly

 

[Amk]

there is no wrong with that, IT IS HALAL

You insicure incel niggas have an issue with that
You think this is somalia 100 years ago where you can control your wife only because you are the bread winner
Wake up farax it's 2022 and islam OVER culture
And more women get more money and most somali men
im anti femienism and me speaking facts make us feminist? crazyyy is what u is

Women can work but they shouldnt be complaining about it. If a women wants to work thats her choice but shes just adding more responsibility to her plate
Its FACT in the west that women have become less happy the more they worked, women working has only actually benfitted men in the long run. u can search up the study

 

[warshuush]

You new niggas wanna be WOMEN so bad
ufft grow some balls AND be men

 

[Amk]

You new niggas wanna be WOMEN so bad
ufft grow some balls AND be men

Opposite way round. Women want to be men nowadays. That literally just a fact

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Women can work but they shouldnt be complaining about it. If a women wants to work thats her choice but shes just adding more responsibility to her plate
Its FACT in the west that women have become less happy the more they worked, women working has only actually benfitted men in the long run. u can search up the study

Unless you’re a high earner it’ll require dual income in most western countries saxiib. Either get your money up and find a woman that’s willing to stay at home, or learn to co-exist and work with women for a common goal (your household and children). If you can’t do either don’t get married, you’ll have disfuntional household and your children will be the biggest losers from it, nobody pays for the mistakes of parent like children do. Put your ego aside.

 

[Angelina]

Women can work but they shouldnt be complaining about it. If a women wants to work thats her choice but shes just adding more responsibility to her plate
Its FACT in the west that women have become less happy the more they worked, women working has only actually benfitted men in the long run. u can search up the study

That is because they've allowed themselves to be taken advantage of and tbh, a lot of selfish men don't care about making their wives lives easier but want everything done for them.

A lot of these men need women to work, so if you need your wife to pay rent, help her out. Simple as that.

Everyday men here complain about mehr, complain about finances, yet you have Xalimos only asking for 2k and paying half of the rent and some Abdis can't even help with the house.

 

[Angelina]

Opposite way round. Women want to be men nowadays. That literally just a fact

I fail to see how women having finances means they want to be men. What exactly is manly? Having money?

 

[Amk]

I fail to see how women having finances means they want to be men. What exactly is manly? Having money?

Being the money maker of ur household is manly

 

[warshuush]

I fail to see how women having finances means they want to be men. What exactly is manly? Having money?

He thinks women having standerds is manly
We should want nothing according to his Kevin samuels Bibel

 

[Angelina]

Being the money maker of ur household is manly

Erm Khadijah was the one with the money when she was married to the Prophet S.A.W.