Major Ingredients of a Happy forever type of Marriage!

[Basra]

A Submissive and devoted wife to her husband. A husband who provides for the wife financially well enough for her to be a house wife. Periodt. Marriage happiness depends on the wife. She rules her castle.


Do you guys know Dr. Phil of the Tv Talk host fame? He has been on air for more than 25 years -and everyday- his wife sits in his audience, and when he closes the show- they walk out hand in hand?


Can you imagine that?


No i can't imagine that because i am too lazy!

 

[Odious Delirium]

A Submissive and devoted wife to her husband. A husband who provides for the wife financially well enough for her to be a house wife. Periodt. Marriage happiness depends on the wife. She rules her castle.


Do you guys know Dr. Phil of the Tv Talk host fame? He has been on air for more than 25 years -and everyday- his wife sits in his audience, and when he closes the show- they walk out hand in hand?


Can you imagine that?


No i can't imagine that because i am too lazy!

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[Mr. Nur]

A Submissive and devoted wife to her husband. A husband who provides for the wife financially well enough for her to be a house wife. Periodt. Marriage happiness depends on the wife. She rules her castle.


Do you guys know Dr. Phil of the Tv Talk host fame? He has been on air for more than 25 years -and everyday- his wife sits in his audience, and when he closes the show- they walk out hand in hand?


Can you imagine that?


No i can't imagine that because i am too lazy!

Let's be honest this is some bullsh*t western ideology your trying to promote im not saying that to offend you but to generalize the question:


Replying to question:


In Islam, there are several ingredients that contribute to a happy and successful marriage, including:

1. Faith: A shared commitment to Islam and the values it promotes, such as compassion, kindness, honesty, and forgiveness, can help strengthen the bond between spouses and provide a strong foundation for the marriage.
2. Communication: Open and honest communication is essential for a healthy and happy marriage. Spouses should listen to each other's concerns, express their feelings respectfully, and work together to find solutions to any problems that arise.
3. Respect: Mutual respect is a cornerstone of a successful marriage. Spouses should treat each other with kindness, dignity, and honor, and avoid actions and words that could cause harm or disrespect.
4. Love and affection: Expressing love and affection towards one's spouse is an important aspect of a happy marriage. This can be done through physical gestures, such as hugs and kisses, as well as verbal expressions of love and appreciation.
5. Patience and forgiveness: Marriage can be challenging at times, and spouses may make mistakes or face difficulties. Patience and forgiveness are important qualities that can help spouses overcome challenges and strengthen their bond.
6. Shared goals and interests: Spouses who share common goals and interests are more likely to build strong and lasting relationships. Whether it's working towards a shared vision for the future or enjoying shared hobbies and activities, having common ground can help couples stay connected and engaged with each other.

Overall, a happy and successful marriage in Islam is based on mutual respect, open communication, love and affection, patience and forgiveness, shared values and goals, and a commitment to living according to the teachings of Islam.

 

[Yaraye]

A Submissive and devoted wife to her husband. A husband who provides for the wife financially well enough for her to be a house wife. Periodt. Marriage happiness depends on the wife. She rules her castle.


Do you guys know Dr. Phil of the Tv Talk host fame? He has been on air for more than 25 years -and everyday- his wife sits in his audience, and when he closes the show- they walk out hand in hand?


Can you imagine that?


No i can't imagine that because i am too lazy!

It looks like a divorce is coming eedo?

