Love proportion between couples: Advice to the young Faraxs

[The_Kong Dong]

Truth.

Think about it in terms of Naruto;

Naruto likes Sakura more than Sakura likes Naruto -------> Naruto gets abused.

Sakura likes Sasuke more than Sasuke likes Sakura ---> Sakura gets abused

Hinata likes Naruto more than Naruto likes Hinata --> Naruto settles with Hinata.

Moral of the story, whoever likes the other person less, in a relationship that person is in a position to abuse or settle with the other person and holds all the power.

i swear, i was listening to this song while reading this thread. what a coincidence

 

[NotMyL]

I'm speaking from experience. I had a girl that liked me way more than I liked her. It's in the nature of mankind to be ungrateful, I didn't give her her rights. Didn't pick up the phone when she called, left her on read for days. I didn't do it on purpose, I just didn't like her that much. That shit can be very toxic and abusive to females. So I ended the thing before I transgressed upon her. Then I had a girl that liked me just a bit more than I liked her. Best relationship ever. I use to wake up singing ulalee-ulalaa and whispering on my way to work.

Now I'm involved with balaayo foqal balaayo. Headaches and mind games. Because the like ratio is evenly distributed. No one is willing to sacrifice for the other. Just a second after I tried to call her and she didn't pick up, I see her on IG. I told her do not laugh at another man's joke? Wat do I see if I randomly scroll IG comments? Her saying looooool alla ma nooli

It sounds like you like her a lot more sxb, admit it.

 

[IBRAHIM.]

@Basra answer honestly, if Allah gave females the power to marry 4 men, I don't think you would've stayed with one and I'm sure u won't have all of their babies. Runti mise been?

 

[VixR]

No. She had different life plans. She wanted to pursue another degree, so I told her chase your dreams. If I liked her more, I'd say don't go. Then I'd end up with a dissapointed human being. Life would be more sour than lemons.

You see, if works best if the girls likes the guy more. We will be more reasonable.

Erm, how about letting her chase her dreams, but staying with her since you were that happy.

The truth is you weren’t into her as much, so it was easy to detach as soon as the path had a fork in it.

 

[Abdalla]

It sounds like you like her a lot more sxb, admit it.

Do you really think that I don't retaliate? Considering how petty I is? I retaliate like Israel retaliates Hamas. I stress her out as well. Let's just say if she was like you, she'd shave her head

Erm, how about letting her chase her dreams, but staying with her since you were that happy.

The truth is you weren’t into her as much, so it was easy to detach as soon as the path had a fork in it.

Nope, stop assuming. It was an overseas uni. A two year degree.

Besides don't you attach yourself to emotional unavailable men? Doesn't it current Chad, call you and say absolutely nothing? Didn't Kyle enroll in the army and rolled back into your arms after being deployed to Japan for years? And you welcomed him with open legs arms?

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

Truth.

Think about it in terms of Naruto;

Naruto likes Sakura more than Sakura likes Naruto -------> Naruto gets abused.

Sakura likes Sasuke more than Sasuke likes Sakura ---> Sakura gets abused

Hinata likes Naruto more than Naruto likes Hinata --> Naruto settles with Hinata.

Moral of the story, whoever likes the other person less, in a relationship that person is in a position to abuse or settle with the other person and holds all the power.

Dude, I need to post this little educational tid bit somewhere on anime fan boards. Did you copy this from somewhere? Genius analysis.

I was pissed with Naruto for being such a suck ass to Sakura. I was happy in the end for hinata and him to settle down. Hinata and Naruto deserved each other for their good hearts. Plus they made Hinata look sexier whilst Sakura came across as a dyke. Flat chest is a killer even for an anime character lol.

Cool post man.

PS: Another marriage that I approved was between Shikamaru and Temari.

 

[mrlog]

How about the one where we both equally love and respect each other?


Waiting for the that doesn’t exist reply

Huuno u are talking about a fairy tale.
As per relationship guru @Abdalla stated, it’s like a tug of war.
Notion of both equally loving and respecting is faataa-dhug.
One party has to be dominant for there to be progress.
Otherwise u stay in the same place.

 

[Abdalla]

Huuno u are talking about a fairy tale.
As per relationship guru @Abdalla stated, it’s like a tug of war.
Notion of both equally loving and respecting is faataa-dhug.
One party has to be dominant for there to be progress.
Otherwise u stay in the same place.

She believes in a fake Ying and Yang jinni bullshit. It's clear her husband likes her more than she likes him. She doesn't allow her mother in law to sit on the passenger seat, not does she pay any bills. As I said, if the guy likes more, it's not healthy relationship.

 

[VixR]

Do you really think that I don't retaliate? Considering how petty I is? I retaliate like Israel retaliates Hamas. I stress her out as well. Let's just say if she was like you, she'd shave her head



Nope, stop assuming. It was an overseas uni. A two year degree.

Besides don't you attach yourself to emotional unavailable men? Doesn't it current Chad, call you and say absolutely nothing? Didn't Kyle enroll in the army and rolled back into your arms after being deployed to Japan for years? And you welcomed him with open legs arms?

I didn’t take Air Force guy back. He ruined a relationship he was in through getting in touch with me to apologize, which I think was genuine, but falling again. I was dating someone else (happily, Somali), but since we’d had no closure it became messy, but ultimately I didn’t take him back. I wouldn’t have, even if I wasn’t with someone else.

I like moderately quiet guys, and he’s funny. He checks out bc I don’t date losers, and he likes me more than I like him. I’m the emotionally unavailable one, but I’m freestyleing it. If it works out, it works out, but he was worth considering.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

Hell no. That whole triangle was depressing. I'm looking for a Temari = Shikamaru relationship

Mutual love and respect. Plus I liked how they made Temari act like a real woman acts in real life: Coy, shy and embarrassed in front of the man she loves, misreading cues and assuming he understands her perfectly when he has no clue she is into him etc. Best moments in general are when the woman is desperate to confess her love but she can't and hopes the guy drops the confession first. All that desperate signaling. Beautiful torment that leads to the climax.

I thank God for creating women for men many times over. As long as she doesn't annoy me and cut into my game time, we are cool.

 

[Abdalla]

I like moderately quiet guys, and he’s funny.

How is he funny if he doesn't talk? Is he a mime and makes funny gestures?

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

I didn’t take Air Force guy back. He ruined a relationship he was in through getting in touch with me to apologize, which I think was genuine, but falling again. I was dating someone else (happily, Somali), but since we’d had no closure it became messy, but ultimately I didn’t take him back. I wouldn’t have, even if I wasn’t with someone else.

I like moderately quiet guys, and he’s funny. He checks out bc I don’t date losers, and he likes me more than I like him. I’m the emotionally unavailable one, but I’m freestyleing it. If it works out, it works out, but he was worth considering.

Did he show you the evidence of loss of a relationship because of you? What a playa he was. I know guys who fabricated such events and created fake text messages to win back someone.

You come across as miskeen.

 

[Kanini]

Mutual love and respect. Plus I liked how they made Temari act like a real woman acts in real life: Coy, shy and embarrassed in front of the man she loves, misreading cues and assuming he understands her perfectly when he as no clue she is into him etc. Best moments in general are when the woman is desperate to confess her love but she can't and hopes the guy drops the confession first. All that desperate signaling. Beautiful torment that leads to the climax.

I thank God for creating women for men many times over. As long as she doesn't annoy me and cut into my game time, we are cool.

That is the most well written response i've ever received and it was about Naruto.

 

[Waa-Aniga]

IIwad sheekada

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

How is he funny if he doesn't talk? Is he a mime and makes funny gestures?

Second time I am laughing hard at your posts Abdallah. He is quiet type doesn't mean he can't talk and joke around with anyone he feels comfortable with or likes.

I get judged as quiet person by almost everyone, yet I talk and have long conversations with people I know. Even with strangers depending on the situation.

Funny guy, qosolkaa iga dhamaaday.

 

[VixR]

How is he funny if he doesn't talk? Is he a mime and makes funny gestures?

Looool. Don’t worry about it.

You need to stop being stubborn, or you’ll never learn, and sabotage the ones you really like. So long as you can see yourself with her, there’s certain things you can’t fight.

Did he show you the evidence of loss of a relationship because of you? What a playa he was. I know guys who fabricated such events and created fake text messages to win back someone.

You come across as miskeen.

He told her about it himself. I wanted him to make it work with her. Suddenly, he was saying he’s a man now and he would love to settle down with me. Anyway, that’s a closed chapter.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

He told her about it himself. I wanted him to make it work with her. Suddenly, he was saying he’s a man now and he would love to settle down with me. Anyway, that’s a closed chapter.

Marry a somali guy Inshallah. Familiarity is an all too important component that makes relationships last longer and more productive.


At least make an effort towards that end. Your parents would be happy even if they would be supportive of you with another man because they love you.


Marrying Ajnabi for me feels like giving up my soul. Must be because I am straight from Somalia. It is different for other somalis who had never been to Somalia.

Whatever the case with you, I wish you good luck.

 

[NotMyL]

She believes in a fake Ying and Yang jinni bullshit. It's clear her husband likes her more than she likes him. She doesn't allow her mother in law to sit on the passenger seat, not does she pay any bills. As I said, if the guy likes more, it's not healthy relationship.

You know nothing about my marriage stop assuming things also stop lying, never did I say my mother in law can’t sit in the front seat, don’t make me go dig that thread up you xaar face.

You’re going to die a lone in your mom’s basement with the way you view women.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

That is the most well written response i've ever gotten and it was about Naruto.

My Pleasure bro. I make good observations though I don't claim infallibility. When you read books beside the Faynuus and Shumac, all the while mosquito crowds around you thirsty for your blood, you get somewhere in life later on. You become wise if not overly educated.




PS: This is Faynuus

And this is Shumac

 

[Abdalla]

You know nothing about my marriage stop assuming things also stop lying, never did I say my mother in law can’t sit in the front seat, don’t make me go dig that thread up you xaar face.

You’re going to die a lone in your mom’s basement with the way you view women.

Take that back