Marriage tips for the brothers

[Angelina]

This guy is a diskusting and brainwashed his wife, may she be free amin
The nerve of you!!
You watch waaaay to many kevin samules and fresh and fit videos
Wallahi somali men (you sound like a whole abti) the older once are diskusing
Your way sounds like som redpilled BS

undercover gay men HATE women and act like you do, or a lucky incel that got a wife
This does not sound Islamic, kulaha be cheap, dont talk to family

You sound like those honor killing asian men and us somalis are FAAAR from that

I can tell he isn't an abti. What fob abti is going to have an issue with his wife having friends and her family? Somalis are a very social bunch traditionally. They don't naturally think that way. It's Western redpill qashin. Back home, couples don't even live in nuclear families and are constantly surrounded by people.

 

[warshuush]

1. this guy (op) is not somali
2. don't think he is muslim
3. makes a fake story to get an reaction

Nacalaaa f*ck out of this site you troll

A saw what he wrote on another topic kulaha going to a brothel over night is halal yani halal marrige for a day

Exposed!!

You and your fantesy trolling can go
lol this is !how " diseplin my plastic blow upp doll having ass" AHAHHAHAHA

 

[Angelina]

My point is stop this negative feminist energy and look for the positives in life. It’s always a zero sum game with you. Smart Muslim women understand it’s not a competition with men. The purpose of life is to be good muslims and increase the Muslim unmah

You're whole thread is based on negatives and you're lecturing me?
My point isn't a competition. You're a xaasid, who merely looks at what only benefit him, so why would any woman with sense, take what you need into consideration when you fail to do the same? Life is give and take and a smart woman knows when she is being taken advantage of.

A smart man doesn't chat shit. He works extra hours and gets his money up instead of acting like some sort of patriarch when you need your wife to have a roof over your head.

My point is, don't bite the hand that feeds you.

 

[warshuush]

I can tell he isn't an abti. What fob abti is going to have an issue with his wife having friends and her family? Somalis are a very social bunch traditionally. They don't naturally think that way. It's Western redpill qashin. Back home, couples don't even live in nuclear families and are constantly surrounded by people.

Exacty!!! This guy is a sent troll

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

I can tell he isn't an abti. What fob abti is going to have an issue with his wife having friends and her family? Somalis are a very social bunch traditionally. They don't naturally think that way. It's Western redpill qashin. Back home, couples don't even live in nuclear families and are constantly surrounded by people.

It’s not the same back home. Women back home will be given good advice by other women. They are not exposed to feminists like in the west. Runta ha la isku sheego walal

 

[warshuush]

It’s not the same back home. Women back will be given good advice by other women. They are not exposed to feminists like in the west. Runta ha la isku sheego walal

You should stop the capping and marry your side nigga, no sane women will acept your shitty slave rules.

 

[Amk]

He works extra hours and gets his money up instead of acting like some sort of patriarch when you need your wife to have a roof over your head.

he works 2 jobs. In the west in big cities this sometimes isnt enough. Unless u wanna live in a cardboard box. I wouldnt bash his financial situation, its difficult to just get the basics in the west, theres a reason why most ppl just live in poor areas, majority of the west is actually poor compared to the actual middleclass ppl in the west. Its just the way it is

 

[Angelina]

It’s not the same back home. Women back home will be given good advice by other women. They are not exposed to feminists like in the west. Runta ha la isku sheego walal

Shut up, you're boring me now.

Back home, no women would be okay with working and paying bills. They expect to be taken care of, so if anything us Western girls are the miskeen ones.

 

[Amk]

Shut up, you're boring me now.

Back home, no women would be okay with working and paying bills. They expect to be taken care of, so if anything us Western girls are the miskeen ones.

You western girls want to work. majority of muslim girls I have talked to want to work and dont want to have more than 2 kids. They have no interest in a real islamic family lifestyle, they want to eat out travel etc etc.. Most women have unrealistic expectations.

 

[Angelina]

he works 2 jobs. In the west in big cities this sometimes isnt enough. Unless u wanna live in a cardboard box. I wouldnt bash his financial situation, its difficult to just get the basics in the west, theres a reason why most ppl just live in poor areas, majority of the west is actually poor compared to the actual middleclass ppl in the west. Its just the way it is

I'll bash him, especially when he isn't appreciative of the fact that his wife is giving up her right to help him. The least he can do his help her a bit, but he thinks that is beneath him.

As a man if you think helping is beneath you, then get your money up so your wife can rest and spend her time at home.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

This advice for the brothers and you feminists have hijacked this topic and insulted me without any provocation.

 

[Shimbiris]

Some more tips.

5) Be frugal and save money. Only spend on your wife what she absolutely needs. Do not spend money on materialistic things. The other reasons to reduce the number of friends your wife has is because they will compare with each other. She will say farxiya’s husband bought her a car why do I have to take the bus

 

[Angelina]

You western girls want to work. majority of muslim girls I have talked to want to work and dont want to have more than 2 kids. They have no interest in a real islamic family lifestyle, they want to eat out travel etc etc.. Most women have unrealistic expectations.

What is a real Islamic lifestyle?
You do know that Islamic fiqh takes into account the upbringing of a woman in terms of her families finances?

 

[Amk]

I'll bash him, especially when he isn't appreciative of the fact that his wife is giving up her right to help him. The least he can do his help her a bit, but he thinks that is beneath him.

As a man if you think helping is beneath you, then get your money up so your wife can rest and spend her time at home.

would u give up ur right to work if it meant u had to live in extreme poverty?

 

[Angelina]

would u give up ur right to work if it meant u had to live in extreme poverty?

Nah and why should I?
Did you know according to scholars fathers even have a right to reject suitors like this, especially if a girl was raised in a certain lifestyle?

Did you know that in some madhabs, if a girl grew up with maids, her husband is obliged to get her one if he can afford it?

Islam, especially when you look at scholarly fiqh isn't black and white.

 

[Amk]

What is a real Islamic lifestyle?
You do know that Islamic fiqh takes into account the upbring of a woman and her families finances?

In reality if u read the seerah most ppl would say the prophet ﷺ let his wives live difficult lives.
seriusly the prophet ﷺ had the ability to buy a big house and alot of food and luxuries, now if uve ever seen the prophet ﷺs house, it was literally 1 room, thats it, one room, they only had one or 2 pieces of food, most days they would go starving, his wives had to stay in the house most of the time, they lived very difficult lives.

 

[Amk]

Nah and why should I?
Did you know according to scholars fathers even have a right to reject suitors like this, especially if a girl was raised in a certain lifestyle?

Did you know that in some madhabs, if a girl grew up with maids, her husband is obliged to get her one?

Islam, especially when you look at scholarly fiqh isn't black and white.

Yes but its the womans choice at the end of the day, if a woman accepts a man then shes gonna have to accept the difficulty coming with it

 

[Angelina]

In reality if u read the seerah most ppl would say the prophet ﷺ let his wives live difficult lives.
seriusly the prophet ﷺ had the ability to buy a big house and alot of food and luxuries, now if uve ever seen the prophet ﷺs house, it was literally 1 room, thats it, one room, they only had one or 2 pieces of food, most days they would go starving, his wives had to stay in the house most of the time, they lived very difficult lives.

The prophetﷺ was spreading Islam, doing dawah, fighting those that were fighting him ect. His own children didn't inherit from him, as the laws were different for him.

Are you doing this? No, you're sitiing in an air conditioned office.

 

[Rocktheboat]

You're an amazon factory worker who does uber on the side. What assets do you need to protect? Delusional

 

[Angelina]

Yes but its the womans choice at the end of the day, if a woman accepts a man then shes gonna have to accept the difficulty coming with it

Yes and as a man, if you can see she's giving up her rights to full maintenance by working and helping you pay for stuff, the least you can do is help her with inside the house. Women aren't machines and life is about give and take.