Ladies would you let your husband get a second wife.

[Gibiin-Udug]

Lets say you got married because of love, you're in love with your husband and he loves you back. You've been married for some time and you have kids, all the kids are daughters. And he keeps hinting that he wants a son.

Would you let him get married a second wife or tell him, daughters are the new sons, deal with it waryaa!

Personally I would never, I would rather castrate him and not let him have any kids at all.

 

[Omar del Sur]

He doesn't need permission from the first wife.

 

[Tukraq]

Lets say you got married because of love, you're in love with your husband and he loves you back. You've been married for some time and you have kids, all the kids are daughters. And he keeps hinting that he wants a son.

Would you let him get married a second wife or tell him, daughters are the new sons, deal with it waryaa!

Personally I would never, I would rather castrate him and not let him have any kids at all.

The reason he’s only getting daughters is because of him not the wife

 

[Kanini]

Tell him he needs to talk some sense into his sperm. Apparently, that's where gender is decided

 

[Muji]

If he wants a son I can marry another man and he can play step dad

 

[Abdisamad]

Personally I would never, I would rather castrate him and not let him have any kids at all.

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[Ayubi]

To answer @Gibiin-Udug and all women in this forum.

In Islam, marriage is a contract for which the Shari`ah lays down rules and arrangements to guarantee its stability. Though Islam permits man to have more than a wife, it stipulates that certain conditions are to be met in this regard, for Islam’s main focus is on building a stable marital life.

Answering your question, Sheikh Al-Munajjid, a prominent Saudi Muslim lecturer and author, states:

“If a man is able to take a second wife, physically and financially, and he can treat both wives in a just manner, and he wants to, then he is allowed to do so according to Islam. Allah says, “Then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four.” (An-Nisa’: 3)

It is well known that women are by nature jealous and reluctant to share their husband with other women. Women are not to be condemned for this jealousy, for it existed in the best of righteous women, the wives of the Companions, and even in the Mothers of the Believers. But women should not let jealousy make them object to that which Allah has permitted, and they should not try to prevent it; a wife should allow her husband to marry another woman for this is a kind of cooperating in righteousness and piety.

The first wife’s consent is not a prerequisite for a man to take another wife. The Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas was asked about this and replied as follows:

It is not obligatory for the husband, if he wants to take a second wife, to have the consent of his first wife, but it is good manners and kindness to deal with her in such a manner that will minimize the hurt feelings such thing might produce. So it’s incumbent on the husband to be kind to his wife, discuss the matter with her in a gentle and pleasant manner, and this should be coupled with spending whatever money may be necessary in order to gain her acceptance of the situation.”

So in the light of the above, it’s clear that the matter is not just having a right to do so, it’s how you use that right. As we have said in many fatwas how Islam caters for the rights of women, men should not tamper with rights that Islam made inalienable to women, part of which is to respect their humanity. They are not property that can be done with at any time without any consideration; women are life partners.

www.islam-qa.com

 

[Abdisamad]

In Islam, marriage is a contract for which the Shari`ah lays down rules and arrangements to guarantee its stability. Though Islam permits man to have more than a wife, it stipulates that certain conditions are to be met in this regard, for Islam’s main focus is on building a stable marital life.

Answering your question, Sheikh Al-Munajjid, a prominent Saudi Muslim lecturer and author, states:

“If a man is able to take a second wife, physically and financially, and he can treat both wives in a just manner, and he wants to, then he is allowed to do so according to Islam. Allah says, “Then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four.” (An-Nisa’: 3)

It is well known that women are by nature jealous and reluctant to share their husband with other women. Women are not to be condemned for this jealousy, for it existed in the best of righteous women, the wives of the Companions, and even in the Mothers of the Believers. But women should not let jealousy make them object to that which Allah has permitted, and they should not try to prevent it; a wife should allow her husband to marry another woman for this is a kind of cooperating in righteousness and piety.

The first wife’s consent is not a prerequisite for a man to take another wife. The Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas was asked about this and replied as follows:

It is not obligatory for the husband, if he wants to take a second wife, to have the consent of his first wife, but it is good manners and kindness to deal with her in such a manner that will minimize the hurt feelings such thing might produce. So it’s incumbent on the husband to be kind to his wife, discuss the matter with her in a gentle and pleasant manner, and this should be coupled with spending whatever money may be necessary in order to gain her acceptance of the situation.”

Excerpted, with slight modifications, form: www.islam-qa.com

So in the light of the above, it’s clear that the matter is not just having a right to do so, it’s how you use that right. As we have said in many fatwas how Islam caters for the rights of women, men should not tamper with rights that Islam made inalienable to women, part of which is to respect their humanity. They are not property that can be done with at any time without any consideration; women are life partners.