 

[Basra]

Let's be honest this is some bullsh*t western ideology your trying to promote im not saying that to offend you but to generalize the question:


Replying to question:


In Islam, there are several ingredients that contribute to a happy and successful marriage, including:

1. Faith: A shared commitment to Islam and the values it promotes, such as compassion, kindness, honesty, and forgiveness, can help strengthen the bond between spouses and provide a strong foundation for the marriage.
2. Communication: Open and honest communication is essential for a healthy and happy marriage. Spouses should listen to each other's concerns, express their feelings respectfully, and work together to find solutions to any problems that arise.
3. Respect: Mutual respect is a cornerstone of a successful marriage. Spouses should treat each other with kindness, dignity, and honor, and avoid actions and words that could cause harm or disrespect.
4. Love and affection: Expressing love and affection towards one's spouse is an important aspect of a happy marriage. This can be done through physical gestures, such as hugs and kisses, as well as verbal expressions of love and appreciation.
5. Patience and forgiveness: Marriage can be challenging at times, and spouses may make mistakes or face difficulties. Patience and forgiveness are important qualities that can help spouses overcome challenges and strengthen their bond.
6. Shared goals and interests: Spouses who share common goals and interests are more likely to build strong and lasting relationships. Whether it's working towards a shared vision for the future or enjoying shared hobbies and activities, having common ground can help couples stay connected and engaged with each other.

Overall, a happy and successful marriage in Islam is based on mutual respect, open communication, love and affection, patience and forgiveness, shared values and goals, and a commitment to living according to the teachings of Islam.

With ALL due respect ALL you mention is good for the Goose but not for the Gu.s


My experience in life- i know it comes down to the selfish needs of the people involved in the marriage. In books or paper- YES- Faith is important. But i am already assuming these people in a marriage are together Muslims.


A man needs a cheer leader. A Woman needs something to do.

 

[Yaraye]

With ALL due respect ALL you mention is good for the Goose but not for the Gu.s


My experience in life- i know it comes down to the selfish needs of the people involved in the marriage. In books or paper- YES- Faith is important. But i am already assuming these people in a marriage are together Muslims.


A man needs a cheer leader. A Woman needs something to do.

being a cheerleader is tiring. Takes a lot of work

gotta get this afterwards:

 

[Mr. Nur]

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With ALL due respect ALL you mention is good for the Goose but not for the Gu.s


My experience in life- i know it comes down to the selfish needs of the people involved in the marriage. In books or paper- YES- Faith is important. But i am already assuming these people in a marriage are together Muslims.


A man needs a cheer leader. A Woman needs something to do.

You have some gender/relationship society problem fix you're mindset and stop bashing Somali men what do you even mean In regards to the statement that a man needs a cheerleader and a woman needs something to do, it is important to recognize that these are gender stereotypes that do not necessarily apply to all men or women.

I have no respect for you if think of this type of Western mindset, if offended you, forgive me.

 

[Basra]

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You have some gender/relationship society problem fix you're mindset and stop bashing Somali men what do you even mean In regards to the statement that a man needs a cheerleader and a woman needs something to do, it is important to recognize that these are gender stereotypes that do not necessarily apply to all men or women.

I have no respect for you if think of this type of Western mindset, if offended you, forgive me.

Huuno---A human being is by nature a Stereotype. We are ALL the same. We all xaar brown poop.

And yes you are forgiven huuno

 

[Mr. Nur]

Laaaa

Huuno---A human being is by nature a Stereotype. We are ALL the same. We all xaar brown poop.

And yes you are forgiven huuno

We're not the same understand this Women and men are not the same just because we share little similarities were not the same hunno. this is a basic bio.

The Quran recognizes that men and women have different roles, responsibilities, and strengths. Men have been given the role of protector and provider, while women have been given the role of caregiver and nurturer. These roles are complementary and not interchangeable, emphasizing the fundamental differences between the genders.



In Surah An-Nisa, Verse 34, the Quran states, "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in the husband's absence what Allah would have them guard."

This verse highlights the unique roles and responsibilities that men and women have been given by Allah. Men have been given the role of protector and provider, while women have been given the role of caregiver and nurturer. These roles are complementary and not interchangeable, emphasizing the fundamental differences between the genders.

 

[Basra]

Laaaa



We're not the same understand this Women and men are not the same just because we share little similarities were not the same hunno. this is a basic bio.

The Quran recognizes that men and women have different roles, responsibilities, and strengths. Men have been given the role of protector and provider, while women have been given the role of caregiver and nurturer. These roles are complementary and not interchangeable, emphasizing the fundamental differences between the genders.



In Surah An-Nisa, Verse 34, the Quran states, "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in the husband's absence what Allah would have them guard."

This verse highlights the unique roles and responsibilities that men and women have been given by Allah. Men have been given the role of protector and provider, while women have been given the role of caregiver and nurturer. These roles are complementary and not interchangeable, emphasizing the fundamental differences between the genders.

Thus i said women should hold their roles and men theirs! A woman is his secretary! Agaah

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

You're right @Basra. But these very feminine, submissive women are snatched up before 22. Their femininity and softness hypnotizes men to do anything they want. You have to be molded into that personality from birth. The ones who complain that these "simp" men don't exist are the masculine type.

 

[Mr. Nur]

You're right @Basra. But these very feminine, submissive women are snatched up before 22. Their femininity and softness hypnotizes men to do anything they want. You have to be molded into that personality from birth. The ones who complain that these "simp" men don't exist are the masculine type.

what is saying abti?

Women are born to be feminine they have that energy in theme. Men, on the other hand, are the masculine type you mentioned but idk is this what you meant I hope it not the other way around

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

what is saying abti?

Women are born to be feminine they have that energy in theme. Men, on the other hand, are the masculine type you mentioned but idk is this what you meant I hope it not the other way around

Most women have become masculine and most men have become feminine. You can tell where each person will end up by an early age.

 

[Basra]

You're right @Basra. But these very feminine, submissive women are snatched up before 22. Their femininity and softness hypnotizes men to do anything they want. You have to be molded into that personality from birth. The ones who complain that these "simp" men don't exist are the masculine type.

exactimont! my precise point! Men snatch these feminine women right away. Its like a key fits in a lock hol.e - pun intended!


Those girls who are not born petite or feminine- need to trick the man. It should be a lifetime study and perfecting! Periodt

 

[JackieBurkhart]

You're right @Basra. But these very feminine, submissive women are snatched up before 22. Their femininity and softness hypnotizes men to do anything they want. You have to be molded into that personality from birth. The ones who complain that these "simp" men don't exist are the masculine type.

I mean there's plenty of feminine men, this is not a gendered problem. I remember back in high school seeing a straight guy in women's boots. The other guys were laughing at him.

 

[Basra]

I mean there's plenty of feminine men, this is not a gendered problem. I remember back in high school seeing a straight guy in women's boots. The other guys were laughing at him.

and u wearing a macawiis?


The sign of times huuno

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

I mean there's plenty of feminine men, this is not a gendered problem. I remember back in high school seeing a straight guy in women's boots. The other guys were laughing at him.

I meant to say the women who complain that these good men don't exist are the masculine women type. Men will only act like simps to their women if their woman acts very submissive.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

exactimont! my precise point! Men snatch these feminine women right away. Its like a key fits in a lock hol.e - pun intended!


Those girls who are not born petite or feminine- need to trick the man. It should be a lifetime study and perfecting! Periodt

You can't trick them. Eventually their masculinity will creep out. It will seem forced.

 

[Mr. Nur]

Most women have become masculine and most men have become feminine. You can tell where each person will end up by an early age.

That is the norm of the Western countries pushing why cuz their family/comm are breaking down so they do this to break other communities with nonsense they do this so badly to destroy other communities' cultures and races and even brainwash their religion. we as Somali comm ain't accepting there shii so their targeting kids and promoting in-depth and other shii including lgbt comm behind this crap sh*thole? We as Islamic community should avoid their trap not just us but our future generations and our youths coming up.

 

[JackieBurkhart]

I meant to say the women who complain that these good men don't exist are the masculine women type. Men will only act like simps to their women if their woman acts very submissive.

This is mostly a *cadaan problem, so I'm not too worried.

Edit: @Javelin. *People cosplaying as the opposite gender.