Desert Flower
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Try occupying your time with things that benefit you - working out, studying at the library, hanging w/ friends, increasing knowledge of deen, personal development. When you are busy, you won't have much time to feel lonely.
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Try occupying your time with things that benefit you - working out, studying at the library, hanging w/ friends, increasing knowledge of deen, personal development. When you are busy, you won't have much time to feel lonely.
XoosBoos
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I would encourage doing something like a hobby? Sports, drawing, gym, swimming, running, etc. Or if you are «lazy» get a ps4 or something at your house and play.
Inquisitive_
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I lived alone for many years, no doubt it was tough at the start, but that's only because we lost something that was natural to those before us, something that has been deprogrammed out of us by this society which is the propensity of introspection and self examination that's at the centre of our spiritual life, a built in mechanism every human has in periods of solitude.
In that solitude state you are forced to think deeply about things you never did, you discover things about yourself that you never knew, you reflect about life in ways you never had before which results in big changes for your own betterment, these are all things that people run away from today through escapism (TV, clubs, parties, shiisha, going out all the time etc.)
In solitude are the true golden moments were every good attribute within you blossoms in ways that are unimaginable and inconceivable to the human mind, I simply cannot put this into words.
Every civilisation before us believed that in solitude you find your spirit and through that spirit you find God, it's why meditation is done in solitude and why much of the prison population of hardened criminals embrace Islam or other forms of religion when placed in solitary confinement, were escapism is no longer a choice.
Boredom is nothing more then a manufactured state of mind induced by Television, even in the oxford dictionary the word itself doesn't date back further then the 19th century, the term never existed in any civilisation before, it's a powerfull societal conditioning, a whole market is created for this stimulation which the elites profit from.
My message to you is to embrace it, don't be scared of it, don't run away from it towards cheap escapism that destroys your spirit and leaves you more empty, which you will regret dearly later in life.
I had the same experience at 19 when I was thrown abroad for work in a foreign country whose language I didn't speak nor understood, I was forced to confront all of this and became a better person as a result. this is make or break for you.
In that solitude state you are forced to think deeply about things you never did, you discover things about yourself that you never knew, you reflect about life in ways you never had before which results in big changes for your own betterment, these are all things that people run away from today through escapism (TV, clubs, parties, shiisha, going out all the time etc.)
In solitude are the true golden moments were every good attribute within you blossoms in ways that are unimaginable and inconceivable to the human mind, I simply cannot put this into words.
Every civilisation before us believed that in solitude you find your spirit and through that spirit you find God, it's why meditation is done in solitude and why much of the prison population of hardened criminals embrace Islam or other forms of religion when placed in solitary confinement, were escapism is no longer a choice.
Boredom is nothing more then a manufactured state of mind induced by Television, even in the oxford dictionary the word itself doesn't date back further then the 19th century, the term never existed in any civilisation before, it's a powerfull societal conditioning, a whole market is created for this stimulation which the elites profit from.
My message to you is to embrace it, don't be scared of it, don't run away from it towards cheap escapism that destroys your spirit and leaves you more empty, which you will regret dearly later in life.
I had the same experience at 19 when I was thrown abroad for work in a foreign country whose language I didn't speak nor understood, I was forced to confront all of this and became a better person as a result. this is make or break for you.
Merchant of Mogadishu
From Pella to Pattala, then back to Babylon
Living alone is a good way to reconnect with yourself, with Allah and the world. I plan on living alone somewhere in the steppe regions of Mā warāʼ al Nahr, Insha'Allah
(Also a perfect place to learn the forgotten arts of horsemanship and archery)
(Also a perfect place to learn the forgotten arts of horsemanship and archery)
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Cambuulo Tonight
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Move in with your gf but make sure your parents don't find out though.
Apollo
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I'm dying out of boredom mayne what should i do? I come from a big family so this feels kinda weird. Tfw you come back to the house and there is no one to talk to
How can you be bored when you have internet? Literally a billion different options for entertainment.
Boredom doesn't exist in the modern world.
bloody hell.. get outta there man. you know you are fucked when you have ss on tv.
I'm losing it
Apollo
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I AM ON TV!! WOOT WOOT
DuctTape
I have an IQ of 300
Looks like a Star Wars extra
We are not white ppl sxbEnjoy living alone man. Thats the best. you're crazy walle. smoke a bowl and crack a cold one. Why on earth would you want to live with other people.f*ck that. I plan on living alone for the rest of my life.
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