All the faraxs in the forum after reading this.

 

[Samaalic Era]

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@Gibiin-Udug will bring gifts to her husband when he announces his second marriage. She is very obedient and nurturing in truth sxb:siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Basra]

Lets say you got married because of love, you're in love with your husband and he loves you back. You've been married for some time and you have kids, all the kids are daughters. And he keeps hinting that he wants a son.

Would you let him get married a second wife or tell him, daughters are the new sons, deal with it waryaa!

Personally I would never, I would rather castrate him and not let him have any kids at all.

Well I got NEWS for u!

If he marries another wife, she will give him daughters too. He needs to make Dua to Allaah swt if he wants sons.

I know many men who did that

 

[Luciddreamer]

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She totally went there holy sht.

Women joke about chopping gus like its some casual sht.

Imagine the hysteria if we would joke about chopping breasts like that.

 

[Muji]

To answer @Gibiin-Udug and all women in this forum.

In Islam, marriage is a contract for which the Shari`ah lays down rules and arrangements to guarantee its stability. Though Islam permits man to have more than a wife, it stipulates that certain conditions are to be met in this regard, for Islam’s main focus is on building a stable marital life.

Answering your question, Sheikh Al-Munajjid, a prominent Saudi Muslim lecturer and author, states:

“If a man is able to take a second wife, physically and financially, and he can treat both wives in a just manner, and he wants to, then he is allowed to do so according to Islam. Allah says, “Then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four.” (An-Nisa’: 3)

It is well known that women are by nature jealous and reluctant to share their husband with other women. Women are not to be condemned for this jealousy, for it existed in the best of righteous women, the wives of the Companions, and even in the Mothers of the Believers. But women should not let jealousy make them object to that which Allah has permitted, and they should not try to prevent it; a wife should allow her husband to marry another woman for this is a kind of cooperating in righteousness and piety.

The first wife’s consent is not a prerequisite for a man to take another wife. The Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas was asked about this and replied as follows:

It is not obligatory for the husband, if he wants to take a second wife, to have the consent of his first wife, but it is good manners and kindness to deal with her in such a manner that will minimize the hurt feelings such thing might produce. So it’s incumbent on the husband to be kind to his wife, discuss the matter with her in a gentle and pleasant manner, and this should be coupled with spending whatever money may be necessary in order to gain her acceptance of the situation.”

Excerpted, with slight modifications, form: www.islam-qa.com

So in the light of the above, it’s clear that the matter is not just having a right to do so, it’s how you use that right. As we have said in many fatwas how Islam caters for the rights of women, men should not tamper with rights that Islam made inalienable to women, part of which is to respect their humanity. They are not property that can be done with at any time without any consideration; women are life partners.

That’s not my answer and don’t you dare try to answer for me again you lizard.

 

[Furioso]

I would adopt. There are many kids that are in need of parents.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

@Gibiin-Udug will bring gifts to her husband when he announces his second marriage. She is very obedient and nurturing in truth sxb:siilaanyolaugh:

Snip snip

 

[beenleey]

Doesn’t the man’s sperm dictate the baby’s gender anyway? The better question is... would I leave him for a man who can give me a son?

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Doesn’t the man’s sperm dictate the baby’s gender anyway? The better question is... would I leave him for a man who can give me a son?

Tell that to ignorant Somali men!!

They think the eggs control the gender.

 

[Abdisamad]

@Gibiin-Udug will bring gifts to her husband when he announces his second marriage. She is very obedient and nurturing in truth sxb:siilaanyolaugh:

Since you are my Sspot brother and all I won't sugar coat it.. @Gibiin-Udug is an mj.. They sleep with a knife under their pillow becareful sxb

 

[Luciddreamer]

Doesn’t the man’s sperm dictate the baby’s gender anyway? The better question is... would I leave him for a man who can give me a son?

Is this some suugo science or real?

 

[Abdisamad]

Tell that to ignorant Somali men!!

They think the eggs control the gender.

If she can't pop out 10 boys I'm going for second, third and fourth wife

 

[Ayubi]

@Gibiin-Udug will bring gifts to her husband when he announces his second marriage. She is very obedient and nurturing in truth sxb:siilaanyolaugh:

She acts reckless on here but probably very miskiin in real life lool

That’s not my answer and don’t you dare try to answer for me again you lizard.

looks like the femonazi xalimo has been triggered:siilaanyolaugh: