Marriage tips for the brothers

[En_Sabah Nur]

Here are some simple tips for younger brothers looking to get married. These are tips that most people are too afraid to say but are absolutely critical to fruitful marriage.

1) never legally marry. Always just do Islamic nikaax. This will protect you and your assets in the future and gives you more options to marry a second wife from abroad

2) don’t let your wife have any friends especially single Freinds. Women give each other bad advice and they can turn her against you

3) monitor how much time your wife spends with her family. Family can also give women bad advice and turn her against you

4) don’t give your wife too much compliments. Point out her flaws regularly to keep her in check and dependent on you

 

[Trapmacalin]

They will hate to admit it but women lowkey respect men who barely compliment or put them on a pedestal. I agree with everything you say especially the legally marrying part. Marrying a women using western laws is basically writing a prison sentence for yourself

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

I have seen alot of xalimos saying they dont want to be a housewife for Farax that is why they want ajnabis.
The irony is the xalimo marrying the ajnabi most of the time are the bread winners and housewife for tyrone, abu lulu and haile tedessa.

 

[liya]

2) don’t let your wife have any friends

What the f*ck?

 

[Amk]

Here are some simple tips for younger brothers looking to get married. These are tips that most people are too afraid to say but are absolutely critical to fruitful marriage.

1) never legally marry. Always just do Islamic nikaax. This will protect you and your assets in the future and gives you more options to marry a second wife from abroad

2) don’t let your wife have any friends especially single Freinds. Women give each other bad advice and they can turn her against you

3) monitor how much time your wife spends with her family. Family can also give women bad advice and turn her against you

4) don’t give your wife too much compliments. Point out her flaws regularly to keep her in check and dependent on you

1. correct
2.wrong- make sure she only has good muslim friends that keep her in check, if the friends are single or non-islamic then advice her to yeet them out her life
3.Correct
4.Half correct. Dont point out her flaws to belittle her or keep her in check, this is arrogance, if ur going to point out a flaw do it rarely and be kind about it, she is not a robot u can just boss around or make her the perfect woman,

 

[empressjamila]

Isolating your wife from her friends and family so all she has is you…putting her down and making her feel bad about herself…

Classic signs of an abusive man. Ladies run away from men like this

And legal marriage protects women and children. When you’re only seen as bf/gf in the eyes of the law it comes with issues especially if you two end up divorcing. Many somali men choose not to do legal marriage so they can do their wife dirty without any legal repercussions. Won’t be me

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Isolating your wife from her friends and family so all she has is you…putting her down and making her feel bad about herself…

Classic signs of an abusive man. Ladies run away from men like this

And legal marriage protects women and children. When you’re only seen as bf/gf in the eyes of the law it comes with issues especially if you two end up divorcing. Many somali men choose not to do legal marriage so they can do their wife dirty without any legal repercussions. Won’t be me

It’s not isolation. It’s removing potentially negative influence from her life. Did you know majority of divorces in the west are initiated by women? It’s because of bad advice from friends and family

 

[Amk]

Isolating your wife from her friends and family so all she has is you…putting her down and making her feel bad about herself…

Classic signs of an abusive man. Ladies run away from men like this

And legal marriage protects women and children. When you’re only seen as bf/gf in the eyes of the law it comes with issues especially if you two end up divorcing. Many somali men choose not to do legal marriage so they can do their wife dirty without any legal repercussions. Won’t be me

He thinks a wife is a pet

 

[Amk]

Did you know majority of divorces in the wear are initiated by women? It’s because of bad advice from friends and family

u dont know thats the reason unless u have actual evidence

 

[liya]

It’s not isolation. It’s removing potentially negative influence from her life. Did you know majority of divorces in the west are initiated by women? It’s because of bad advice from friends and family

Because they’re all gaalo and that kind of thing never happens with Somali couples

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

u dont know thats the reason unless u have actual evidence

He is 100% correct.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Because they’re all gaalo and that kind of thing never happens with Somali couples

Of course it happens. She goes to get advice from her friend farxiya forever single, next thing you know she’s wants to travel and this and that and threatens you with bacda madow

 

[Amk]

He is 100% correct.

Fa'too burhaanakum in kuntum saadiqeen

 

[liya]

Of course it happens. She goes to get advice from her friend farxiya forever single, next thing you know she’s wants to travel and this and that and threatens you with bacda madow

Threatens you kulaha

 

[Hargeysa]

Here are some simple tips for younger brothers looking to get married. These are tips that most people are too afraid to say but are absolutely critical to fruitful marriage.

1) never legally marry. Always just do Islamic nikaax. This will protect you and your assets in the future and gives you more options to marry a second wife from abroad

2) don’t let your wife have any friends especially single Freinds. Women give each other bad advice and they can turn her against you

3) monitor how much time your wife spends with her family. Family can also give women bad advice and turn her against you

4) don’t give your wife too much compliments. Point out her flaws regularly to keep her in check and dependent on you

Yeah, don't do this kids.

In fact, do the exact opposite of this lol.

 

[empressjamila]

It’s not isolation. It’s removing potentially negative influence from her life. Did you know majority of divorces in the west are initiated by women? It’s because of bad advice from friends and family

From what I’ve seen most family and friends are supportive of their friend or family member’s love life unless they see glaring red flags.

And putting your wife down and picking apart her flaws is a glaring red flag. Any person who sees a man do that to someone they care about would have concerns, and rightfully so

Either way that’s not the reason for women initiating divorce as women have minds of their own and can choose to take the advice or not

 

[Mount23]

Agree with tip 1, getting married in this legally satanic system is horrific for men

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

In my experience most family and friends are supportive of love life unless they see glaring red flags.

And putting your wife down and picking apart her flaws is a glaring red flag. Any person who sees a man do that to someone they care about would have concerns, and rightfully so

Either way that’s not the reason for women initiating divorce as women have minds of their own and can choose to take the advice or not

You’ve no clue the damage family and friends can do to a marriage. I don’t even let wives relatives stay with us. I’d rather help pay for their hotel accommodations

 

[liya]

I don’t even let wives relatives stay with us

Do you let her do anything? Serious question

 

[empressjamila]

You’ve no clue the damage family and friends can do to a marriage. I don’t even let wives relatives stay with us. I’d rather help pay for their hotel accommodations

So did you cut off your family and friends too when you got married…or nah?

Just say you’re controlling and go man