Ladies, you do not think us blokes should react?

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

'It is all right darling, enjoy life, you could do better though'.

Was I wrong in saying so?
Remember, no malice on my part, but naturally I have got no filter, and shall say that which no one else shall.

Backdrop:
I was having dinner with an old mate at a Pakistani restaurant, in Devon Ave., Chicago (this is mini Southall for those of you in London), and seated not far away was a young couple, a Somali lady, as I later learnt, with a young caddaan man. She glanced at our direction a couple of times, with that being the clue she indeed was Somali. I popped over to their table, with a smile, introduced myself, said the regular pleasantries, and returned to my mates. Of course, my bloody accent become a topical conversation, as usually happens in the US.

She was a class act, vivacious, stylish, with excellent mannerisms etc., whereas, in my mind's eye, he was well below par. I did not say it aloud then, but was enraged thinking, she could do so much be^tter.

Long story short, we finished before them, so I settled their bill, sort of my xaq al Eid to her.

She came over, thanked me, gave me a hug (I am not a hugger), and said she was a bit frightened when she first saw me thinking I would be nasty to her for being out with an ajnabi.

I said jokingly 'It is all right darling, enjoy life, you could do better though'.

I shared the encounter with my cousin, needless to say, she was livid.

Was I wrong in saying so?
Remember, no malice on my part, but naturally I have got no filter, and shall say that which no one else shall.

Ladies, please, if you must, do upgrade.

Postscript:
This I consider quite an improvement, for in my younger days, if we saw a Somali lady out with an ajnabi, or even showing interest, at best, we would have a strong word in her good ear, or at worse, beat the hell out of her. We did not even have to know her. This flows from the notion, rightly or not, that our ladies could be a bit naive, and could be taken advantage of. Or so we think.

 

[GemState]

if we saw a Somali lady out with an ajnabi, or even showing interest, at best, we would have a strong word in her good ear, or at worse, beat the hell out of her.

You serious?

 

[Internet Nomad]

'It is all right darling, enjoy life, you could do better though'.

Was I wrong in saying so?
Remember, no malice on my part, but naturally I have got no filter, and shall say that which no one else shall.

Backdrop:
I was having dinner with an old mate at a Pakistani restaurant, in Devon Ave., Chicago (this is mini Southall for those of you in London), and seated not far away was a young couple, a Somali lady, as I later learnt, with a young caddaan man. She glanced at our direction a couple of times, with that being the clue she indeed was Somali. I popped over to their table, with a smile, introduced myself, said the regular pleasantries, and returned to my mates. Of course, my bloody accent become a topical conversation, as usually happens in the US.

She was a class act, vivacious, stylish, with excellent mannerisms etc., whereas, in my mind's eye, he was well below par. I did not say it aloud then, but was enraged thinking, she could do so much be^tter.

Long story short, we finished before them, so I settled their bill, sort of my xaq al Eid to her.

She came over, thanked me, gave me a hug (I am not a hugger), and said she was a bit frightened when she first saw me thinking I would be nasty to her for being out with an ajnabi.

I said jokingly 'It is all right darling, enjoy life, you could do better though'.

Was I wrong in saying so?
Remember, no malice on my part, but naturally I have got no filter, and shall say that which no one else shall.

Ladies, please, if you must, do upgrade.

Postscript:
This I consider quite an improvement, for in my younger days, if we saw a Somali lady out with an ajnabi, or even showing interest, at best, we would have a strong word in her good ear, or at worse, beat the hell out of her. We did not even have to know her. This flows from the notion, rightly or not, that our ladies could be a bit naive, and could be taken advantage of. Or so we think.

10/10 format.
Interesting story you sound like a really positive extrovert. If i was there i would've kept doing my thing but the fact you greeted her and payed for their meal is really cool.Maybe she deranked from a EXsomali to a self-hating Somali that evening.

But the last paragraph was a curve ball.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

You serious?

Of course. In London, we did.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

10/10 format.
Interesting story you sound like a really positive extrovert. If i was there i would've kept doing my thing but the fact you greeted her and payed for their meal is really cool.Maybe she deranked from a EXsomali to a self-hating Somali that evening.

But the last paragraph was a curve ball.

I was doing her a favour, mate, like an older brother would. The state of him though.

 

[Aurelian]

if we saw a Somali lady out with an ajnabi, or even showing interest, at best, we would have a strong word in her good ear, or at worse, beat the hell out of her. We did not even have to know her

This sounds fake

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

This sounds fake

You have not grown up in East London, have you?

 

[Odious Delirium]

'It is all right darling, enjoy life, you could do better though'.

Was I wrong in saying so?
Remember, no malice on my part, but naturally I have got no filter, and shall say that which no one else shall.

Backdrop:
I was having dinner with an old mate at a Pakistani restaurant, in Devon Ave., Chicago (this is mini Southall for those of you in London), and seated not far away was a young couple, a Somali lady, as I later learnt, with a young caddaan man. She glanced at our direction a couple of times, with that being the clue she indeed was Somali. I popped over to their table, with a smile, introduced myself, said the regular pleasantries, and returned to my mates. Of course, my bloody accent become a topical conversation, as usually happens in the US.

She was a class act, vivacious, stylish, with excellent mannerisms etc., whereas, in my mind's eye, he was well below par. I did not say it aloud then, but was enraged thinking, she could do so much be^tter.

Long story short, we finished before them, so I settled their bill, sort of my xaq al Eid to her.

She came over, thanked me, gave me a hug (I am not a hugger), and said she was a bit frightened when she first saw me thinking I would be nasty to her for being out with an ajnabi.

I said jokingly 'It is all right darling, enjoy life, you could do better though'.

Was I wrong in saying so?
Remember, no malice on my part, but naturally I have got no filter, and shall say that which no one else shall.

Ladies, please, if you must, do upgrade.

Yeah I have noticed they tend to downgrade when it comes to ajnabis not all but enough for it to be a trend. If your gonna date/marry out. Your standards for them should be way higher then what you would settle for in a somali but then again those that tend to date out are generally self haters and would settle for anything outside the somali community so that's probably it. There self hate doesn't allow them to see there actual worth unless a somali is involved in the equation. Then all of a sudden they have the most unreasonable and unrealistic standards.

This I consider quite an improvement, for in my younger days, if we saw a Somali lady out with an ajnabi, or even showing interest, at best, we would have a strong word in her good ear, or at worse, beat the hell out of her. We did not even have to know her. This flows from the notion, rightly or not, that our ladies could be a bit naive, and could be taken advantage of. Or so we think.

But why would you beat them up that's wild let them live there own life. its still there own choice at the end of the day no point involving ones self in strangers private affairs just because there somali

I'm sure those beating did nothing but make those girls hate abdis even more. Where you guys beating up the girls or the ajnabi they where with?

Anyways this all sound fake but if its true why would you pay for a random halimos haram date? You basically voluntarily cucked yourself
and there is no way you guys where going around beating people up for being seen with ajnabis

 

[Chase]

Anyone who believes this story has an IQ of a brick.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Yeah I have noticed they tend to downgrade when it comes to ajnabis not all but enough for it to be a trend. If your gonna date/marry out. Your standards for them should be way higher then what you would settle for in a somali but then again those that tend to date out are generally self haters and would settle for anything outside the somali community so that's probably it. There self hate doesn't allow them to see there actual worth unless a somali is involved in the equation. Then all of a sudden they have the most unreasonable and unrealistic standards.




But why would you beat them up that's wild let them live there own life. its still there own choice at the end of the day no point involving ones self in strangers private affairs just because there somali

I'm sure those beating did nothing but make those girls hate abdis even more. Where you guys beating up the girls or the ajnabi they where with?

I do not think they are self hating, but rather naive in the ways of the predators about.

See, we were brought up to look out, and look after our own.

Actually, many years later, I ran into one of the ladies, whom we once had to track down in Coventry, and remove out of a party with bunch of West Indies, she was very grateful. At the time I met her, she settled down with a couple of young ones.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Anyone who believes this story has an IQ of a brick.

This is probably a suprise to the young crowd, who could not care less if they saw a Somali lady being wronged, or abused in the street. Not to mention, they themselves being the abusers

 

[Odious Delirium]

See, we were brought up to look out, and look after our own.

Actually, many years later, I ran into one of the ladies, whom we once had to track down in Coventry, and remove out of a party with bunch of West Indies, she was very grateful. At the time I met her, she settled down with a couple of young ones.

That I understand I thought you just saw a random somali talking to an ajnabi and decided to beat them up.

I understand the whole looking out for vulnerable somalis in the community

 

[Aurelian]

You have not grown up in East London, have you?

Never set a foot there.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

That I understand I thought you just saw a random somali talking to an ajnabi and decided to beat them up.

I understand the whole looking out for vulnerable somalis in the community

Yes, some randomly, but mostly lasses we knew of their families in our neighbourhood, whom we suspected were up to no good.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Never set a foot there.

Bloody fule. I bet you would not even come to your sister's rescue, if she were being devoured by a bunch of wolves.

 

[Aurelian]

Bloody fule. I bet you would not even come to your sister's rescue, if she were being devoured by a bunch of wolves.

Who rescuing my sister from a possible dangerous is linked to me not being in that shithole you call london? My sister will never go to such places to begin with.

 

[Abu Hesi]

That could have been her husband though, what made you think he was just a bf?

 

[JackieBurkhart]

Anyways this all sounds fake but if it's true why would you pay for a random halimos haram date? You basically voluntarily cucked yourself

You guys need to stop using this word, it's a sign of mental degradation at this point. People doing favors for other Somalis is nothing new, it's unnecessarily making things weird when you say that stuff. He's not being cucked, they were never together nor was there a possibility. Ignoring that, they don't even know each other. He was simply happy to see another Somali, that's all.

Quite frankly using that word makes it seem as if they own the women of their ethnicity and the women owe the men something. They don't, please stop using this word.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Who rescuing my sister from a possible dangerous is linked to me not being in that shithole you call london? My sister will never go to such places to begin with.

And if she were to have done so and caught up in a tussle, what would you have done?

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

For the record, I know Somali ladies married to ajnabi: one married to a caddaan living on a nice farm just outside of Madison; they grow organic produce, with a bee farm, their honey being one of the best, a lovely couple; another married to a gentleman from Trinadad, I think, a lawyer, again a lovely couple.